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Hi sir t hugs, i voted it doesnt matter as long are both happy.xxxxxxxxxx come and roll in the mud i wanna get dirty.
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3/20/2008 7:59 am |
I would never be with someone younger than myself. Even if it was 2 years younger. 5-8 years older is about perfect for me. 10 is pushing it. He would have to be an energetic 44 year old. Everyone has to decide for themselves what is right for them.
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3/20/2008 9:11 am |
Hi  it doesnt matter ..the most important for me is how and what kind person is with whom i want to be my ex bf was 20 year older then me wish you nice day there and lots of love on your way hugssAll I really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt
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My ex was 18 years older than me, bored me stupid eventually when his age REALLY showed in his attitude Now I'd look for 'a toyboy'  The last two (both were just one of dates) were 12 years younger and although quite immature, they looked good on my arm  Home of the hammered hearts club
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Entrance: If you'd come sailing with me for a week this Summer, I'd like to try to influence your position on men in their late 50's.... in a POSITIVE manner, of course!!!!!
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3/20/2008 4:16 pm |
Sir_T replies on 3/20/2008 10:58 pm: I'm curious. Was he young at heart? Are you still friends? Is he crazy for letting you get away?  yes he is young at heart and very good person with big heart, and yes we are still friends All I really need is love, but a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt
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3/20/2008 5:44 pm |
some people will tend to use the age difference to benifit themselves in a heated conversation and call the younger just a todler and THAT will stir up anger for sure however as long as they is a high level of maturity been exercise at all time there should be no problem  I had a class mate who was in her twenties and her boyfriend was in his sixties (older than here parents) don't worry  I have got your back
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3/21/2008 9:50 am |
Have a Lovely Easter, James *Hugs* . ...to much drama and I'm gone
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3/23/2008 9:23 pm |
My first reaction was that more than 20 was creepy. As that would make them either 69....I would probably kill them in a week, or 29.... I could have had a son that age...... I don't have a lot of experience, but I think it would be nice to have similar memories, or experiences. The guy I had been sort of seeing since my divorce, though 6 years younger was born and raised in England. He is the youngest of 5, so his parents are the same age as mine would have been. They both experienced WW2 and the depression, and talked with their kids. He is a total RAF nut. And we often talk in like a code......using WW2 'speak',my dad missed out on joining the RAAF as he was in essential services, but used to love to tell us about it. Then there is the problem, that I go out with guys my age, and......they have had the life sucked out of them.....and seem to think the world will be ending and there is nothin they can do..... and they seem soooo old. Holy Smokes. Then I have clients from 18-85, and they are vital, bright smart articulate.....and I know I am doing their taxes, but the repartee is great. So it could be that is not about numbers at all. I think it requires more research
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I've had boyfriends 5 years younger, and a boyfriend 9 years older than I am, but eventually I married someone three weeks younger than me. Every time my birthday rolls around (AaaaaaHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!! 40 this May!!!!!!!!) he starts to quip about having a hot older woman in his bed, with accompanying leer. But the thing about my husband is that he may be just my age, but he's taught me so much more than even my older boyfriends ever had, both in how I look at life and in learning new things. I think of him as an old soul in a young man's body, and we connect cerebrally in a way I never have with men my age. Interestingly though, I've just realized most of the guy friends I've made online are a lot older than I am--in their 60s at least, and I find them very interesting to talk to because their outlook is very different from younger men. Amazing, I love exchanging emails with them because there is so much I learn, and their wit is fast and furious and thoroughly enjoyable. I think age doesn't matter as much as you grow older, because you've already lived your life for a while. But a 16 year old gal and a 36 year old man and vice versa? Um, nope. Wait around a few more years though, and someone who's 36 with someone 56 doesn't seem like a stretch anymore. I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.
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