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dementeddragon
(Delia WG)
66F
202 posts
10/4/2006 2:46 pm

Last Read:
10/20/2006 9:40 am

What is FF to you?

There seems to be two basic thoughts - one being that FF is a place to meet people of the opposite gender in order to get laid. The other is that it's a place to meet friends, regardless of gender. I'm sure there are other ideas.
FF is a place to meet someone of the opposite gender in order to get laid
FF is a place to meet new friends regardless of gender
FF is a place to exchange ideas and learn
FF is a place to state my opinions
FF is just for fun
FF is my only socialization due to job/family/school
FF is where I contact my friends
other


Sanity and normalcy are over-rated


heartofgoldxoxo
(Heartofgold )
54F

10/4/2006 4:46 pm

I have Friend Finder to thank for meeting Ron (HolyDad1). We have developed a trusting friendship and have learned so much from each other. I have also enjoyed reading blogs from other members in which I have met on Friend Finder. I look forward to meeting more members to socialize, share ideas, feelings, happiness, and tears. We all seem to be here for one another and it's nice.
Cherie


Tigresse99999 63F

10/4/2006 10:35 pm

I joined FF to hopefully meet my mate, well almost 2 years later didn't find anyone worthwhile. Lot of the men are users and do not take anything seriously. Sure we can come here an exchange ideas in the Magazine and in the chat rooms. I was a gold member for one year, so eventhough, I had the power and option to search and write emails and respond to emails, it really didn'tdo me much good as the people I wanted didn't necessarily want me, and of course most of the men interested in me, I wasn't interested in them, either 10 years older or 20 years younger, or too perverted. It is as if the men are placing an order at the bar, what they want, and if you aren't it to a T, then you can forget it. That has been my experience here. But also there are married men here saying they aren't married, or they admit to being married, so how can one have a relationship with a man that is married already? I want a man all to myself, no sharing, no one hour here, one hour there, that is not a good life, and it isn't the relationship I am looking for: been there, done that. What I am looking for is a full relationship with a good looking man, with a good personality and humour and do things together, go to the beach, go out for a walk in the woods, by the river, lake. Relax together, talk, take care of one another, be content. Tigresse99999 (post 36489)


Wolfwoman 64F

10/5/2006 8:31 pm

Tigressse99999, tell me about it, Girlfriend! I hear ya and I agree with your post. Sounds like me, except I have been on this site for a lot longer, and have not met one decent guy. I have given up finding anyone on this site. I just sign on to leave an occasional response to the relationship magazine, but that's about it.

(The following is only my opinion and in no way applies to anyone who may read this, so please do not be offended. I just want to share my insights. When I say "UGLY", I am only referring to myself, not the reader, okay? Thanks!)

In my personal experience, I am also registered on other singles sites, and I have learned that as in real life, men are not interested in ugly women, such as myself. I am only ugly on the outside, though, the inside is stunningly beautiful.

I love that new TV show, "Ugly Betty", because OMG, that is my life. Many people have treated me rudely and shunned me because of my appearance, they make fun of me, and people I don't even know make rude comments in passing. Trust me, I know that "ugly" doesn't sell, only on TV!

So I have resigned myself to be single for the rest of my life, all because of appearance. Not personality, not my sense of humor, but my appearance. And, ladies, really, despite what ANY guy says (even the ugly ones), LOOKS DO MATTER, from my experience.

As for Ugly being the new beautiful, I wish! Can you imagine how popular I would be? LOL


LouiseJoanne
(LOUISE JOANNE)
52F
337 posts
10/6/2006 4:45 am

Well yes, I could have voted on several of your poll choices!

As I do not socialize much outside of the house, just too shy, you see

But I do tend to have A LOT of opinions of just about EVERYTHING and I like expressing them on FF, even if, sometimes, other members do not always appreciate my opinions , LOL!

This site is an outlet for me, in many ways. It allows me to display my creativity with my ideas and writing! And it allows me to break free from my daily routine of housework, school runs, and cooking once in a while!

Mind you, all said, FF, is also becoming a bit of a bad habit, I shall have to limit my time spent on this site!

Louise . x


Prettytall000 66F

10/10/2006 2:34 pm

voted "for fun" because for most of us, potential mates live so far away that the concept seems very unrealistic.

As for those who pretend that this system is a place to meet women to get l.... to tell you the truth, I strongly believe that their presumed s.. life consists of an active right hand. Their vocabulary is that of p o r n flicks (yes I've watched them with my ex). Nasty addiction. Worse than blogville and Mag addictions...

(Second try - my other post got denied for p r o f a ni t y. Oi.)


Prettytall000 66F

10/14/2006 7:50 am

"But you've got to be on your guard all the time, because no matter how close you seem to get on line / phone, a simple email or text and it's gone."

Humm. So very true, Fit. Even amongst people who have been dating for months and months!


stips 46M

10/20/2006 3:25 am

CAN help to find new job here by friends. Anybody can offer me a job????