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wanderinozzie
(Roger C)
66M
3041 posts
2/15/2007 4:33 am

Last Read:
9/16/2007 1:56 am

Life

Hmmm, ever stopped to count the blessings in your life.

Honestly, have you ever stopped, and discounted all the petty grievances that come our way daily, all the negative thoughts that we all find ourselves succumbing to occasionally, and having a really good look at how fortunate we all are?

Over the past months I have ridden the roller coaster of emotion, many days feeling lower than a snakes belly and totally worthless, then the next day feeling on the top of the world.

Don't like to admit it, being someone who considers them selves to be motivated and upbeat most of the time, however I WAS suffering a major case of STINKIN THINKIN..

You all know what that is?

It is when you cannot see the forest for the trees.

When the sun is in your eyes so you cannot see the sky.

When the darkness is so overwhelming that the morning seems too far away to wait for.

It is only in the past three weeks that I have finally stopped the world long enough to count my blessings.

Some of these are, in no particular order -

A spare tyre around my waist, so obviously I have enough to eat.

Family who care enough to ring me up, even when I feel more like banging my head against a wall, than talking to anyone.

A boss, even though our ideas are poles apart, who has enough respect for me to tolerate my negativity towards the company at times.

And, FRIENDS, both in the 3D world and as well as those in Cyberspace, who in my darkest hours light the way to sanity again and again.

I have fuel bills, so I must own a car.

My bank sends me lovely statements each month, regardless of what little I have in my bank account, so at least I know that they are aware of my existance.

And the extra energy used swatting away the pesky bush flies here in Ozzieland, some days on the road it is the most excercise I get.

And the joy in speaking to my , who is due to have a bub any day, the pregnancy has brought us closer than ever before.

I dont know about anyone elses experiences here, but there is something magic about one of your giving birth to your Grand .

The nuisance of having to iron clothes, at least this means I have good clothes that require ironing.

The frustration of going to the local supermarket, at least it means I have the money for food.

There are so many things that we take for granted, that really are blessings in disguise.

I challenge you all to be really honest, look at your life in a new light and see how many blessings you can identify, that you previously thought very little of.

Wishing you all peace, happiness and prosperity each and every day of your life.


"Those who say it cannot be done, are quite often interrupted by those doing it!"


agingone 63F

2/15/2007 6:09 am

stinkin thinkin---i like this use of words---stinkin thinkin---ha ha
this is a wonderful post --could not agree more with what i have red this morning---how very true---
enjoy the wee one---for they well they are just hmmmm miracles all there own---and so much fun to cuddle and spoil and guide and well on and on and on--------------

peace
kel


greenergass 47F
398 posts
2/15/2007 7:20 am

I just finished visiting with a former co-worker and sweet friend. I haven't seen her in a few years. We got together under somewhat unfortunate circumstances, however, it was nice to see her all the same.

In the midst of our conversation she acknowledged that although we have infrequent visits, she enjoyed them a great deal. We tend to not discuss petty things. She said she loves the fact that we get "right to the meat of it." During this conversation, I had music playing to create some white noise. She asked what it was and then I told her how I could not imagine my life without music. I then went on to voice how I'm grateful for ALL of my senses and would never want to sacrifice any one for another. Can you imagine life without the blessings of your senses?!

Anyway, I did want to stop by and say what a FANTASTIC post this is. Personally, I believe life should be less of getting what you want, but rather wanting what you've got. I'm not saying we shouldn't strive for excellence, however focus on being grateful for the little blessings in life that we ALREADY have. I brought this same topic up in my [post 48585] blog. Feel free to stop by and have a look.

-Leanne-


cutesmile216 59F
1402 posts
2/15/2007 10:26 am

That is the human brain for you, it never stops that "stinkin thinkin"
I think it would be neat to throw a few shovel and find some glitter, or do you have to pick your way into it? Either way sounds interesting.
I like your post and I know I am thankful for all my blessings-they are so many that I should write them all down. I say thanks to the mail when it comes and many blessings to those bills I get. From the smallest to the largest blessing, what ever size or shape, it really makes you think.
take care
Sylvia


palms33
(peta p)
54F

2/16/2007 2:55 am

Came across one of those "ladies who lunch" the other day and was down about having to work to eke out an existence. Your blog has cheered me up no end. At least I am able to work so I can make enough money to buy lotto tickets.


JustKeepLiving 62F

2/18/2007 11:16 am

If you pay attention to the darkness, you'll never find the light.
--Unknown

There are only two ways to live your life.
One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as though everything is a miracle.
--Albert Einstein

Blessings abound in every moment and every circumstance - if we only choose to look for them and focus on them!!
G'Day to you!