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Blogs > wanderinozzie > Wanderin Thoughts

wanderinozzie
(Roger C) 66M
3041 posts
6/23/2006 6:07 am

Last Read:
11/6/2006 1:50 am
What attracts you
Thought that since we have such a great communication device in FF I would ask-

What is the first think that attracts you to a member of the opposite \bsexo?\b???

And I mean the very first time youlook at them and think, Mmmmm not too bad, and they attract your attention.

Now be honest. Too often we say the things that we THINK others want to hear.
Is it their personality?
Is it their voice?
Is it their physical characteristics ( looks )?
Is it the way they present themselves?
Is it their facial features?
Or is it a combination of several factors?

"Those who say it cannot be done, are quite often interrupted by those doing it!"
Froggy21763 60F
549 posts
6/23/2006 7:11 am

 It would have to be their smile, or their expression. If I see someone who is enjoying themselves then I want to know more about them. Mind you have been attracted to the guy sitting in the corner with his beer and watching the people around him. I guess because of his awareness of the people around him. I have also spotted those great shoulders that taper down to a slim waist and tight fitting jeans over slim hips. But then a girl does have to admire the view, just because it is there.

OK I admit it the packaging does sometimes make a difference, don't gloat Rugged, I said I admitted that the outside is important to.

Froggy


EarthHostage 63F

6/23/2006 8:38 am

 I'm thinking it is the voice. Sometimes you hear a voice and you turn around to see who is talking. Then it's the usual split second assessment. Likely the symmetry is assessed height and then colouring of skin, hair, eyes, body hair and musculature. Their demeanour if it is friendly approachable a smile a wink, the way they are dressed an attitude.


cutesmile216 59F
1402 posts
6/23/2006 11:28 am

 Combination of things. It is hard on the dating site to know the whole character of the person, until you meet. I would vote on all the above, But the eyes have the most attraction. The light that reflects and the light that shines from those eyes when they see you !!!
That is when you meet, then the voice and smile.

Take care
Smile


allwoman4ever
(allwoman ) 61F

6/25/2006 6:42 pm

 The first thing wanderinozzie to ME is walking into a room and seeing his eyes light up. Its the LOOK seeing he appreciates this pretty woman. THAT along with his smile, eyes, personality and of course a nice set of POCKETS helps!LOL Just being honest!!


orangEwglad 47F

6/26/2006 5:09 pm

 The very first thing I notice about a person (honestly) is how they present themselves. There is NOTHING that catches my attention more than a smart dressed man that smells delicious!!! (If they are appealing from a distance, then, upon closer inspection I tend to notice eyes first and smile second.)


domedome2
(Jim B) 60M

6/28/2006 11:35 pm

 This question is not so inclusive to any particular time, and seeing how we are on the Net? My vote goes for "All of the above" including love at first bite.


Thai_Fon
(Thai Fon ) 58F

7/3/2006 8:25 pm

 I said 'looks' but beauty is in the eye of the beholder, isn't it!
Once you are attracted by his/her looks, then you can discover the 'real and lasting attraction', the person within.


redcee 67F

7/5/2006 9:36 am

 A combination of things, yes, but mostly a warm, welcoming smile that ooozes self-confidence, and sultry eyes .... that and a clean appearance, he doesn't have to be dressed up.




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