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gladheart4u
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25 posts
12/17/2006 10:42 am

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1/2/2007 11:21 am

Unmerry Christmas For Me!

The Christmas lights are bright and cheerful. There are so many parties around, so many family get togethers, so many social engagements with friends, co-workers, neighbors and acquaintances. Lots of fun and entertainments. Singing, dancing, dining, chatting, wining...whatever! Sumptuous and delicious meals are everywhere. Exchange gifts are wonderful. I meet old and new friends. But despite all these advance Christmas parties and scheduled Christmas celebration on December 25, I still feel so sad. Very sad. Because I go back home alone. I go to bed alone and lonely. So I think this Christmas will not be merry for me.


gambiteer49 69M
2536 posts
12/17/2006 1:21 pm

Christmas is a very lonely time sometimes especially after a breakup or the ending of a relationship. My advice is to find a friend or friends that are in a similar situation and arrange to get together with them and share some fun and conversation. There are others in a similar situation to yourself.

Another idea is to go see an aunt, an uncle or a relative who is older and all alone. Just think how much you could light up their life by spending some time with them.

All in all, listen to beautiful music, watch an inspiring movie or call a friend on the phone and talk to them. Just remember that maybe next year you will be in a relationship again with someone that you genuinely enjoy spending some time with.


Tibo69 71M

12/18/2006 9:45 am

It doesn't have to be lonely. All you have to do is give that "someone special," a certain "Sugar Bear" your phone number and he'll call you. I have it on reliable authority that this particular person is crazy about you, and wants to reassure you that it was just a misunderstanding, so don't be blue.