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FeuDesAstres 68M
1250 posts
6/28/2006 1:32 am

I assume phone numbers have already been exchanged, since a date has occurred.

Peck on the cheek, most likely, and discussion of more to come.


uneek5552 69F

6/28/2006 4:46 am

well I was thinking the same thing sense you already on a date your must already have the phone numbers a kisses on the cheek it depends how the first date went of course if you want to see each other again or not.I realy don't think a kiss is inportant the inportant thing is knowing you injoyed the night or day together and if you should go and find another number or keep the one you have and finding out what the next date would be like.


orangEwglad 47F

6/28/2006 5:10 am

I, too, was thinking all of these possibilities were providing there was chemistry. I think I would prefer a peck on the cheek and a hug after exchanging plans to meet up again, of course.


___7___ 59M

6/28/2006 9:09 am

I had to vote other on this one...I am not much of a these are the rules of dating kinda guy...it all depends on the person involved and the circumstances...the full spectrum is available in my book...but hey...thats just me (I hate first dates by the way)

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gambiteer49 69M
2536 posts
6/28/2006 9:15 am

Hahaha I think if the person shook my hand I would take that as an indication that they weren't exactly wild about me.

As others have already said there are soooo many variables here including how the two of us feel about one another and what kind of chemistry there is.

I think if I've been talking to the person on the phone regularly already or have already met the person that's different than if this is a blind date of sorts where we've never even seen or met each other.

I guess I'd consider a passionate kiss and a promise to get together again would be my primary choice. I don't know very many guys who would turn down an invite for the passionate nightcap in her apartment however if it were offered. LOL!

It's not like I'm going to say, "Naaaaahhhhh, I've got to get up at 10:00 AM tomorrow and kinda wanted to look over my auto repair manual tonight before bed." LMAO!

I think that the words, "Exchange of phone numbers" should read, "agreement to talk on the phone".


SHE160905 112F

6/28/2006 10:18 am

"A peck on the cheek and an invite to a second date".........

Surely, this will be my attitude especially if we have a very good time together. I will not allow this very nice opportunity to "slip" from my hands. I don't want to regret.

I want a second date to know him better and enjoy again his company.

Wanna join me for a glass of wine?


domedome2
(Jim B)
60M

6/28/2006 9:47 pm

Hand shake or a bear hug an phone number is the appropriate way to say silently that its been nice. A peck on the cheek and an invite to a second date is an exalant way to taste what you are about to bite into.

Please believe me "Love Bites" back an you never know how the catch is going to be if you are shy that first kiss.


texaschic4u2003
(Chrystal Sims)
38F
2 posts
6/29/2006 1:03 pm

I would say a hug, maybe kiss on the cheek, and exchange of numbers.


MS_SHORTY
(sue c)
57F

6/30/2006 3:25 pm

phone numbers i would have presumed have already been exchanged before the first date.
i guess it all depends on the chemistry on the night!
they total sweep you off your feet then it´s the big smooch.
it was pleasent and you got that warm feeling then a hug and a peck. not quite sure maybe the handshake.
but you just gotta do what feels right for you in the end.


cutesmile216 59F
1402 posts
7/1/2006 9:23 am

I, also choose the third. I like to talk with the person on the phone before the first date to here his voice, so he and I have already exchanged phone numbers. The kiss seals the first date and then you can decide on the next date. The eyes say it all, so if the chemistry kicks in then when the next date !!

Smile


allwoman4ever
(allwoman )
61F

7/1/2006 4:33 pm

You really want me to answer this one?? NOPE! I am takin the 5th!


redcee 67F

7/5/2006 9:54 am

Phone numbers out of the way LOL A date can be considered great, even though there's a handshake at the end, a touching of hands can be just as warm and "meaningful" as the kiss .....
I like being hugged and yes, a touch of the lips will tell me a lot more than a peck on the cheek. Most times tho, him being a gentleman, and if he's been paying attention throughout (body language is so tattle-tale!!) he'll let the lady indicate how she wishes to say goodnight, and simply follow her lead IMHO