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FeuDesAstres 68M
1250 posts
6/22/2006 7:21 pm

 I'd be happy to just be friends. Good friends are rare enough without losing one due to a lack of self-restraint.


___7___ 59M

6/22/2006 10:18 pm

 Well that's a can of worms there Miss Ingrid.

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___7___ 59M

6/22/2006 11:42 pm

 Miss Ingrid I wasn't talking about your situation specifically...I was talking about the topic of your poll as you posed it...and it may not be a can of worms after all...we shall have to see.

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I voted to be happy to just be friends.


SHE160905 112F

6/23/2006 9:56 am

 Miss INGRID, I voted for "be happy to be just friends".

I have never experienced the situation you're in now..... that must be difficult and maybe, tempting especially if the attraction is MUTUAL.

However, knowing myself, I remind you that it is only a personal view and no judging or whatsoever, I would already be very happy and grateful to have him as my friend.

But at the same time, I would not exclude any developpements IF ever his situation would change in the future. I mean by change in his situation is.... IF ever he would become single again or not attached anymore. But to be a cause of his break-up from his girl, I would NEVER to do that. I just don't want to wreck any household as I don't want any woman to wreck my own household either.
Wanna join me for a glass of wine?


allwoman4ever
(allwoman ) 61F

6/24/2006 8:38 pm

 Awww HELL!! I am the one who voted to tell him how you feel. Of course being a fly by the seat of the panties kinda girl my theory is what have you got to lose?! BUT I would also TELL HIM that since he is ATTACHED to ANOTHER you will NOT go there. SHE said it beautifully. I would not want my home wrecked nor be the cause of another. Thats just me!!


cutesmile216 59F
1402 posts
6/26/2006 9:11 pm

 Be happy with friends.
My values are against breaking up marriages or getting involved with any married man. Just not my thing.
Take care
Smile


domedome2
(Jim B) 60M

6/28/2006 11:55 pm

 Go right to what you think is the right thing to do. Don't play with fire! If I were you I would forget the man for now and go on; time waits for no one.


texaschic4u2003
(Chrystal Sims) 38F
2 posts
6/29/2006 2:20 pm

 Don't ruin a friendship over something that could be love. He already has that. Be friends and never tell him your feelings it would make you both feel strange to be around each other.




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