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fiestygirl72
(Dora B)
51F

4/14/2006 2:37 pm

Does an anullment count? If so then once for 3 long years. He wasn't very nice, very abusive. Hopefully when I do marry again it will be the last.
Good luck to those who've had a bad marriage and are divorced and good luck to those whom are in their search of happiness and best wishes to those who are still in their first. Love yall


ackman1465
(Daniel Slosek)
73M
647 posts
4/14/2006 4:10 pm

A guy needs to be married ONLY ONCE, to realize that he's been married!!!! After that, it's all "WHOOOooooooa, Nellie!!!!!!!"


Ivygirl003 69F
84 posts
4/14/2006 6:20 pm

Been married once. Widow now. I agree with you about the mockery people make of marriage. I do not know if I would remarry or not. I do not know that I would want my children to be a part of what can be a complext extended family. My goal is to raise my kids with the values that marriage is for life, and to work their way through whatever comes there way. Isn't it interesting how some people don't seem to have a second thought of the blended familys. How are the kids handling this? Are they valued as they should? To me that is an important question that needs careful consideration before exposing them to that life.


firbrthndrgnslr 60M

4/14/2006 9:03 pm

Hi,

L.

Is it your fault if your spouse bails???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

Sincerely,

Chris.


darkstormylady
(Katrina A)
62F

4/15/2006 4:26 am

I'm working on my fifth marriage and this one's going to the dogs quick. I've only been married once in a church, the rest have been in a j.p.'s office. I just have to wonder now though... what is my problem? lol


EarthHostage 63F

4/15/2006 7:45 am

Yes it is your faul if your spouse bails.


Usd2BEastCoaster
(Judy C)
65F

4/15/2006 3:04 pm

Once. I don't really care if I ever get married again or not but I do hope to end up in a committed relationship, maybe live together. I'm seeing someone now that could be that guy but it's hard to know.


Usd2BEastCoaster
(Judy C)
65F

4/15/2006 3:08 pm

You're too young to be losing hope. She's out there looking for you.


SHE160905 112F

4/16/2006 1:21 pm

I am separated from my husband since August 2005 and we are supposed to be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary this coming April 27, 2006......

Our divorce is pending and most probably, I'll have it before September this year.

As a Roman Catholic, I or my soon-to-be ex-husband can't get married again in church UNLESS one of us dies or if our marriage is ANNULED. We have two children (15 and 6 years old) and no justified reason to have it annuled.

I believe in marriage and I know that I'll try it the second time.

Wanna join me for a glass of wine?


bigdad974 50M
2 posts
4/16/2006 1:35 pm

I've never been married.Was going to once.After 3 yrs,my former buddy apparently had more to offer her.They were married a month later.And the hits just keep on comin'!!


allwoman4ever
(allwoman )
61F

4/16/2006 5:09 pm

Once. I loved the man with every bit of my heart and soul. I just married the WRONG man. Saying I do did not include years of escalating abuse.


cutesmile216 59F
1402 posts
4/16/2006 10:00 pm

I have been married once, now I am widow. Never would have missed it for the world. I don't know if marriage will be in the picture for me, but Mr. Right is very welcome. I have had a wonderful partner and I will be open when the next one comes along.
Good question and good answers. That's what it's all about experiences.


cutesmile216 59F
1402 posts
4/16/2006 10:05 pm

I have been married once, now I am a widow. I won't have missed it for the world. I have had a wonderful partner and would be open to Mr. Right if he came along. That's what it is all about experiences.
Good poll and good answers.


derwahreoldman 65M

4/18/2006 3:35 am

I was married for two times. The relationship with my first wife was 19 years. We met on school. My second wife was only looking for my money and i was blind. Now I'm alone. I'm looking, but i don't find the right one!


LouiseJoanne
(LOUISE JOANNE)
52F
337 posts
4/18/2006 11:25 am

Hi Guys,I'm back, with a new handle!
The kids messed up the computer, so we've had to reload windows yet again, and lost all files, passwords, yet again!

LOL!

Louise . x


LouiseJoanne
(LOUISE JOANNE)
52F
337 posts
4/18/2006 11:31 am

NEVER BEEN MARRIED MYSELF!

NO SUCH LUCK!

MY MISTAKE WAS HAVING 3 KIDS OUT OF WEDLOCK!
NO MAN WANTS TO MARRY A WOMAN WITH 3 ILLEGITIMATE CHILDREN!

MY PARTNER WONT HEAR OF MARRIAGE!

SO TGOT SOMETHING TO DO WITH HIM HANGING ONTO HIS ASSETS, AND MAKING SURE I NEVER GOT ANY OF HIS FORTUNE!SO THERE GOES MY DREAM OF WALKING DOWN THE AISLE IN A BEAUTIFUL WHITE WEDDING GOWN, WITH MY KIDS AS BRIDESMAIDS AND PAGEBOY!

Louise . x


newntown67 56F

4/20/2006 8:58 am

Well Bigdaddy, the hit was better to happen before than after, her loss I'ld bet. In my opinion it is so damn easy to get married or get to the alter however, should you want out....well that takes much longer. With the rate of failed marriages, that role should be reversed I would say. Some folks just aren't marriage material - nothing wrong with that. I salute those who are in long term marriages and both still in love. A rare breed. Relationships, romantic or otherwise, can be hard work. Make sure you're up for it! Let's just say hard lessons learned here. Married once - once!

Allwoman4ever, beautiful photo - just thought to let you know.


Prettytall000 66F

4/23/2006 6:42 am

Quoting Art Director:

"Nope.. Only your fault is, you look perfect so that is too much for a man

YESS girlss..
If you are beautiful ,
you allways want more, more, more..
and more..and more and more.."


I know for a fact that this a perception held by many, many males. The irony of it all is that so-called beautiful and perfect women then get asked, "how can it be that you're not sharing your life with anyone???"

PrettyT


SHE160905 112F

4/25/2006 2:45 am

KEEPING4EVER, thank you very much for sharing with me your own experience and also to your advice....

Wanna join me for a glass of wine?


buulandijjun
(Krzysztof )
37M
3 posts
4/30/2006 3:52 am

you beautiful


ackman1465
(Daniel Slosek)
73M
647 posts
5/1/2006 5:59 am

No man is "complete" until he's married.

THEN, he's finished....