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Ari_fairy
5/5/2008 9:29 pm |
They named my blow up doll at work. I'm not sharing the name. However, I do have a question for anyone who has a blow up doll....male, thanks...anatomically correct...which was only $5 extra...OMG....I am so going to get even with Michelle. Anyway...my question is....where do you blow it up? Cause....there are some things....that just aren't happening....lol.... Dean came over tonight to try to play with the bird from hell. This weekend she gave him kisses...and nearly climbed on his hand. Tonight she turned her nose up....but let him rub her beak. I'm thinking that's called....getting fresh with the bird. Actually, he came over to get some left over biscuits and gravy. It's not my favorite and I figured he might like something...that's not hot dogs and macaroni and cheese....blech. I'm not quite sure how we got on the topic....of dating and relationships and what each of us would like to find in the future. Dean wants to get married again...holy crows...how many times is it legal to get married? But he wants to date for a couple of years first...platonically....he says he no longer believes in sex outside marriage. I'll believe that when I see it. I'm not sure I'll ever get married again. I'd have to really believe in a man to bind myself to him that closely. I do believe in sex outside marriage...but I believe in sex in a committed relationship...not casually. I might consider a handfasting...for a year and a day...and see where that takes us...but....I just don't know if I want to give anyone the key to me again. I still believe marriage is meant to be....forever. Dean had no clue what a handfasting was...."Is that the same thing as 'do it yourself, Ari?'"....he was blushing when he asked. I had to laugh out loud. OMG....heck no....it's similar to being married...but you can choose to bind yourself for a year and a day...instead of for....all the rest of your days....and it has nothing to do with....what you said, Dean....lol... He's barely speaking to me now...he's too embarassed. Well ya know...I talk about lots of things with Dean....but...do it yourself is not one of them. I guess I should cut him a break....Michelly thought the same thing. I'm thinking some people have naughty minds....and it isn't me. For once. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari 
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5/6/2008 1:54 am |
Ah, a handshake instead of a kiss lol We all could use a helping hand now and then Ari  That's what friends are for  I am sure that you are quite handy to have around  Oh, gosh how many more of these can I think of? lmao Ok, I am in a silly mood this morning. It's 3:40am. I guess that makes me a morning person huh? lol Celtic/Neopagan rituals leave me wanting lolWell, you will have to excuse me now, I'm off to find my Jergens lotion. After all no one likes to have chapped hands now do they? Have a great day!!! Bill Standplatz und liefert
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 5/6/2008 8:45 pm |
I've been blessed twice to have two wonderful marriages, I know one is just a little under 6 months old...but still.... I pray that you will have the relationship that you need...whether it's marriage, living together, or friends. A good relationship will enhance your love...your laughter...your happiness...your life...it doesn't give you those things...but it does enhance them
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5/6/2008 9:01 pm |
Ah, a handshake instead of a kiss lol We all could use a helping hand now and then Ari That's what friends are for I am sure that you are quite handy to have around Oh, gosh how many more of these can I think of? lmao Ok, I am in a silly mood this morning. It's 3:40am. I guess that makes me a morning person huh? lol Celtic/Neopagan rituals leave me wanting lolWell, you will have to excuse me now, I'm off to find my Jergens lotion. After all no one likes to have chapped hands now do they? Have a great day!!! Bill How have you been lately? Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
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5/6/2008 9:08 pm |
I've been blessed twice to have two wonderful marriages, I know one is just a little under 6 months old...but still.... I pray that you will have the relationship that you need...whether it's marriage, living together, or friends. A good relationship will enhance your love...your laughter...your happiness...your life...it doesn't give you those things...but it does enhance them I'm not afraid of being in another relationship...and a part of me looks forward to it with pleasure...but another part of me...wonders if I will have the ability to recognize a strong relationship. Don't get me wrong...I'm not worried about it...or afraid of it. I can look at my friendship with Dean...and know that we would almost certainly never build anything stronger than a good friendship together....but when it counts...when someone draws me that deeply....will I be able to walk away from the relationships that should never be....or will I NEED to be loved so much....that I am willing to settle. It really made me think this weekend....when Dean made a comment about the kind of woman he wants to date....and the kind of woman he'll "settle" for. I never want to need anything so much....that I'll settle for something that isn't right for me. You are right....the right relationship....enhances everything good...and mitigates the things that are not so great....but can't do anything to make us happy....only to enhance it. Nicely put, Mary. How are you feeling? Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
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5/7/2008 2:32 am |
lol....Bill...you tickled my funny bone. I love Celtic rituals....and I'm truly not sure about the idea of being married again. A healthy, strong relationship doesn't require it....and while...the relationship is an attractive draw....I'd have to feel sure that it....and that level of commitment...meant the same thing to my partner. That's pretty essential for me going forward....building something strong and healthy....friendships as well as anything more. How have you been lately? I am on the clock though and time is running out. lol Keepin it casualBill Standplatz und liefert
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