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Blogs > aileen81 > Cheerish

aileen81 43F
594 posts
6/13/2008 7:39 pm

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6/14/2008 7:17 pm
The sexual preference rights

I was asked once by a friend when i went to his house while i was in university. Do you mind if i am a gay ?
My answer is short of like this "uhmm..ohh.. no"

I watch tv about people that born with genetic disability that made them "trapped" inside the wrong body.
First in my thought that was impossible, because God almighty create human as perfect as it should..(too naive thought i know).
I know theres some people not able to see since they were born.. but they've been blessed with beautiful voice. Or a person can't walk since they were baby, able to paint like normal people. Thats what i said about being perfect in one other way.

Back to genetics.
Fist i said i wont mind with my friend being gay just for politeness. Then now i think again..
This guy who claimed him self as a gay, give his seat to a pregnant woman on bus while other man on the bus pretend not see that pregnant woman sweat and pale stand on the bus door. This man who claimed him self as gay, donate his clothes to a guy who collect garbage from house to house for charity every 6 months. He open door for girl, and help a little girl that fell of her bike to stand up again. He pray for his boyfriend to always safe where ever he go, and He is.. nice.. and he love life.

Beside his preference of being a gay, he just a sweet and kind human. I've seen worse type of man who claimed them self as a man.. but hit their wife, and do worse things.

...how could i had this bad thought about him ?
I respect his decision to be a gay, i respect other decision about their sexual preference... who am i to judge him ? to decide whether he is going to hell or heaven... i am not God.
Its his "private" business with Him (God)at the end of the world.. not other people here in these world.

And i like that guy to be my friend !!

aileen81 43F
373 posts
6/14/2008 7:17 pm
    Quoting Mistytraveller:
    Agree with Shiva...good thinking around this issue--to look at who the person is beyond their sexuality.

    By the way, being gay is not something you wake up and decide to be--it is what/who you are.

    Think about it this way: did you decide to be heterosexual?
Yes, thats exactly what i heard from tv... its just something that genetics. Since we were un born yet we already choose our sexual preference.
And even though they were not from baby, i will still respect these nice guy. Because he is one of the good guy.




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