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muff_meister 61M
1 posts
5/24/2023 11:49 am
The Discovery


So I have a question for you. What is your experience with or thoughts on BDSM and D/s relationships? I figure I always "identified as a Dom". Lol. I haven't had the chance or took the opportunity to formally develop that side of me. Even though I have a Dominant personality I am really just a big teddy bear. I feel after 30 years of marriage that I failed at being the man I should have been. As I have read up on the subject I have found that all roads tend to lead to kinky BDSM. I look at the Dom/sub dynamic as one of intimacy though. For a Dom it takes leadership, discipline, communication and attractiveness to demand the respect that a submissive would give. The only true way to have complete intimacy I believe is for a woman to completely give herself to her man, anything less will be a compromise and fall short of what the relationship could be. All relationships and people are different and there is a journey to experience so it takes a lifetime to discover this. Are you interested in discovering the possibilities? I'm going to leave it there for now as a conversation starter.

Susansavana 51F

6/7/2023 6:55 pm

I already understand that you want to have a true woman in your life. With that kind of woman, you need to be patient with her so that she has enough time to build trust on both sides. If she trusts you enough, she may let you dominate her life.