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OOOMMMM........
Sweetnsassygurl 7/4/2008 8:43 pm
My daughter and I were walking to the store. She looked at me and asked 'Do you feel like yourself?'

Without hesitation I replied 'No, I don't! The stresses in life have a very negative effect and I don't like it much. I don't know how to change it at the moment.'

She then asked if she seemed the same. I thought about it...as I was thinking she continued on...."I don't feel like me either.'

I believe when we are faced with challenges, when we can't see solutions to problems it is hard to keep that up beat attitude. Our attitude is contagious. Negative breeds negative. Positive breeds positive.

So now for an attitude adjustment. Not sure how I will manage it but I KNOW I will come outta this funk. I hope my daughter does too. I could use a good kick in azz!

Maybe I need to learn to meditate. Maybe someone can sit in my blog and teach me how.

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
justlooking96
4009 posts

7/4/2008 9:31 pm

I know what ya mean. Seems life becomes something that is out of ones control. Fuel prices are putting limits on me.

] Ignore the duct tape. I am just trying to piece the site back together.

Ari_fairy
16078 posts 

7/4/2008 11:47 pm

How old is your daughter, Cindy? Maybe you shuold plan...a special treat for each of you....maybe...a spa at home day or something....a shared gift. Sometimes I find it is very simple....the things that lift my spirits.

I go through periodic periods of being....blech....but it's the heat. Where some people react to clouds and gray and winter...I get depressed and sluggish when it is too hot. Still....there are ways to pick myself up. A sugar free fudgesicle sounds pretty good right now.....

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Uniforever
2737 posts 

7/5/2008 1:52 am

ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm shantiiiii (peace) the sounds apparently resonate with nature. But, you can find any other repetitive sounds that calm you or even just focus on your breathing (it's difficult to have thoughts invading if you're concentrating on your breathing)

I have a couple of meditation cd's one is a walk in the woods, the other is a sea walk, both are very calming. I also have some beautiful CD's I use in treating people (not that I'm doing that just now ) In fact you've just inspired me to play one, which has further inspired me to do Yoga agaian. Thank you

Treat me with respect and I'll treat you the same

MunchkinMatron2
10336 posts 

7/5/2008 5:14 am

Maybe you can have chocolate. I know, I know, I'm predictable.

But hey, Godivas sound really good right now.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.

gardencitygirl
1730 posts

7/5/2008 5:18 am

i understand the feelings too.....
Well I trust doing something that can relaxes both of you, would be good
you go girl



Thank you for the music, the songs Im singing
Thanks for all the joy theyre bringing
Who can live without it, I ask in all honesty
What would life be?

Sweetnsassygurl
6367 posts 

7/5/2008 1:00 pm

    Quoting justlooking96:
    I know what ya mean. Seems life becomes something that is out of ones control. Fuel prices are putting limits on me.
Nice to see you again Eddie. Yup life can twist and turn sometimes and take us by surprise. Will be nice when things straighten out and run smoothly again!

Sweetnsassygurl
6367 posts 

7/5/2008 1:03 pm

    Quoting Ari_fairy:
    How old is your daughter, Cindy? Maybe you shuold plan...a special treat for each of you....maybe...a spa at home day or something....a shared gift. Sometimes I find it is very simple....the things that lift my spirits.

    I go through periodic periods of being....blech....but it's the heat. Where some people react to clouds and gray and winter...I get depressed and sluggish when it is too hot. Still....there are ways to pick myself up. A sugar free fudgesicle sounds pretty good right now.....
Hiya Ari. She is 20. I think once this housing situation is solved life will become more enjoyable and positive.

I am the cloudy, dull days depressive type. Sun makes me alive and active.

Nice to see you around, hope things are well with you!

Sweetnsassygurl
6367 posts 

7/5/2008 1:04 pm

    Quoting Uniforever:
    ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm shantiiiii (peace) the sounds apparently resonate with nature. But, you can find any other repetitive sounds that calm you or even just focus on your breathing (it's difficult to have thoughts invading if you're concentrating on your breathing)

    I have a couple of meditation cd's one is a walk in the woods, the other is a sea walk, both are very calming. I also have some beautiful CD's I use in treating people (not that I'm doing that just now ) In fact you've just inspired me to play one, which has further inspired me to do Yoga agaian. Thank you
I tried the 'focus on breathing', it does help if I can keep focused!

Sweetnsassygurl
6367 posts 

7/5/2008 1:05 pm

    Quoting MunchkinMatron2:
    Maybe you can have chocolate. I know, I know, I'm predictable.

    But hey, Godivas sound really good right now.
Lol, I tried neopolitian icecream, that didn't do much!

Sweetnsassygurl
6367 posts 

7/5/2008 1:07 pm

    Quoting gardencitygirl:
    i understand the feelings too.....
    Well I trust doing something that can relaxes both of you, would be good
    you go girl
Well we were going to relax at the beach but apparently Mr Sunshine is out playing somewhere else. Dull, cloudy day here. Maybe a nap is in order. Hmmmm........

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