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Sweetnsassygurl
5/26/2008 8:26 pm |
First off hello! How are you all doing? Still busy here with life.  FF seems to take forever and a day to get from page to page for me.  Ok, I was reading an article about relationships. It mentioned how your partner treats themselves today is the way they will treat you in the future. Hmmm my brain can't grasp this concept even after analyzing it to death. Looking through my past relationships I can't see this is true. Maybe just a blonde moment. Any opinions on this? Have a great night and thanks for stopping in. I will have to wait to reply to my other blogs and come and visit with you all once FF behaves.  
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5/26/2008 9:08 pm |
hello sweet, i believe that a relationship is a congress of compromises. compromises made during the course of the relationship treats and defines such relationship. It pays to read the "fine lines", in a manner of speaking. take care i'll scratch your back...thats it.
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5/26/2008 10:33 pm |
 Sweet, relationships take a lot of hardwork, there is no special rule that tells how it may come out, it is the constant nurturing of both parties that makes it survive against odds. Just my two cents. "It's magic when two people fall in love." 
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5/26/2008 10:44 pm |
Yup...FF is still loading on my other browser...it has been loading for around 10 minutes now... prefer the other browser as I can change colours...can't do it on this one One of the best indicators about how a man will treat is? Look at how he treats his sisters and/or mother....that will give you all the information you need. Wishing you happiness Misty
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 5/27/2008 1:57 am |
 (¯`v´¯) `*.¸.*´ ¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•smile and be happy always
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5/27/2008 2:29 am |
I give you the same advice I give my own daughter.  The little things give us away. Those tiny moments of honesty that not even we know expose our true selves to the world. Our instincts, reactions and reflexes. The courtesies of life, etc. One's demeanor among friends and family. The statement about how one treats their Mother or Father or Sisters, etc. is spot on. We are all eager to see the person we want to see, but whom do we see projected to others? I am not suggesting to go and over-analyze someone to death and pick out every flaw and blow it up out of proportion. I'm just saying to be astute and aware of the fact that underneath our being on our best behavior is a truer picture of who we are as a person. Get that picture and then you will be better equipped to discern if this person will treat you with loving respect for the long haul. I'm just sayin  Bill Example: I have used this one before My son Chris,(age about 10 at the time), and I are shopping and we get to the entrance of the store and Chris bolts ahead to open the door for this elderly lady. His smile and kindly,unthreatning demeanor as he opens the door was honest and sincere. I did not teach him this, it is in his nature to be that way. Perhaps he learned it through emulation, as I am the same way, but it wasn't intentional or deliberately taught. That little gesture speaks volumes. Ah the little things Standplatz und liefert
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5/27/2008 9:44 am |
I believe that people have to love themselves before they can really love anyone else. So if someone constantly puts themselves down, then I doubt they are going to treat you as you deserve to be treated. I like what Bill said above, it is the little things that really teach you how a person is going to behave. Are they worried about what they can do for themselves...or for others.
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5/27/2008 3:21 pm |
not totally true, we are on best behavious at star to create good impression  thanks for reading and as per Dave Allen "May your God go with you"
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5/28/2008 2:11 am |
not totally true, we are on best behavious at star to create good impression You are right, but I believe that from outset to the point where the relationship dissolves into exposing the true individual, there are opportunities to catch glimpses into the personality of the person. If you have a heightened awareness of what to look for. Nobody is that good Focused. They have tiny minute let downs, whether by reflex or reaction. Perhaps I have just become tuned in to this stuff from years of practice. Having an honest relationship, whereas you can ask questions and receive quality answers is the best and most absolute way of knowing someone. Trust builds good relationships, so you don't have to examine and worry Honesty builds trustNice to see you my friend. Bill Standplatz und liefert
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5/29/2008 1:16 am |
Today we thank God for all the blessings He has bestowed upon this great Country and ask Him to continue to heal our land and meet our needs - and we do so through the power of prayer. Nick Rahall
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5/29/2008 5:46 pm |
Ya i have been havin trouble n all Have a wonderful weekend Tc & stay safe xx Tc & Stay Safe x Nicci x If it hurts...its real
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