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Best 10 Ways to Get a Boyfriend - See If You Have What it Takes 1) Be true to who you are. You'll here this time and time again and yet many women still tend to pretend to be someone they are not in hopes of landing their man. This only makes him think he's falling in love with someone you're not. You don't want to get any man. You want to find that right man and the right man is going to love you for who you really are not who you pretend to be. 2) Smile. Those pearly whites are going to be what turns his heart inside out and makes it do little flip-flops in his chest. Practice smiling and smile a lot. 3) Laugh. People laugh when they are having fun and he wants to find a girl that is fun. Make sure he sees you laughing as much as possible and avoid moping around in the corner. 4) Lift other people up. Many women think they have to rip other women to shreds in order to make themselves look better to a man. This is so not the case. Men want a woman that is confident enough in who she is to know she doesn't need to tear other women down to look good. 5) Be his friend. Even if your ultimate goal is to be so much more than friends start out by being his friend. Eventually he's likely to see you in a different light (if it takes too long you can take more decisive action but being his friend is a great beginning). 6) Ask him out. Believe it or not, the direct approach works. Don't make it sound like a big deal or a lifetime commitment but make sure he knows it's a date. Say the word date specifically (sometimes men are a bit thick about getting the big picture). If you start with a date it can work up to boyfriend status but you've gotta start somewhere. 7) Flirt. More specifically, flirt with him. This is a sure sign to many guys that you are interested. If you aren't comfortable with the direct approach the subtly of flirting is a close (though not quite as effective) second.  Get inside his head. Think like him and you'll be surprised at how quickly you realize what you need to do get him interested. It might be packaging a little differently or finding the right words but you'll be better able to get your point across if you think the way he thinks.9) Date someone else. There's nothing quite as effective as jealousy for getting a guy's attention. If you have a specific guy in mind dating someone else might be just what it takes to shake him into action. 10) Self assurance. Be confident in who you are. You are a beautiful vibrant woman who has a lot to offer any man who catches your eye. Don't sell yourself short over an ounce of cellulite or an imperfect complexion. Fix those problems if you must but face the world and the object of your affections with the assurance that he'd be a fool to miss out on this opportunity The Averageman "Never A Dull Moment" |
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