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Those were the Days my friend
Aakash_49
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10/9/2015 4:18 pm
Is it ethical ?
Friendfinder has given us space to Express our views, tell stories, share laughter by providing to us Section called Blogs. We have option in terms of who can read the Blog, who can write and post comment and the most powerful weapon of ' Blocking ' a co-member. Once handle is Blocked, that individual can not read any Blogs posted by the Blocker. Being blocked by anyone is the greatest insult.
In the recent past a senior female member blocked me. My first block in all my years in IFF and now FF. Reason, I presume, is that I stay aloof when other members in Chat rooms are taunting or abusing her and later I go around offering and receiving Hugs from such abusive members.
It so happens that many a times my window of chat room is open and I am shown as present there, but actually I am working on some other sheets and not actually present though shown present. Secondly, I believe that individuals abuse for some reason based on past inter personal interactions between two individuals and I firmly believe that the individual must have capacity to handle the abuser rather than pretending helplessness and wanting ' chamchas' to rush to their rescue and hurl back dirty and filthy abuses, while the helpless member blesses and thanks the rescuer.
In the initial years in IFF, I asked some ladies in flash if they needed any help when some loafers were trying to flirt. The strong willed ladies asked me to stay away , as that unnecessarily escalates dialogues. In my opinion, the current lady members in various chat rooms are also
strong enough and even say so that they know how to handle the abusers and fight their own battles.
My salutes to you ladies and a special hug , if you don't mind
Come back to the incidence of me being Blocked by a female member for not attacking her abusers and later hugging them as friends. Well its my choice with whom I should be friendly, who are my friends and who reciprocate warmly my hugs. I had blogged earlier that its the filthy minds who attach dirty meaning to a friendly gesture / even custom of hugging. I do not demand any hugs and hearts and kisses but some of my friends warmly reciprocate. Long live our friendship and relationship
Yesterday I posted an apology in my Blog
Sorry Bittu I admit defeat
. In response the same Blocker has commented , and also thanked her chamcha , a someone who literally showered abuses on me. Infact she has posted her long comments twice , as if once was not enough
My humble question is that- is it ethical on part of the lady member ji to Block me on one hand and literally and liberally invade my Blog space; even though I did not mention any names in my Blog?
Feel free to vote and share your views.
Yes it is Ethical and nothing wrong in that
No Sir, its highly Unethical.
Creativity is knowing how to hide your Sources
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