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Yesterday I gave a polite negative response to a guy explaining that there was no compatibility between our profiles. Today he wrote to me that my English was lousy because I had addressed him with "hallo" instead of "hello". LOL !!! Is there any difference between "hello" and "hallo", my native English buddies, because my only guides are the dictionaries....  Aaaah, as I have already said, you'll get to know a person better when he's hurt than when he's loved...  I had my second swim today,  and this refreshed me more than coffee or sleep ! The water is still coldish, but when your skin is heated up in an air of 28*C/80+*F, it simply sizzles in the coolness of the sea. Yammi! Have a nice rest of the week ! Love, SL  Keep love in your heart ! SL |
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6/11/2008 3:47 pm |
Hm, wonder what he'd think if you'd used "Hullo". I once got yelled at on ff email by a man I turned down politely when I said I was already married (it's practically a blaring headline on my profile but for some reason, he missed it) and he went, "SO WHY THE HELL ARE YOU ON A DATING SITE????" Men are just weird sometimes, I tell you. Hugs, SL. I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.
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6/11/2008 5:04 pm |
Well, all I can say is that you made the right choice--anyone who gets angry because you've politely said, no thank you isn't worth the time/effort. And his response demonstrates it. According to my etymology dictionary hello is an alternate form of hallo... Hello became popular with the advent of the telephone. So there! That'll learn him...heheheheee Wishing you happiness Misty
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6/11/2008 5:45 pm |
Well I hope he understood your goodbye ! (I see a lot of spiteful ex-sweeties on here).
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6/11/2008 5:46 pm |
hello SL, you should have addressed him with "HILO" (means dazed in our native tongue)  However, it is better used as "Ano ka, HILO?" (what are you, dazed?)  just messing around... take care i'll scratch your back...thats it.
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6/11/2008 6:22 pm |
Sis, hallo - hello - bonjour - wilkommen - welcome - hola. *HUGS* Perfection Isn't Sexy
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 6/11/2008 6:44 pm |
hello SL, you should have addressed him with "HILO" (means dazed in our native tongue) However, it is better used as "Ano ka, HILO?" (what are you, dazed?) just messing around... take care Have a nice day SL (¯`v´¯) `*.¸.*´ ¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•smile and be happy always
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6/11/2008 10:28 pm |
HOWDY!! () Enjoy the swim dear.
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6/11/2008 11:17 pm |
Yeah, that was very spiteful of him. He acts like you owe him something. What a mean thing for him to say. Saying hallo is just fine. Have a great day my sweet friend! If you can't convince them, confuse them!
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6/12/2008 12:21 am |
G'day Maria!! You crushed his ego ... lol, now he knows that he exercised one example of being a sore loser. lol hugs!
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6/12/2008 2:37 am |
Ai Maria, the answer of him shows how much he worth but then come on, he must be quite high to treat someone like that.. And think of me please when you enjoy the sun and the sea.. here is damn rainy and will stay like this i think till Misty will come over Then i hope the damn sun will smile at them all day long... coz somehow sun got scared of my face latelly
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6/12/2008 4:44 am |
Hi SL  You are so right when you say that one gets to know a person best when we say 'no thanks'. Have seen that myself, and was glad that I said no. The difference between Hallo and Hell o ... I personally do not like Hell ... o .... and often use Hallo (the European way) or Hi (the American way) and if he told you off because you said Hallo ... it just shows what kind of character he has = no sense of humour, living in a box >>>> good riddens to him  It's nice to be insane when No one is looking 
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6/12/2008 7:04 am |
Some people have too much time on their hands and not enough warmth in their heart. Ignore him.
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6/12/2008 1:05 pm |
Lol, Ana, only sometimes ? SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:08 pm |
Hi Misty, My Oxford dictionary says the same. But I will use "hello" from now on...if I don't forget, lol SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:14 pm |
Hi Flame, Spite is a sick feeling. My response to it is usually silence. I have no energy to waste on sick feelings. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:19 pm |
Hello Maverick, I will remember "Ano ka, HILO?" (what are you, dazed?) for next time, lol. Thanks for the witty comment. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:20 pm |
Hola Sis, Cat, Always welcome here ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:22 pm |
Hi Belle, nice sandal ! Enjoy your day ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:27 pm |
Lol Flibber ! Now I have "hello" in so many languages! I had another swim today again. It's a great pleasure, I've been waiting for it 9 months. Wow, now I see that nature needs 9 months , too, to give birth to summer !!!! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:28 pm |
And you're a sweet friend, too, Dean ! Enjoy life ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:31 pm |
Hi Sinny, my friend ! You're always to the point as usual. That's why I like you. Hope you're doing well with your assignments. Till soon. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:34 pm |
Hi Katie, sweetie, Nobody and nothing can be scared by such a kind face as yours. I was thinking today of you while swimming. Hope you've felt some warm waves over your body, lol SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:37 pm |
Hi Poetdancer, In fact the pic he sent me was taken in a pub which I also didn't like. Thanks for appreciating my thoughts. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 1:44 pm |
Hello Gower, The paradox was that I was criticized by a person who had used no capital letters or periods in his message. Wish you luck with the golden ball SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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 6/12/2008 2:29 pm |
how come gowerboy has now a golden ball? Did he win something too? that guy? what guy? forgotten already do you like cold water ? 
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6/12/2008 3:30 pm |
Hi Beta, I don't know how Gower got the goden ball, either, but he must have earned it somehow ? Or may be he paid for it ? May be he will tell us ? No, I don't like cold water, but I like swimming SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/12/2008 4:32 pm |
hallo is derivative of hello hello more commonly used but hallo means same so he wrong not you thanks for reading and as per Dave Allen "May your God go with you"
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6/13/2008 3:02 am |
I came third in the recipe for romance contest. This is a three month golden ball. If you two had known about this, you could have voted for me and I would have come second and got a six month one.
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6/13/2008 12:58 pm |
Thank you, Alec, it's nice to know it from a native speaker. Have a great weekend. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/13/2008 1:01 pm |
I'm sorry Gower, really. Now you have to be craftier and more efficient for these 3 months ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/13/2008 8:03 pm |
Hi Belle, nice sandal ! Enjoy your day ! SL (¯`v´¯) `*.¸.*´ ¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•smile and be happy always
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6/14/2008 9:16 am |
O Hell. is the way us dyslexics write a greeting. Yes summer is here at last, and the sea is warming up. GREAT. I've just burnt my evening meal reading all the comments here. HELLO... Tone. 
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6/14/2008 12:14 pm |
Thank you, Belle! Happy to you, too. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/14/2008 12:52 pm |
Aaah, summer, I live for it ! When we are scantily dressed at home and out, so no need to change ... When the light fades away at 9.30 p.m. and there is no difference between the day and the night because the streets are equally crammed with people...Aham, didn't this sound as an advert for beer ? O HELL, Tone, I will remember it ! Want me to cook for you another dinner ? SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/15/2008 1:55 pm |
I see you in the newer picture...and I still think you are one BEAUTIFUL Woman Sweetie! I'll bet you look outstanding in a bathing suit... ...swimming around in that nice cool water! Don't mind the guys that won't enjoy who you are... ...there are plenty, like me, who enjoy you just fine! God Bless You Sweetie! Tom God Bless You!...I Love You! ...Tom...
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6/15/2008 2:25 pm |
He-he Tom, Thank you for the sweet words. How is life in Florida ? Too hot, too steamy ? Do you swim ? Hope you're walking steadily towards your dreams. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/17/2008 11:21 am |
Hi SunLover! Good to see you and thanks for stopping by the blog. Looking forward to doing some more blogging and connecting here. How have you been. That dude just had to say something stupid and it's too bad he had to. Beth
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6/17/2008 12:55 pm |
Hi Beth, You look lovely on this new pic of yours, like an angel It's quite boring sometimes here on the blogs. But I still keep my soul here A very down-to-earth comment, as it is typical of you, thank you ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/18/2008 12:46 am |
Hugs SL! I often used hello, hullo, hallo, elow, ola, and i'm lucky nobody has called me lousy by speaking those. ha ha ha. i can see he doesn't affect you so who gives a hell to that guy? lol have fun in the sun.... From my heart to yours, Love and Light! 
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6/18/2008 2:54 pm |
Thanks Royal, I just wanted to show with this post that we can see the nature of a person still in his /her first emails. So we have to read the red signs. You have a fun rest of the week, too. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/19/2008 1:21 am |
long not seen you  are you around enjoying the sun?
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6/19/2008 4:14 am |
some men are just plain out jerks hehe how are you doing there? have a wonderful week there SL smile and take care wake up with a smile on your face, a smile in your eyes and a smile in your heart, you are loved 
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6/19/2008 2:12 pm |
Hi Beta, Thanks for asking. Entrance university exams bagin in July and I'm busy teaching my graduates private lessons during the day and preparing exam materials for them in the evening. But I don't miss a swim ! I miss blogging but am trying to read and comment on your blogs ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/19/2008 2:52 pm |
Hi Apollo, I agree with you about "some" men. I just wrote in my answer to Beta what keeps me busy. I'm so glad you got your degree. You're a clever young man and I appreciate you ! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/19/2008 4:20 pm |
hi sl you are a sweet woman and a dear friend,.. you have shown me respect and friendship. i think if this man has responded with this comment either he has noway of understanding you or hes confused as how to attempted a friendship. he should read your post and replies by some of us here, then maybe he would know you better. its his loss not yours sl, have a great week filled with peace love happiness hugs dan
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6/19/2008 5:17 pm |
hi SL thanks for dropping in and lots of love to you aaah , hello and hallo is not much different but the spelling with the "E" is correct but who cares about spelling as long as I understand you and you understand my I am fine have a wonderful day my friend and lots of love and happiness too straight from the heart 
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6/20/2008 12:50 pm |
Thank you Dan, These are such profound words of yours as usual. Wishing you a speedy recovery, Your friend SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/20/2008 12:55 pm |
Hallo Mac, Thank you for the warm words! And I love your new pic, man, you look so cute, wow ! I'm still waiting for the love and happiness, lol, thanks for the wishes! SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/22/2008 8:43 am |
Maryia hello my treasure... I miss you but i am not often online now...feel tired and waiting for the end of this project.Be proud with your English...and you are a professional in this. I respect you and cant agree if anybody is rude..please be careful Enjoy your weekend ...go to sea and say "HALLO" from me. with love Dona There is no way to the peace, because peace is the way
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6/22/2008 12:49 pm |
He-he Tom, Thank you for the sweet words. How is life in Florida ? Too hot, too steamy ? Do you swim ? Hope you're walking steadily towards your dreams. SL Life in Florida is hot, oh yes! Plenty of THAT here! I used to swim alot, but there's no one to go with anymore, so I wait...I did get an Intermediate award when I was 15 in camp, so swimming is easy for me, and I love it anywhere, I just wish I had a partner/partners to be with me... The new job is great! It is much better than I thought it would be, and I am getting a decent wage again! Everything is coming together again, and I am happy for it. I am ever so grateful to God for providing it for me! Praise The Lord In Heaven Above! God Bless You Sweetie! I Love You! Tom God Bless You!...I Love You! ...Tom...
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6/22/2008 4:15 pm |
Hello Dona, Thank you for your well written in English comment. You're perfecting the language ! Wish you a succesful completion of the project and hope to see you by the sea ! Mariya Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/22/2008 4:23 pm |
Hello Tom, Thank you once again for the nice words. Yes, I remember posting a pic of me on the beach but I was in my T-shirt not in a swim suit, lol. I haven't posted a pic in a swim suit I am very glad things are good with you and you have a rewarding job. What more can we wish for our friends but find them in good spirits ? Best, SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/23/2008 4:24 pm |
Don't fret... I say Hiya all the time and get weird responses. I figure if my use of Hello is different, well, so what. If they get upset of my use of Hello then, your "see yah no thanks" works too! Don't worry, there is someone out there who will appreciate your use of the word.... Stay true... Cat
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6/23/2008 11:04 pm |
Forgive him ....he only know's what he was told .....he's a sheep ....even tho you may spell a w_rd wrong ....i have read it right ...and the context will carry it thru ..... The message is there .  I BLeSS You
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6/24/2008 10:37 am |
Hi Cat, I'm always trying to be true - to the others and to myself, and always ready to pay the price for that. But life shows me anew that sometimes silence is better than the hurtful truth. Thanks for stopping by my blog. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/24/2008 10:52 am |
Hello Kan, You're right that it's the spirit that gives sense to the message. That's what I like here on the blogs where people from all over the world meet - we respect each other not because of our professions or degree of literacy but because of the uniqueness of the spirits our blogs display. Thanks for visiting my blog. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/25/2008 4:11 am |
ppfffttt i say 'ello' all the time my English suxs n i am English Room for one more 2 swim Hope ya well Lady Tc & Stay safe xx Tc & Stay Safe x Nicci x If it hurts...its real
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6/25/2008 12:31 pm |
Ellooo Fun Lady, , Yep, you're using more and more shorteneges, finally I will be looking for your words with a magnifying glass A swim together again ?...No prob, your place or my place ? SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/27/2008 11:54 pm |
OMG Best regards, Clarencio  FlashMedic Everyday is a good day. Are you going to go my way? Just the truth will do.
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6/28/2008 8:21 am |
guess he was not the right match for you as you said
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6/28/2008 4:22 pm |
Hi Clarencio, How is the catch ? I will soon visit your blog. Thanks for visiting mine. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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6/28/2008 4:24 pm |
Hello Steve, Welcome to my blog. That's what I implied by telling him that our profiles are not compatible. SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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