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Goldmedal3 57F
2683 posts
8/1/2014 8:37 am
Being unattractive is a deal-breaker !!!!
Mirror.....Mirror.....on the wall ..who's the fairest of all ???
Not the person you're supposed to end up with, apparently !!!

Society at large ...when it comes to matters of the heart "love'
Personality is always much more important then looks.
Some would say ....what a load of rubbish...right???

I could be the minority here..who doesn't believe in dating somebody solely for their looks.

I have this very close friend, who once dated a guy because she was attracted to what she called "his hot mind" ...one would ask
"what is a hot mind??"

When somebody has a face that looks like it has been hit by a bus ....but nobody minds...has a terrific personality.

In life you cannot have the best of two worlds !!!!
Looks are not important. It is not cool turning a guy down because of his physical attributes. or lack thereof.

Lets take Beyoncé and Jay-Z as an example .. pointing out how she went for the unattractive guy and ended up married and happy

There is no shame in wanting a man with the six pack
or the woman who looks like she fell from
"the playgirl's magazine"
Some would say , "why should we settle for anything less than our definition of perfection anyway?"

If you care about your appearance and put in every effort to look your best, it only makes sense that you'd want to be with somebody who also looks their best.

lol.......some men could not care less on appearance ...downing "the beer" ... with them beer pouches
..an alcoholic guy is a big turn off

Before we speak to somebody, our initial attraction comes from what we see....and if we see somebody looking like a right old mess, that that's a legitimate deal - breaker

There is a reason Prince Charming fell for Cinderella and not the ugly step-sisters...
We been wired from youth to go for what we believe to be beautiful ,,but as we grow older ....we've told to settle for personality..

Everybody is allowed to have their preferences ...their own definition of beauty and their own version of a dream girl or guy
...even the married ones in this site.....disappointed at home
this site an escape route to "lil Cinderella"

So before you judge superficial ladies ... push your standards up a little and you may end up with the stunner you're have always dreamt of


cilla is my guiding light


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