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Goldmedal3 57F
2683 posts
4/21/2014 8:19 am
Tornado is heading our way with the merger of friendfinder an indianfriendfinder


I am a South African Indian and I am a member at Indian friendfinder and Friendfinder. sites.
As you all are aware both sister sites are joining to become one site.

Here is the harsh reality of this merger :

Friendfinder is an umbrella of Rainbow members
Indian friendfinder is a site majority Indians visit.

Thus far in Friendfinder in blogs I have awesome people who read my blogs and comment. I have visited the chatroom both main lobby and the clean room - a good bunch of members visit here who are friendly.

On the flip side of Indian friendfinder there is a turbulence of members in the lobby bend on abusing foreign females. I am a victim. I need to share the happenings in IFF.

The reality of IFF is a sad place to be especially for females and most especially if you are a foreigner. These famous trolls are abusive , anti-social bunch who delight in causing disharmony and conflicts in the lobby . There comments of hatred and nastiness targets to certain individuals.

These abusers don't feel remorse like you and me, they have sociopathic tendencies to inflict hurt feelings. They consider themselves above all. Certain individuals are abusive and direct hurtful comments pertaining to our bodies, demeaning us as females
posting rude vulgar comments on our body .. that's not enough they start their nasty abuse to our and our families.
Human nature being what it is, demeaning a person by pathological abuses and harassment because you are targeting a defenceless female. Then you get the lobby full of their friends .-- in a tag team they all attack one person...they choose one person to attack everyday - you got to wonder when is your time to be abused.
Then you get the bystanders just watching a defenceless female being abused - offering no help at all.

Then you get the insecure females, who have their own issues of jealousy - if you uploaded your photo they feel threatened hence you attacked by faceless females who never did show their profile picture on this site - but you are attacked, your body your age and they use their Indian language I cannot understand - but they are abusing me.
They gang-bang with the abusers to target females who have a profile photo.

It is an eyeopener to watch your own gender behave in this manner.

Insecurity and a feeling of inadequancy is why some need to retaliate. you are marked, to be abused. The worst part is when we upload our photo - omg the green eyes worms come out from the woodwork bent on attacking you.

Your age is discriminated against
your body is picked on
your family abused

The only clue to their behaviour leads me to think maybe they were let down in their lives by females..be it their mothers, their wives, their daughters..THEY WILL NOT ABUSE THEIR OWN COUNTRY FEMALES - ONLY FOREIGNERS.

being a misfit in society can cause one to behave in this manner.
either they are unemployed, bored old men who want to act macho on cyber,
There are some members who sit on this site 24 hours.....and they are elders in the 60 and 70 bracket who conceal their ages to be 37 years.

"One of the thorniest and most difficult things we humans are ever called upon to do is respond to evil with kindness and to forgive the unforgivable"

With the merger of Indian frienfinder and Friendfinder I don't know what is in store for members who portray respect and compassion to all. I hope the administrators of this site curb these abuses in the lobby.

INDIAN FRIENDFINDER IS BEDRIDDEN WITH SOME ABUSIVE MEMBERS WHILST THE SISTER SITE FRIENDFINDER IS THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE. WITH MEMBERS WHO RESPECT FEMALES.

I hail from a rainbow nation South Africa,,,,proud of my country and to see my fellow Indians from other countries behave in this manner saddens me.

This is my experience with faceless chatters with a funny member name with no member photo and their ages will make you blush.

So to unsuspecting friendfinder members please wisen up the tornado is heading your way.


cilla is my guiding light


The_Teaser 109M
766 posts
5/1/2014 8:41 pm

Cutie Thy Nam is Cilla ...

" Then you get the bystanders just watching a defenceless female being abused - offering no help at all. " IS IT TH FACT?

Are you remembering whenever Hungry was there as Regular..All girls were feeling very Safe because of only his presence in the chatroom?

Are u not remembering many Guys from IFF faught for u and many girls who were the victims?

Baby, in every virtual world u r meeting with the masks only and Masks never have Real face so never have Harts and creative minds. Told u million times Not to take Virtual world to ur heart.

Love u always