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GallantMan90 34M
25 posts
1/7/2012 1:16 pm
What do you want???

Hi ,, what that thing that could make ur life happier??? why ???
love
money
friendship
family
faith
other ( what's that )


Love is Life


GallantMan90 34M

1/8/2012 2:28 am

NICE !!! 17 views and just 1 vote

seems like people don't even know what they want hehe !!!

Love is Life


Sky_walking07

1/10/2012 9:05 am

that could make ur life happier

love...Would make peoples life happier.

money...Would make peoples life happier.

friendship...Would make peoples life happier.

family...Would make peoples life happier.

faith...Some people need to believe in the pretend, so this would make a persons life happier too.

other... This too.

So all of them would make a persons life happier.


GallantMan90 34M

1/12/2012 6:45 am

    Quoting Sky_walking07:
    that could make ur life happier

    love...Would make peoples life happier.

    money...Would make peoples life happier.

    friendship...Would make peoples life happier.

    family...Would make peoples life happier.

    faith...Some people need to believe in the pretend, so this would make a persons life happier too.

    other... This too.

    So all of them would make a persons life happier.
yeh maybe !!! but no one has all of these so ,, surely everyone search for something i guess ,,,,

i dont agree with u about faith ,, i choose that cos it's something inside that depend just to u and ur relationship with god ,, so if u have this u'll know why u're created for ,, and that makes u happier

Love is Life


Sky_walking07

1/14/2012 1:09 pm

    Quoting GallantMan90:
    yeh maybe !!! but no one has all of these so ,, surely everyone search for something i guess ,,,,

    i dont agree with u about faith ,, i choose that cos it's something inside that depend just to u and ur relationship with god ,, so if u have this u'll know why u're created for ,, and that makes u happier
Most everyone has all of those to some degree.

Love, money, friendship, family...this is going to have more of a physical, emotional affect on your body.

"Faith" is has too many variable that could work against you. One, its not real, two, its make believe, and three, your mental chemical make up could be influencing your thoughts. Like if you don't take your prozac everyday, you're screwed.

If you want happiness, you should seek that which engages your senses.
Love: engages the senses.
money: you can buy fun, this engages the senses.
Friendship: Company and socializing engage the senses.
Family: These are people who care for you the most, this certainly engages the senses.


GallantMan90 34M

1/16/2012 9:42 am

    Quoting Sky_walking07:
    Most everyone has all of those to some degree.

    Love, money, friendship, family...this is going to have more of a physical, emotional affect on your body.

    "Faith" is has too many variable that could work against you. One, its not real, two, its make believe, and three, your mental chemical make up could be influencing your thoughts. Like if you don't take your prozac everyday, you're screwed.

    If you want happiness, you should seek that which engages your senses.
    Love: engages the senses.
    money: you can buy fun, this engages the senses.
    Friendship: Company and socializing engage the senses.
    Family: These are people who care for you the most, this certainly engages the senses.
nice ,, i'm now 21 years old and all my life i have dealt with this called faith but i've never felt disappointed about it cos as you said it create believe ( wich even if u're in hardship , even if u'll die ,,you 'll never abondon it )
now, i agree with u that love ,fami .....engages senses ; but ; i think all of that except love ( or let's say true love ,, i 'll explain that later ) is only Temporary happiness ;; we share that with all the creatures ;; even animals have families and they live for desires like sex and food and ....what's the difference between them and us ??? it's the brain wich is the center of thoughts , actions , emotions ,...
i agree with u too that many spirituel or religious thoughts are just Whims ,, and many religions today had been corrupted ,,,, people now thinks that religion Restrict life and modernity wich is totally fault ...so first ,, it's true but depend on the path u choose wich as i muslim think it's only one way from the begining of creation to final day of life ,, the same message from adam to moses to jesus to mohamed pbuh all , sec; yes i believe in god and i 'll ask u that :
who created all this worlds is it nature?? if so what or who created nature ??? ... take a look at this it'll explain it more
http://friendfinder.com=YJ2an5eetGY
if u think that's u're not interesting about that and you believe only on what's Tangible or Viewable it's ur choice and i respect that but let me tell u a funny old story happened in bagdad ( iraq ,u know that place ?? ) :
once upon time there was an imam ( it's the person who teachs religion to people in islam ) in a masjid on bagdad city ,,talking to the presents ;; among them there was a guy called 'Bohloul' ( arabic word means silly or naif or idiot ) he was called like that cos he was "fool" as it seems , but actually he was a great scholar and he pretended to be crazy to help people to know the truth and enter their lives ,,so he was known later after his death as the wisest crazyman.....
the imam started:" i agree with ".... "( a scholar) but u must know that i differ from him on this 3 issues ;
first , lucifier'll not burn on hell "
the people got and one of them respond : " what's ur proof "
the imam : " lucifier ( satan ) ; was created from fire, so how can fire fire fire ( take the middle word as verb) "
the people got more and they starts to look at each other face while Bohloul stayed calmy and just smiled to the face of the imam ...
the imam continue : " sec ; u can't see god , so how can anything exist if u don't see him??? "
this time the people got an icy rock to their head and stopped moving at all ...
the imam become more confident and said with a loudy voice " oh people; 3rd , is that the man was and still propulsive by god at his actions and he can't choose between evil and good " ( wrong definition of destiny ) ..
the place became more and more silent and then the imam knew that he influenced the presents by his words ,, and he was about to close the minds and liked to say more of his thoughts ,, but suddenly ; a little stone hits him on his brow and made the blood flow ;and so his ideas has gone .... all the witnesses turned to bohloul
"why he did it;; why he did it " asked the people there ,,,
a Loyal group for the imam Surrounded him ; they where so angry and wanted to kill bohloul til they remebered how much the Caliph (it's like an Emperor controle all the islamic world that time ) likes him cos his funny ...
the imam turned to bohloul and said :" i'll complain that to the caliph " ... bohl responded as his funny way as always : "alright ; i'll go with u " .... the imam with Grouchy voice " then witness with me people!! " ....
they get out from there and entred shortly after to the council of caliph ,,
the caliph saw the imam - who was well known in bagdad and all the citizens love him- wearing like a white piece of scarf covering a part of his head and he asked : " who did that to u ??? "
the imam took a restore of the scene and explained to caliph how and who did this bad and criminal act...
then the caliph got angry and called on bohloul immediately ,, and Shouted on his face : " are u takin advantages on our relationship ;why did u do that?? " ...
the wisest crazyman repaired his Mantle and in calmy voice as always and with big and wisy smile responded: " i didn't do that " ....the imam :" really !!?? you Stinky dirty oppresor ;; i've witnesses my lord (speakin to caliph) "
bohloul interrupt the man : " ok , plz can u tell why i'm an oppressor ,what that oppressed action that i've done "
the imam: " you Injured my head ,, dummy !!!! ,,, I still feel the pain on it ,, do u witness ??? ( and he turned to his loyals) "
they said "yes , we do "
then bohloul asked : " u pretendin pain huh?? can u show it to me , i don't see any pain "
the injured man replies : " like u can see the pain!!!??? "
bohloul : " alright then ; there's nothing called pain As long as we don't see him ;;; remember !!!and you lyin in ur claim "
the imam starts : but bu bu.... when bohloul turned to his students : " the stone can't hurt ur teacher ... " the pupils turned to the imam waitin for his respons but bohloul cut them: " yes , it can't ;we all know that the person is created from dust ; so how can dust hurt dust !!??? ,,remember !!! "
the imam Dither from head to top knowin that bohl is takin the shot
when this one repaired his mantle again and turn to the caliph : " now; this man (he meant the imam ) claimed that the man had no controle to his actions and god manipulate all of them ;
so i didn't do what u think i did by my self , it's god's will" ... and he continue " and i don't think anyone can object it "

finally as i said before when u know why u're created what are u doing in this life where are u going it opens a clear path for u and u'll see another form of love , the love of god , wich gonna affect ur actions;; ur emotions ,, cos u can loose friends ,, u can loose money ,, u can loose family ,,, u can loose ur loveone ,, but if u still believin god u still happy .... u can say that it's only human illusion or something but i'm asking u this : what's the # between a dead man and a livin one ??? it's the soul .... as i believe there's 2 part on human been ( although i'm doctor ; well ; student of medecine ) physical one and spirituel one ( soul's part)
u can full the first with desires like food money relationships ...
but if u don't do anything for the sec u'll be as dead man walkin ,,, no balance at all ,,, that's my opinion ....
sorry if i made it too long .... ( oh ! i do not mean anything when i say "u" ok??? ,,, it's just a way of speakin)

Love is Life


Sky_walking07

1/28/2012 2:57 am

If you need faith to make you happy, you're a very troubled person.
You will even get upset, because somebody else has a different make-believe idea to keep them happy. You'll even kill them because their imagination is different from yours.


Sky_walking07

1/28/2012 3:04 am

Don't turn to Faith to make you happy, because you will only get angry and kill somebody if they don't share your faith.