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nishi63 61F
3 posts
9/21/2010 6:41 am
OH TO BE A WOMAN.....

Women are the most beautiful creations of god.Their womanhood is defined in various ways .Each individual has a different view while defining his woman or the qualities that he wants to see in his woman.Women have evolved since the age of the sages where she had to confirm to social expectations but no longer today.It is all about how she manages her womanhood ,her man,her and her home so efficiently.

Today if you were to ask a man to define a woman in his terms he would speak about the grace,charm,curves and feminity that make up his ideal woman.Most of the men praise the beauty of Angelina Jolie,Jennifer Lopez,Katrina ,Kareena,Rekha and many others and refer to them as HOT....a widely used term that describes if the woman in question is Sensuous,Attractive,Sexy or Pretty?Some even go to say the motherhood makes a woman feminine.

To me I truly feel that a woman draped with charm and emitting a certain amount of sensuousness can be very attractive.It depends upon an individual as to how he sees his woman.Its a mans perception as to what makes a woman very feminine.Physical assets or the the brains.If a woman with the right curves is unable to present herself without dignity then she is regarded as a woman of loose charactor.However well dressed and beautiful she might look but if she is behaving in a cheap fashion and talking loudly in midst of a crowd then shes considered cheap and ill mannered.

Today men look beyond good looks in a woman when it comes to choosing their life partners. They desire women who are successful ,good looking,honest and well mannered.Older the man his definition of the woman he seeks varies .He needs a companion who cares and communicates with him politely,overlooks his grey or balness , his wallet and wrinkles and some one who showers him with a lot of love and affection.Today youngsters would describe an ideal woman as the one who glides rather than walks,talks in soft modulated tones,smells of estee lauder or ralph lauren,looks fresh as a daisy thoroughout the day,and has rhythmic movements rather than jerky ones and extremely polite and soft spoken.They prefer women to be well dressed and presentable.

Women of today define feminity in a different manner.For them it is some thing that comes from deep within,a happiness,a confidence that gives warmth to her heart,a sparkle in her eyes,a bewitching smile to her lips,a lightness in her steps,the softness of her skin, gentleness in her moods,and the atmosphere around her be it in her home or the work

Today a woman does not require the help of a man to make her feel like a woman.However true to the old belief that a man is necessary to awaken the sensuality in a woman,today a woman has come to term with her own power,strength and her capability.Even though majority of the women seek undivided attention from their man,good caring sex,and some of them still seek a man who treats her with respect and extreme gentleness.Yet some of the women in working class feel, pampering themselves and indulging with their bodies in spas,beauty parlours for a good massage,manicure,pedicure,facial,sauna or a hair cut to make them look more beautiful and this indulgence gives them a power of arousing their feminine spirit and makes them feel beautiful from within .Perfumes,Flowers,neat outfits,and compliments from all around gives them a certain sense of pride and satisfaction

For most of the women today seeking attention from their male counter parts is not all.Its all about loving their bodies and looking more beautiful and successful in their respective careers which gives them a certain high and boosts their confidence level.

This makes me to conclude that women today have changed from the old fashioned docile ,homely creatures to the more dynamic personalities who work on an equal footage with successful men in all professional levels.

One last quote ...what a woman in todays world means to me !

Woman was taken out of man; not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved.

KUDOS TO THE WOMEN OF TODAY !!!!


manjudevi 57F
1 post
9/21/2010 9:47 am

Wow Way to go!!!!! Its wonderful!!!!! I love it!! You think exactly like me. I LOVE YOU!!!!!