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jasminesay 49F

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4/15/2011 9:19 pm

I'm with you here Sexycene.

You can't teach the heart who to fall or not to in love with...And that's why I always end up broken-hearted

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4/16/2011 3:25 am

There is not much you can do when it comes to falling in love once the ARROWS has stuck...Except if it's a minder( wayyyy beyond your age) or a marriage that is stable...I do nothing...I let the love take it's course!! I always believe there is a reason for everything in life...

It is the truth in man that sets him free..

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4/18/2011 3:07 am

What do you do when you think you are about to fall in love with the one you Should NOT fall in love with?....To be real about this, you're not actually falling in love. You're falling into infatuation. You're lusting for them. And this is normal.

What do you do when this happens? ...You harness the feeling and use the feeling. Other than that, "Nothing". Because there is nothing you can do about the feeling anyway. The feeling is normal.

All you can do is sit back and see where it goes.

Usually if you're already involved with someone for more than a couple years, and you're quite sure you don't want to leave that person, you harness that sexual energy you feel from your lust for the other person and apply it to the relationship you have.

Observe your significant others response when you approach him/her with your amorous feelings. You don't need to tell him/her why you're feeling amorous, just go with the flow. Maybe you are with the right person, or maybe you're not.

What if you already had that true wonderful love in your life?...Then you harness that lustful energy and apply the feelings to your sex-making with your so far seemingly "Love in your life". I would say, "Love making", but nobody actually "Makes love", they just do sex, which perpetuates a pleasurable feeling which in turn creates a stronger intimate attachment to each other, hopefully.

So "How you got turned on" is not important. "Where" you apply that feeling, is important.

What if you know the ending before it has began?...Then you're experienced, so then you should also know to relax, sit back, and enjoy it.

Is it still worth it to take that chance?...Taking what chance? Dumping the person you're with for the new person who is giving you these feelings? ...That is up to you.

You have to weigh, what you have with the person you're with now, with what you might get with the new person. Is it worth the investigation? Yes, it might be. This depends on how happy or unhappy you are now with your existing "Lover".

If you're just beginning, "Dating", within a few months, then you're under no obligation to be exclusive to anyone, and you should go date the other person too. See where that goes. Why?

Because you're feeling infatuation. Its not love. Infatuation wanes fast or slow. So once again, its up to you to find out what kind of chemistry you have with these people.

4/18/2011 3:15 pm

Nobody is loyal and faithful to a situation that is not working. And if by some stroke of madness, they are, then they need help.

4/18/2011 3:25 pm

you harness that sexual energy you feel from your lust for the other person and apply it to the relationship you have

I know, sounds really funny. But it works and works well.

What do you do for a living?...Why do you want to know? I could tell you, but then it after acquiring that tidbit of knowledge it would not make any difference in your life or mine. Now of course if you lived closer and seeing you naked on a regular basis seemed like a good idea, then of course knowing details as such would make sense.

4/20/2011 2:04 pm

sometimes we ask a question out of pure curiosity, and not for any particular purpose....Regardless, the question is answered.