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8/6/2009 5:03 pm |
The death of a relationship is a kind of death, recent articles are suggesting that it's 'right up there'(stress~wise) with losing your beloved to death. The reason being is that both are extremely painful losses, and the soul doesn't care WHY the person is gone, only that they ARE. . note; notice the muted images of a couple behind the dying leaves~ . |
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8/7/2009 3:16 am |
wise words  have agreat weekend  thanks for reading and as per Dave Allen "May your God go with you"
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 8/7/2009 4:21 am |
Humm  you know I guess we do kind of go through a period of moarning after a break up  happy week-end Live the life that you love,  and love the life that you live 
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8/8/2009 8:01 am |
That is why I live in a shallow boat on the river of life. To heavy of a boat and I will sink to the bottom of the river. At least for now. Hopefully sometime in the future it will change.
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8/10/2009 8:05 am |
wise words have agreat weekend  I think the medical community may be right on thishoping your weekend was real nice p.s. thanks for the invite 
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8/11/2009 7:39 am |
Humm you know I guess we do kind of go through a period of moarning after a break up happy week-end I think each of us experiences the 'death' of a relationshipdifferently..it depends on the circumstances, length of relationship, children & animals involved..those kinds of variables. Then too..each of us express our grief in different ways. Me? I would liken the death of this relationship to a 'death.' Sooo very, very painful  I hope that your weekend was really nice Take care Nancy
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8/11/2009 7:45 am |
mourning comes in all forms, whether it is over a relationship death, death of loved one, or death of a pet. we all mourn in a different way and process. some take a longer time to heal. some people)with a loved one 'passing on.' It just depends on the person, and their own individual grieving process. There is no 'one right way.' Thanks for sharing your thoughts here..you're soooo right Take care Nanc
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8/11/2009 7:49 am |
That is why I live in a shallow boat on the river of life. To heavy of a boat and I will sink to the bottom of the river. At least for now. Hopefully sometime in the future it will change. I understand perfectly And I am happy to hear you speak of a hopeful future..just don't forget to enjoy today in the meantime,okay? Take care, my friend Nancy
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8/12/2009 12:18 am |
Hello Alec I think the medical community may be right on thishoping your weekend was real nicep.s. thanks for the invite and your very welcome thanks for reading and as per Dave Allen "May your God go with you"
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8/12/2009 1:36 am |
For some reason, Nancy, I used to lose everything under the couch when it went under there, especially my Hot Wheels cars. I had no idea where they went. My Mom and I searched forever but nothing ever turned up until one day. As it turned out, we had mice. I found virtually everything one day in the walls. Yeah, in the walls! Behind the couch was the wall heater. It didn't go all the way to the floor so it could be vented from underneathe. The mice must have taken the things and dragged them up the heater from underneathe and into the walls. Crafty things they were! Loosing things or loosing people...sometimes I wanted to lose some of my "friends" under that couch!!! Are you still crying over the creep that treated you worse than dirt? Let it go! He doesn't deserve your sympathy. He deserves a crack on his skull from a baseball bat! By the way Nancy, which coffee house do you go to??? Love & Hugs Nancy! In Jesus' Name, Tom May Your Days Be Bright & Beautiful!
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8/12/2009 11:04 am |
it was good thanks and your very welcome
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8/12/2009 11:18 am |
For some reason, Nancy, I used to lose everything under the couch when it went under there, especially my Hot Wheels cars. I had no idea where they went. My Mom and I searched forever but nothing ever turned up until one day. As it turned out, we had mice. I found virtually everything one day in the walls. Yeah, in the walls! Behind the couch was the wall heater. It didn't go all the way to the floor so it could be vented from underneathe. The mice must have taken the things and dragged them up the heater from underneathe and into the walls. Crafty things they were! Loosing things or loosing people...sometimes I wanted to lose some of my "friends" under that couch!!! Are you still crying over the creep that treated you worse than dirt? Let it go! He doesn't deserve your sympathy. He deserves a crack on his skull from a baseball bat! By the way Nancy, which coffee house do you go to??? Love & Hugs Nancy! In Jesus' Name, Tom Yes, mice can be very clever indeed! I still have two of the 21 wild mice I used to have, and sadly they're getting 'up there'too..but the things these little creatures have taught me..ha!ha!  well..let's just say that they aren't as 'dumb' as people thinkAs far as my relationship with the man that walked out on me and 'the girls' in December..it was a lengthy relationship, Tom, almost ten years, but to answer your thoughts here..no, I am crying over the lossof what I BELIEVED I had with him, I am crying for WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN. Most of all..I am crying for 'the girls,' walking out of MY life was one thing..walking out of THEIR life is quite another. They were his cats(originally)after all..and one of them is having a real hard time with this STILL. And yes..animals experience grief. Coffee house? Why, I take my coffee at home most of the time. Love and hugs to you too, Tom. Take care, my friend Nancy
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8/13/2009 4:01 am |
Oh yes Nancy, it can be so painful that even after years, and encountering many, no matter how much we want to deny it, the pain is still there to stay  It's nice to be insane when No one is watching 
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8/13/2009 2:39 pm |
Oh yes Nancy, it can be so painful that even after years, and encountering many, no matter how much we want to deny it, the pain is still there to stay sorry that you understand this..for it means you too have experienced what so many of us go through Wishes for much happiness in your life(((hugs)))Nancy
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8/29/2009 6:59 am |
In some ways, the loss of your partner to a sudden unexpected death (as in my case; he died in a motorcycle crash) is a little bit easier to deal with than someone making the decision to leave. As hard as it was to go thru his death, I did realize it would have been worse if he had decided to leave me and still be alive. I hope your heart heals soon, Nancy dear. Hugs. DONNA THE LOVEBUG IN CONNECTICUT
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8/29/2009 9:26 pm |
In some ways, the loss of your partner to a sudden unexpected death (as in my case; he died in a motorcycle crash) is a little bit easier to deal with than someone making the decision to leave. As hard as it was to go thru his death, I did realize it would have been worse if he had decided to leave me and still be alive. I hope your heart heals soon, Nancy dear. Hugs. Take care~Nancy
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