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 11/5/2009 8:44 am |
hi Roshni well erm erm...for me, when i get really mad... 2 things can happen... i yell or i hibernate But if those around me love me and understand my nature they should just pretty much give in to me first lol My temper will go off... just poke your fingers at my soft spots heheh how are you girl..... p/s - the options... well oh well... i pick 'distance yourself' we been there New Jersey, Delaware, Virginia, Alabama, Louisiana, Tennessee, Pennsylvania and New York  Ros & Jimy
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11/5/2009 8:54 am |
hi roshni, i talk it over with my partner after i've cooled down a bit. i hope you're doing well, dear friend. tgif!  rose   "when much is taken, something is returned." terry pratchett
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11/5/2009 12:38 pm |
hi amiga roshni communication is key if its at the time of the struggle, give a minute or two, then say its better to talk this through then to let it be for later, sometimes when we wait, it could be seen as picking a scab,.. adults should be adults especially when its with your partner, sometimes its good to agree to disagree     
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11/5/2009 4:37 pm |
silent treatment and communication .. happy weekend sis the most beautiful view is the one I share with you
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11/6/2009 12:21 am |
flutter your eyelashes smile men melt so easily  thanks for reading and as per Dave Allen "May your God go with you"
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11/6/2009 12:25 am |
Listen carefully what the other person has to say. Which is part of Communication. When we argue we often become irrational, and say thing that we might later regret. I used to hibernate, but that doesn't solve anything. Argue constructively? Not many know how to do that. We women are far too emotional to practice constructive arguing, haha Enjoy your weekend Roshni It's nice to be insane when No one is watching 
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11/6/2009 1:06 am |
Easy:  use the last sentence of the argument as the first one of your next (at your convienience of course)Its easy to blame others but its hard to stand up and say you failed [10:34 AM]
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11/6/2009 5:54 am |
hi Roshni well erm erm...for me, when i get really mad... 2 things can happen... i yell or i hibernate But if those around me love me and understand my nature they should just pretty much give in to me first lol My temper will go off... just poke your fingers at my soft spots heheh how are you girl..... p/s - the options... well oh well... i pick 'distance yourself' nice mask by the way
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11/6/2009 5:59 am |
hi roshni, i talk it over with my partner after i've cooled down a bit. i hope you're doing well, dear friend. tgif! rose  I am doing good how have u been?? thanks for dropping by dear
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11/6/2009 6:04 am |
hi amiga roshni communication is key if its at the time of the struggle, give a minute or two, then say its better to talk this through then to let it be for later, sometimes when we wait, it could be seen as picking a scab,.. adults should be adults especially when its with your partner, sometimes its good to agree to disagree thanks for ur feedback
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11/6/2009 6:07 am |
silent treatment and communication .. happy weekend sis 
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11/6/2009 6:17 am |
flutter your eyelashes smile men melt so easily really very easy solution  thanks
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11/6/2009 6:49 am |
Listen carefully what the other person has to say. Which is part of Communication. When we argue we often become irrational, and say thing that we might later regret. I used to hibernate, but that doesn't solve anything. Argue constructively? Not many know how to do that. We women are far too emotional to practice constructive arguing, haha Enjoy your weekend Roshni interesting point about constructive arguing  have a great weekend dear
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11/6/2009 6:55 am |
Easy: use the last sentence of the argument as the first one of your next (at your convienience of course) thanks ditto ah 
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11/6/2009 2:34 pm |
If you want to win the argument you must never back talk immediately. If you can't avoid it happening sit back and listen even if what your partner is saying makes no sense. When you start answering stick to the point and use as much facts as possible. If you can go out or be out of the way for a couple of hours to cool down do that it will make good instead of facing each other when you are both potentially in a war path.
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11/8/2009 9:18 am |
all regret later
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11/11/2009 12:30 pm |
hi amiga roshni i wanted to say thank you for visiting with me and sharing smiles,... always happy to see you hugs and smiles shared with you enjoy a beautiful week amiga dan
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11/12/2009 5:50 am |
If you want to win the argument you must never back talk immediately. If you can't avoid it happening sit back and listen even if what your partner is saying makes no sense. When you start answering stick to the point and use as much facts as possible. If you can go out or be out of the way for a couple of hours to cool down do that it will make good instead of facing each other when you are both potentially in a war path.
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11/12/2009 5:54 am |
all regret later 
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11/12/2009 5:56 am |
hi amiga roshni i wanted to say thank you for visiting with me and sharing smiles,... always happy to see you hugs and smiles shared with you enjoy a beautiful week amiga dan
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