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Can't seem to post my question on the advice lines! How annoying, I just spilled my sad heart out over at the magazine and guess what, it seems I can no longer post anything on those forums as apparently I'm not a member on the magazine? So I'll post it here instead, better than putting it to waste I suppose! IS HE PUTTING THEIR FEELINGS B4 MINE?????? I asked my husband for his bruv's address as there are things I need to know about things that have happened in the past. Although in the past the things that happened are having a detrimental impact on our lives today. Our family is worse off today because of something his bruv did in the past, a BIG part that he played in orchestrating a temporary split between me and my husband. Anyway my husband knows this has always bothered me, as there are many pieces to the puzzle that have always been missing, and my husband wont give me the answers that I need to move on. So I suggested asking his bruv for the answers, I just want to know WHY he was so intent on splitting us up. Things could be so different now if his bruv hadn't twisted his arm into kicking us out of our family home in 2003, a long time ago, but we lost a lot, and we are suffering now from it, I need to know the truth before I can finally put it to rest. BUT my husband is refusing to give me his bruv's address. His reason is, "My brother is in contact with my sister and she would hear about this and it might upset her" But I am the one that is upset, and this has been upsetting me for a long time. It's like a dark cloud looming over our relationship, over our whole family set up. I need to know what the hec is going on. Is he right to think like he does? |
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Oh just to add, the reason this is all coming back to me now, is becasue we just happened to have bought a house over the road from the one where it all happened in 2003. Only this new house is not quite as good as our old one, the house that we bought from plan, new build, where I chose all the fixtures and fittings, from the kitchen cabinets to the toilet seats (lol), like a dream come true it was, for us all. Now from my bedroom window I can only imagine what fun the new occupants are haivng in our old house, our first family home together, the hosue I can now view from my bedroom window. It's opening up old wounds alright!
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Hi all Yes thanx for that City Slicker2009. You are right about my immediate family - they are the only ones that matter. I'm getting on alright now, putting the inlaws behind us where they belong out with the rubbish. Just once in a blue moon something or other tends to crop up bringing all the bad memories to the surface, hopefully it will pass, disolving all the bad memories with it!
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