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gotgumonmyshoe 63M
244 posts
9/14/2008 8:55 am
I Don't Understand It ! ! ! !

I don't undertsand why people here at FF would insult other people, people they have never seen, people they know nothing about, people who could take extreme offense at being called names and being insulted in a chat room, in an email, or even in a testamonial. I have been on FF for about 2 months now, and have enjoyed myself somewhat, but those who insult and belittle others are ruining the experience for me and others. Don't get me wrong, however, for I am not a sensative little wimp whose feelings get hurt at the slightest little ripple on the lake, but I have also been insulted and belittled, and I don't know why, because nobody at FF knows me. Sure, they have seen my photo, read my profile and chatted with me, but nobody truly knows me. Of course I know when people are having fun and joking with me and/or others, and I do that too, but I don't know why some people choose to be so hurtful, so cruel, so mean, so insulting.

And more than once, I have come to the defense of someone getting picked on, being called a , a slut, retarded, and worse. This behavior is uncalled for.

For those of you who choose to "say" things to people that would probably slap your face if you were face to face with them, knock it off and grow up! If you wouldn't say it to somebody's face, don't say it here. Stop hiding behind the guise and the anonymity of a made-up name, and knowing you have the shield of this anonymity and hunderds or perhaps thousands of miles.

Just knock it off and be nice.



My foot is 12 inches long.
It's a foot.


midnight_daisy 49F
2234 posts
9/30/2008 8:26 am

I clicked your blog just because I love your picture and name so much... too funny!

As for the content in this post you've got here, yeah. We've all done one at one time or another. There are some jerks out there, to be sure. Don't let 'em get you down. There are some not-so-jerkish folk, too. And they are FUN!

Cheers!


etteniram 51F
7 posts
9/18/2008 7:35 am

Just dont mind those kind of people,coz whats n their mind,thoughts itll all comes out in their personality,if they think negatively to others beings and being rude to others theres much to themselves,just stays what you are now coz for me your the best,very kind person,just wear ur true colours at all times.....ONE THING MORE I BELIEVE IN A GOOD AND BAD KARMAS(carmas)....


Smiley0824 54F

9/17/2008 2:17 pm

You may find rude, crazy people here and also in real life. Glad I don't use IM

Take care....


iryslyn 62F

9/15/2008 3:37 am

At last someone smart here.
I have heard so much stuff , i don't want to make a generalisation but really mostly of the pple here are liar etc...
They say "NO GAME ETC.... " but htey are here to game & i'm so disgust about all of it.
I change my profile & i know what i write many will don't like what i say, but i think it's better to be true of to be a fool.
Ho pple can say to u they love you after 2days & never meet you?
They need to go doing there game in real life & they would come to me i would be so happy to say his true right in this face.
I'm so fisgust & i lost all ready my trust etc...
Best regards.


ember36 61F

9/14/2008 3:26 pm

Well said

hugssss


toneboney 74M
8711 posts
9/14/2008 2:10 pm

I must admit that here in the blogs I have occasionally come across
what you describe. Yes it does happen and it will continue to
happen in all walks of life.. I very rarely go to chat... But
on the occasions I have been I have noticed what you mention
above. Some of the regulars are very nice people, but if I
enter a chat room that I do not feel comfortable with it... Then
I just walk away. I am sure if you stay with it... you will get
to know that most people are very nice sincere and genuine people.
As my old aunt Mary used to say.... (No I'm making this up,
but the truth is in the statement)... If you want a Burger King
Burger... then don't go to MacDonald's...
Happy blogging...
Tone.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
9/14/2008 10:16 am

False bravado borne out of immaturity is the worst. I see it all the time, and like you, I think to myself--wonder if these people can say the sort of thing they do online in real life?

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


PottersPal2008 64F

9/14/2008 9:24 am

Well said.....

Unfortunately, this is something that crops up all the time here.