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roxie1987
5/13/2008 5:57 am
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Some says that being a gay, is a product of genetic, lack of male chromosomes or not properly balance the genes of X and Y chromosomes. Genetic is basically, means from the unit of information that was called genes.
And some other people says, that being a gay is a cause of environment or let say influence by its peer or friends, if you believe in the saying, " the same feathers flucks together" or let say " tell me about your friend and i tell you who you are" . That's the practically answer by those peoples around..
The one that i hate most are those peoples who are uncivilize about the gays in this sociaties or around the world, they discriminate us, prejudice and get exploited, and some presecuted.
Other says, and believe that the cause of the gays, is a gift from God, that's why many gays are conversant, talented and professionals..
we love the way we are, who we are, and what we are?thats, the most exclusively answer of those peoples who are chooses to be a gay, because some says, " it's their choice ". That's why i don't even blame myself, why is it i am gay?.because i know and i bileive that, this is me, the real me, who i am and what i am is the one who true to myself, the gay one who deserves freedom and love and to be loved.. hehehe Because all of the answer is right, gay is causes of genetic, environment, God Gift and their choice..
That's life, and it's still life, so that Enjoy for it!!!!!!!
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12263 posts 5/13/2008 10:34 am |
That covers ALL of the bases. You can't be wrong that way! Just like there are good whites and bad whites, there are good gays and bad gays, and good hetros and bad hetros. I TRY to be a GOOD hetro (Straight) but it is hard to resist a good fight now and then.
A Woman's from the BACK !
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888 posts 5/13/2008 11:20 am |
I like your positive attitude. You should be proud of who you are and not let others put you down. Also sorry you had such a difficult childhood with your father.
Look forward to reading your future blogs. A good way to build up more readers is to visit other people's blogs and leave comments. I'm mentioning this because I think your writings are very honest, expressive and worthy of being read by more folks here in bloggsville. Good luck and keep on writing!
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28 posts 5/13/2008 10:15 pm |
Hi shiva7585, Thanks for posting your sentiment.. Yeah, it's refer to an honest way were i've wrote those things on my blog.. Because being honest person deserve to have more good friends and at rest... Thanks for visiting my blog..
Sweet, roxie
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28 posts 5/13/2008 10:16 pm |
Hi debutanteBaltimr, thanks for Posting and visiting my blog...
Sweet, Roxie
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343 posts 5/13/2008 11:08 pm |
Roxie I for one will stand up and fight for your right to be you. I do think sexuality is predetermined. But I do have to complain about you posting pornography material in the magazine. There is another site for that It is called Adult friend finder. Many of the people who use this site have children who read over their shoulder, and pornography is totally out of place on this dating site.
just things that run through annie's little mind
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28 posts 5/13/2008 11:59 pm |
Hi bluejeans_baby, Sorry, i thought this is for adult friend finder... Okey, next time i will never put it up.. By the way i'm from Outpersonal member, i was plan to registered in this for i know to find different... Thanks for being concern citizen...
Sweet, Roxie
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343 posts 5/14/2008 12:02 pm |
thanks for understanding roxie, and know anytime I can help you please let me know I would love to get to know you better and will stand as a friend if needed.
just things that run through annie's little mind
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28 posts 5/14/2008 7:50 pm |
Hi bluejeans_baby, I love making friends, and i'm happy if i getting someones happy with my company... hehehe hope we become good friends ever... To tell you about my self, I am still Student and i taking up BSN(BS Nursing)..Nice to know you here blue jeans baby, Hope you enjoy my company here having a new friend of yours..
Sweet, Roxie
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5/14/2008 10:28 pm |
Roxie, you seem like a nice person, and I'd be happy to be your friend. Yes, there is a lot of gay bashing, still. But one thing I would like to know, perhaps you cannot even answer this, is why is much more "socially acceptable" for a woman to be gay, or bi, but it is so unacceptable for a man to be? That doesn't seem fair to me. Cuz i see alot more prejudice towards gay men than women. especially in my community, and to be frank here, I much prefer the company of gay men. Gay men are often very gracious polite people. I have alot of friends who were gay men. They were fun to be around. I'm a straight woman, and I think gay men make great friends to women, even if we are str8. I've noticed alot of pushy gay women though, and it makes me quite uncomfortable to be around them. And they don't seem very kind to men either, the way gay men do toward str8 women. I have had men tell me too. I don't know why that would be. I care not whom you choose to be with, as long as you treat others with respect and courtesy. It does seem that society will single a certain group of people if they are in the minority and make scapegoats out of them. It's sad, but human nature needs to evolve a lot more than it's done. So, welcome to the blogs roxie. Nice to have you hear. Bluejeans is right, this is much a more g-rated site than the other place, but it's nice you respect that.
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28 posts 5/15/2008 2:21 am |
Hi kohalaredbudd, Thank you, makes me feel Billions of smiles i had receive from you.. I do really agree with you, we had different personalities and different s gays attitude of course is lead to have different companies to be joined with. yeah, i am a gay men but i wish to be a trangender, hope i aM still acceptable towards you as my friends.. Maybe those pushy gay has personality having been concious or more perfect ways they has because they are more social compare to those gay men. Gay men desire to have a man that loves them no matter what also with those pushy gay.. We had different personalities but we have one goal to be attain.. Hope we could obtain it. And thanks for being there to those gay men around your state and your home.
Sweet, Roxie
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83 posts 5/15/2008 4:33 am |
You seem to be trying to present a positive image of gay people. Keep up the good work.
 Solo.
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28 posts 5/15/2008 5:44 am |
Hi Solo001b, Thank you for your comments..
Sweet, Roxie
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5/15/2008 2:16 pm |
There are alot of good gay people out there. People need to not paint all gay men with the same brush. No, sweetie I do not mean pushy gay men. I meant pushy gay women. I do see alot of that, and there are many many gay women in our area. No, I've had a very good gay friend, he was a guy also, whom I don't really know what I would of done, had he not been there for me, and lent many a support shoulder, during a very bleak part of my life.
Many gay men are very creative, very artistic, I wish I had a gay hairdresser again, they beat the women out hands down. Many gay people are nice. But like DB says, there is good & bad in every group I suppose. Perhaps it is the bad gays that have given the gays a bad name. I do not know. But it is nice to have a pleasant person on our blogs once again. We've gotten alot of pushy people around here lately. I guess you can guess I don't like pushy people! LOL. I just dont' like control freaks period! We had a few in my family and I promised myself I would never be like that, or try to control others' behavior. I do wish people would show more tolerance toward other's differences. That would make for such a more peaceful world, would it not? Well, I just heard on the news that California is allowing gay marriages today.
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28 posts 5/15/2008 6:40 pm |
Hi kohalaredbudd, Thanks for posting and visiting my blog again.. Once again thank you for having a very interesting line. And i appreciate it. In regards from those gays with different s groups, yeah, it differs a lot, you can find different personalities and different bad attitudes but if you are aware of those things you can handle with it, but always take care yourself because now a days, many people or bad peoples are roaming around who knows maybe we caN CATCH THEM OR WE ARE BE CATCH BY THEM..LL And i do agree with gay marriage if you don't mind, because that's one of my greatest dream in my whole entire life to get married with the guy i like and i love..Peace
Sweet, Roxie
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