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5/14/2008 10:29 am
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249 posts 5/14/2008 11:46 am |
Bringing up the past can help. You know, if you want to win!
But is it possible to WIN and LOSE at the same time . . . mmmm???
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455 posts 5/14/2008 12:09 pm |
I try to forgive and I try even harder to forget evil ones doings or other things that cause me pain but I know that talking, blogging, and not holding things in all helps me move forward and get past the thing that are bothering me.  peace,lisa
Make luv & war will be extinct! Stop the hate!
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709 posts 5/14/2008 12:35 pm |
Winning doesnt seem important to me........so bringing up the past isnt necessary. Today and now........move on dont dwell.
Later, Mickey 
Never take life seriously. No one ever gets out alive anyway.
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1428 posts 5/14/2008 12:45 pm |
Quoting shooter65: Bringing up the past can help. You know, if you want to win!
But is it possible to WIN and LOSE at the same time . . . mmmm???
OK, I bring up that you won as my secret crush then, shall I Even thpough you voted more than once  
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1428 posts 5/14/2008 12:48 pm |
Quoting THISISMEIN08: I try to forgive and I try even harder to forget evil ones doings or other things that cause me pain but I know that talking, blogging, and not holding things in all helps me move forward and get past the thing that are bothering me.  peace,lisa
I think forgiving is more important than forgetting, maybe I'm waiting for Karma to come around, and maybe I have to wait for another lifetime
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1428 posts 5/14/2008 12:49 pm |
Quoting mickey6785: Winning doesnt seem important to me........so bringing up the past isnt necessary. Today and now........move on dont dwell.
Later, Mickey 
I agree, but it's more difficult to practice, don't you think
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925 posts 5/14/2008 2:31 pm |
I don't think the past should be brought up. one could still have hurt feelings, and there would be no sense to inflict that over again. I recently thought I forgave and forgot, until it was back in my face again. sucks just as much as the first time.
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8904 posts 5/14/2008 7:57 pm |
Uni...I don't want to start a fight here with you, but by constantly making reference to that other blogger, you contribute to the mayhem. Press the magic ignore button. (and I'm trying to follow my own advice )
Wishing you happiness
Misty
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1428 posts 5/14/2008 8:28 pm |
Quoting earthmomazdaddyo: I don't think the past should be brought up. one could still have hurt feelings, and there would be no sense to inflict that over again. I recently thought I forgave and forgot, until it was back in my face again. sucks just as much as the first time.
: I know if you want to talk, just email.
Damn I'm such a potentially good Counseller, NOT 
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6 posts 5/14/2008 9:10 pm |
The past is the past, if someone has wronged you just ignore them and move on, don't give them power over you by keeping you in the past.
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1428 posts 5/15/2008 11:01 am |
Quoting shyinbama: The past is the past, if someone has wronged you just ignore them and move on, don't give them power over you by keeping you in the past.
I do agree, and it is giving them more power, and that is where I am failing
Any attack on mine, is an attack on me, and whilst I have to deal with a serious situation, and the attacker, I do not know how YET.
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1428 posts 5/15/2008 11:05 am |
Quoting Mistytraveller: Uni...I don't want to start a fight here with you, but by constantly making reference to that other blogger, you contribute to the mayhem. Press the magic ignore button. (and I'm trying to follow my own advice )
Thanks misty, no problem here, but I do understand what you are saying, and as always, you speak sense.
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