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Does Bringing Up The Past Really Help:
Uniforever
5/14/2008 10:29 am
Personally, I think it is necessary for legal purposes, (often taking years for a resolution)but if all is calm, then unecessary rakings up of the past, based on personal feelings is wrong as is any type of revenge.

I think the same is true here if some-one posts a blog that refers to arguments here etc, just makes high emotions run deeper, like skimmimg a stone across the water and counting the ripples.

What do you think
Yes
No
Only 'higher beings' can truly live in the here and now
I forgive but don't forget
I pretend to forget, but I don't forgive
shooter65
249 posts 

5/14/2008 11:46 am

Bringing up the past can help. You know, if you want to win!

But is it possible to WIN and LOSE at the same time . . . mmmm???

THISISMEIN08
455 posts 

5/14/2008 12:09 pm

I try to forgive and I try even harder to forget
evil ones doings or other things that cause me pain
but I know that talking, blogging, and not holding things in
all helps me move forward
and get past the thing that are bothering me.
peace,lisa

Make luv & war will be extinct!
Stop the hate!

mickey6785
709 posts 

5/14/2008 12:35 pm

Winning doesnt seem important to me........so bringing up the past isnt necessary. Today and now........move on dont dwell.

Later,
Mickey

Never take life seriously. No one ever gets out alive anyway.

Uniforever
1428 posts 

5/14/2008 12:45 pm

    Quoting shooter65:
    Bringing up the past can help. You know, if you want to win!

    But is it possible to WIN and LOSE at the same time . . . mmmm???
OK, I bring up that you won as my secret crush then, shall I
Even thpough you voted more than once

Uniforever
1428 posts 

5/14/2008 12:48 pm

    Quoting THISISMEIN08:
    I try to forgive and I try even harder to forget
    evil ones doings or other things that cause me pain
    but I know that talking, blogging, and not holding things in
    all helps me move forward
    and get past the thing that are bothering me.
    peace,lisa
I think forgiving is more important than forgetting, maybe I'm waiting for Karma to come around, and maybe I have to wait for another lifetime

Uniforever
1428 posts 

5/14/2008 12:49 pm

    Quoting mickey6785:
    Winning doesnt seem important to me........so bringing up the past isnt necessary. Today and now........move on dont dwell.

    Later,
    Mickey
I agree, but it's more difficult to practice, don't you think

earthmomazdaddyo
925 posts

5/14/2008 2:31 pm

I don't think the past should be brought up.
one could still have hurt feelings, and there would be
no sense to inflict that over again.
I recently thought I forgave and forgot,
until it was back in my face again.
sucks just as much as the first time.

Mistytraveller
8904 posts 

5/14/2008 7:57 pm

Uni...I don't want to start a fight here with you, but by constantly making reference to that other blogger, you contribute to the mayhem. Press the magic ignore button. (and I'm trying to follow my own advice )

Wishing you happiness

Misty

Uniforever
1428 posts 

5/14/2008 8:28 pm

    Quoting earthmomazdaddyo:
    I don't think the past should be brought up.
    one could still have hurt feelings, and there would be
    no sense to inflict that over again.
    I recently thought I forgave and forgot,
    until it was back in my face again.
    sucks just as much as the first time.
: I know if you want to talk, just email.

Damn I'm such a potentially good Counseller, NOT

shyinbama
6 posts 

5/14/2008 9:10 pm

The past is the past, if someone has wronged you just ignore them and move on, don't give them power over you by keeping you in the past.

Uniforever
1428 posts 

5/15/2008 11:01 am

    Quoting shyinbama:
    The past is the past, if someone has wronged you just ignore them and move on, don't give them power over you by keeping you in the past.
I do agree, and it is giving them more power, and that is where I am failing

Any attack on mine, is an attack on me, and whilst I have to deal with a serious situation, and the attacker, I do not know how YET.

Uniforever
1428 posts 

5/15/2008 11:05 am

    Quoting Mistytraveller:
    Uni...I don't want to start a fight here with you, but by constantly making reference to that other blogger, you contribute to the mayhem. Press the magic ignore button. (and I'm trying to follow my own advice )
Thanks misty, no problem here, but I do understand what you are saying, and as always, you speak sense.

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