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I apologize first, but

fastcatkin

7/22/2008 10:28 am

I apologize in advance for this blog, but...

I was unable to get online for several days and when I came back it was surprising to see so many negative blogs about others. I guess somewhere in my mind, I thought this was a place to share a part of your life with another human being. I'm not saying everyone has to agree with you or even like you, but can't we all be civil to each other at least?

Does it do any good to slander another for the sake of making you feeling better? Does it do any good to constanty pick at a certain blogger because you find it funny and a way to make them get upset?

Think about this... if you are inclined to always attack others on here, for the sake of being mean, you will get the reputation of being ugly, spiteful and not worth anything. If you are inclined to be opinionated in a good way, you will be respected and you will get a fair respond, even from those you have differing view points on.

However, being down right mean and nasty just to have fun,,,, you are the worst and take away the good intentions of the FF site - to join people in friendships and possibly more.

So, in the future, how about you don't respond to a blogger if you feel the need to be nasty instead of opinionated, the rest of us will be more likely to respect your divergent opinions and not come to dislike you.

Enough said... I like the people who have shared their lives with me, and I hate to think that anyone of them are more important or better than anyone else out there sharing... even those I have differing views on.

So go ahead and blast me now...

cruiser387

11856 posts

7/22/2008 4:10 pm

Guess I missed a bit of nastiness....and I am ok with that.

How are you?

fastcatkin replies on 7/22/2008 8:32 pm:
Hey Mary:

Yeah, it was nasty and I'm glad you missed it too. I'm doing really good lately. Met someone on here I really like and am taking the time to enjoy all it offers...

How are you?

Cat

Uniforever

3550 posts

7/22/2008 1:21 pm

I'm missing something here

I thought all was peaceful in Blogsville

It's all about nothing anyway

Mistytraveller

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9968 posts

7/22/2008 1:06 pm

I just press the magic ignore button....or try to.... You're right--but some just seem to enjoy causing hurt--guess they like the attention.

Wishing you happiness

Misty

fastcatkin replies on 7/22/2008 8:34 pm:
I used to delete the comments, but then I realized that gave them more satisfaction, so now I leave them.

Hope you are doing well.

driverdan

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17246 posts

7/22/2008 12:08 pm

well said cat,.. so true,.. have a great week filled with peace love happiness hugs
dan

fastcatkin replies on 7/22/2008 8:35 pm:
Hey Dan:

Hope you are having a good week too. Mine has started out pretty good. I can't complain overall.

Thank you for your support.

Cat

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