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4/8/2008 3:17 am
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What better way to celebrate the advent of the new monthly contests on FriendFinder than to celebrate the friendships you've made on the site! Tell us about your favorite meetings with friends and/or dates with your entry in the FriendFinder Success Stories Contest!
Did you find a great movie buddy on FriendFinder? Or connect with an engaging book group? Perhaps you had your best date ever with someone you met right here? In 1,000 words or less, write up the story of your successful FriendFinder hookup, be it platonic or romantic. Just be sure not to use real names or handles - pseudonyms only, please! - and if you are telling a passionate tale, please keep it PG-rated and "fade to black" at the appropriate time!
If you hit the proverbial FriendFinder lotto and have made multiple connections here, that's wonderful - and it'll increase your chances to win, since multiple entries are permitted (one entry per blog post). To enter, post a comment below containing your entry. No photos, please; let your words paint the picture for us.
The members of FriendFinder will pick the winners. Members will vote on their favorites, and the 3 highest-rated entries will win a Gold Membership, a VIP designation, and a FriendFinder T-shirt! Members can begin voting immediately on entries, so get your submissions in early! The earlier your submission is posted, the more views it will receive by the members who vote. And for this contest, all participants with a valid entry will be awarded 500 points!
The deadline to both enter and vote is Monday, May 12, 2008 at 11:59 a.m. (PST). Winners will be announced shortly thereafter.
How to vote:
1. Next to each entry, you'll see three categories "I Agree" "Neutral" "I Disagree." 2. To vote for an entry, click "I Agree" (do not use "Neutral" or "I Disagree" - these will not count). 3 You can only vote once per entry, but you can vote for multiple entries. 4. The winners will be determined by the entries with the most "I Agree" votes.
Specific Contest Rules:
1. All entries must adhere to the Terms. 2. Entries must be 1,000 words or less. 3. Multiple entries are permitted, but each post must be about a different subject. 4. One entry per post, and no photos please. 5. All entries must be about connections made here on FriendFinder.com. 6. All entries must be submitted and votes cast by Monday, May 12, 2008 at 11:59 a.m. (PST) . 7. General apply and include the following: a. FriendFinder.com.is not responsible for entries that it does not receive for any reason, including technical malfunctions. b. If a member receives a prize, he is not eligible to win another prize for 90 days unless otherwise noted in the specific contest.
Prizes for this contest are:
Grand Prize: 1-year Gold membership, a VIP designation, and a FriendFinder T-shirt. 2nd place: 6-month Gold membership, a VIP designation, and a FriendFinder T-shirt. 3rd place: 3-month Gold membership, a VIP designation, and a FriendFinder T-shirt.
All participants with a valid entry will be awarded 500 points!
This contest is now closed. Stay tuned for the winners announcement
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16 posts 4/9/2008 12:47 am |
hello everyone, i have been on ff for a very long time , and have met many good friends over a period of time, but saying that have also met a few for real off of ff that were not honest and into head games but i never gave up looking for a loving honest lady.in the year of 2007 i met a lady on ff that was very simple but honest and very nice. we started to say hi and just chat every day and chance we could, trusting each other more every day.we then took the next step and invited that lady to come out and see me (and try to live togeather) in nov. of 2007. our happyness grew in leaps and bounds, and thanks to ff for showing me that there is real people and real honest people that are looking for love and companionship.now in 2008 we plan to marry on june 14 2008 and thanks to ff to make this possible for me to be able to do this, as if it wasn't for ff i would of never met my wife to be, thank you ff.and to u all u are all invited if u so wish, and know that ff does have ppl that care and and really do have a heart, and feelings.this site has done that for me.it is also a site that u can help and feel for ppl that do have problems communicating and be there for them if needed, for advice, help them in time of sorrow, or help them enjoy there time of happyness , ones again thank you ff and to my many close friends, that i have found .
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1 post 4/9/2008 1:41 am |
I joined FF as a matter of curiousity - first time and all. Barely two weeks or so later, I read the profile of this guy on FF and went bunkers.I contacted him and his reply was immediate. We got to exchanging mails and getting to know each other better. Now, I can't live without him. This has been a unique experience in my life and I appreciate this opportunity to get to find that man - the God sent man for me.
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2135 posts 4/9/2008 2:10 am |
The Devils of FF
I joined Friend Finder two years ago. I went into the Clean Room for chat and met some wonderful people. The beautiful Miss E welcomed me there and showed me what to do even though she was fairly new there herself. She was the one person I seemed to really connect with due to our wit and humour and she became a very special person in my life. We generally just played one off with the other with our remarks and usually had the Clean Room in fits of laughter. People commented they only came into the Clean Room if they saw us there because they knew it was going to be fun. Over time we found we had so much in common in our lives and we felt like sisters but in different countries. Well, since I traveled a bit we decided to meet in San Francisco where I stayed. Well the rest is history. We met, spent a whole week together then we drove back down to LA where she lived and I stayed there for 2 weeks with her. She integrated me into her family like I was her sister and they accept me like one. We had the most fantastic time together and blogged about our Adventure Series Road Trips, which were an absolute hoot. We comment on each others blogs back and forth having a pretend war of words and smart comments. She calls me Fancypanties or BigBreastedBeadyEyedRat and I call her Biker Biatch Babe or the Divine Miss Pink . The trio member is Sidecar Slutty and her Thimbles. It’s just the way we are together, full of mischief. We chat on IM and the phone almost daily. When I am in the US we always spend time together every year. We plan more Road Trips together meeting other people we have met from FF as we did in San Francisco. We did have a night out with other FF members that lived in the area which was great. Lots of photos from that. We now both blog more than visit the chat rooms, and the blogs are livened up due to our sense of humour. I have also found the blogs to be a great way to meet people and know more of their lives and what is going on with them. We have a following in there of people we would both love to meet. We have become and will remain, always, the closest of friends and this is all thanks to Friend Finder. Had I not joined here we would never have met. There are so many wonderful people here and I hope to meet a lot more yet.
‘Life should not be a journey to the grass with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body but rather to skid sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming Woo Hoo – what a ride’.
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3260 posts 4/9/2008 7:56 am |
INSIDE the plane.
Dec 14, 2005 8:25 pm Mood: refreshed, 417 Views
A beautiful shy, but self assured, woman walked OUTSIDE the plane and down the long corridor from Gate D past security where I was waiting. As she reached to answer her ringing cell phone I knew it was her especially when she spotted me hanging up and her phone was no longer ringing. That is the way it all started.
We left the airport and Portland behind as we started our drive towards mid Oregon coast where we were to stay a couple days, then work our way to CA where we would spend time seeing the beaches, Redwoods and other stuff. We soon started keeping our eyes open for Bigfoot as we talked of the more than 600 sightings in this area, BUT, no, not a one to be seen. We had to settle for sea lions, sand dollars, starfish and driftwood.
What an incredible strong independent woman so so gentle and kind. A woman who can see beauty in all the world and creation around her. Her insatiable quest for seeing and knowledge was beyond a delight keeping each day fresh with excitement. I was so blessed and humbled with her joy.
Soon it became time to make the trip to Portland as her ticket said it was time for the Lovely Lady to get back to work. So ended a very wonderful relaxed few days with the lady who dared break down the walls and take a peak at my heart.. Thank you thank you Micmor for being such an incredible lady. Thank you so much..
This was a blog I had posted about one of several women I have been blessed to meet here. Although in my case, two of us have not met who choose to put a life time together, several of us have met with each other and will remember for a life time. I can happen for any of us at any time thanks to FriendFinders and many of the wonderful people here. INSIDE the plane.
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7901 posts 4/9/2008 11:43 am |
This is the story of how I joined the blogs and met people. I can’t mention any names, so let’s just call them Miss Blue, Miss Beige, Miss Black, Miss Brown, Miss Brass, Miss Bronze, Miss Burgundy, Miss Burnt Orange and Mr Taupe. Don’t ask me about the colours, they know who they are, and why. Actually, don’t ask Mr Taupe either, he scares easily and has a tendency to bite.
For anyone who has never tried the blogs, I’d recommend it. If you’re the kind of person who needs half an hour to come up with a witty retort, then this is the place for you. This is conversation in slow motion, ideal for the getting-to-know-you-getting-to-know-that-part-of-me-I-let-you-see process. There are all kinds of blogs too, from the “rip-the-first-thing-off-the-internet-you-find” jokey ones to the “depressing-poetry-I-wrote-myself-while-depressed” meaningful ones. I like to think my blog is a charming combination of the two, with a little “see-how-sensitive-I-can-be-having-posted-a-picture-of-a-kitten” thrown in for good measure. Then, of course, there are the ones where people actually write about what actually happens to them in their actual lives. I tend to find these blogs quite scary as nothing actually happens in my life and I prefer it that way (when something does happen I have to change medication and things just get too complicated). So, anyway, one day I joined the blogs and began to “meet people”.
Miss Blue was the first to make non-blog contact. She sent me one of those cryptic emails. “Hi, I like your style. Wanna chat?” I was intrigued. “Like your pic. Maybe we can IM.” I responded teasingly. Things went downhill from there.
Miss Beige was more forthcoming. One day in my inbox I found ten censored emails in the bulk section. I don’t know what she wrote, but I dream about her every night. I’ve received more mails from Russian girls living in California since then, but none of them have captured my heart like Miss Beige.
Then there is Miss Black. Ah, Miss Black. What can I tell you about her? To be honest, not a lot. It’s not that I don’t know much about her, it’s that what I do know is so gut-wrenchingly sordid that to write about it would mean that this story would never pass the censors. Let’s just say she’s a simple country girl who loves animals and havin’ a good time.
Miss Brown came next. Webcams are great. I recommend Kleenex.
Miss Brass and Miss Bronze do nothing but send me winks. I tried mailing them, but got no response. Somebody told me that they were really men, actually just one man, who likes to mess with the heads of others. I can’t believe that. I mean, nobody would be so sad as to spend all their time doing something so stupid, would they?
Would they?
Miss Burgundy runs a small blog out of Antarctica. At least, that’s what her profile says. She also says that on dates she likes “all of the above”, which I find particularly exciting, as that’s what I like on dates too. Somebody told me that some profiles are not a hundred percent true. But that can’t be right. I mean, why would someone lie on a profile if it was obvious they would be found out straight away in real life? It would be like just inventing a character to attract attention without ever intending to meet people in real life. How sad would that be?
My special friend is Miss Burnt Orange. She understands me, and I think I understand her. She’s mysterious and I love that. We met once in Paris. It was so romantic. I was heading for Gate 9 at Orly Airport and she passed within a metre of me. She didn’t say anything, but I know it was her. I can’t say any more due to the court order, but she knows how strongly I feel.
Then there’s Mr Taupe. Well, really there is no Mr Taupe. He’s my alter ego. The cool, suave and sophisticated blogger I’ve always wanted to be. If he was writing this story, then I’d win a t-shirt for sure. That’s all I want. A t-shirt.
And a little attention.
Thanks for reading.
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1 post 4/10/2008 6:00 am |
yes i have meet someone very special to me on ff we chatted here for months and last year me and my kids went for spring break at her house and meet for the first time in person as we also talked everyday on the phone. at the time she needed someone to listen and i was so very lukcy to be that someone!! we have been great friends ever since and we so cherish this new found friend and that our paths got to cross! i would have been the first persont o say that talking on the computer was a waste of time and that there were only crazy people with lots of drama but that wasnt the case and i must say i have meet a great many wonderful people on this site that i keep in touch with often.so i say keep up the great work and thank you for helping me find these wonderful people!!!!!i have told many people about this site and will continue to recomend it
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1 post 4/10/2008 7:34 pm |
Hi everyone. I decided to tell you my storey because I'm on cloud 9 at the moment. I've met the girl of my dreams. I've never agreed that you will find the right person on a website. I was just looking when I saw a girl who caught my eye. She was so much like myself that it was frightening. Shes even got similar looks to me! I've exchanged a few messages and have now asked her to visit me. Shes in Peru and I'm in England. She makes my pulse race every time I talk to her or see her picture and I'm smitten and I haven't even met her yet! If you would have said this would happen to me 2 months ago I'd have laughed at you. I'm just waiting for her answer when she comes back on in the next day or 2. I never slept well last night in anticipation of her answer.(I've got it bad) I've never being in "real" love before but this must be it because I feel strange but it also feels great. She wants to settle down and have children the same as me. Shes the most beautiful women on the planet. I adore her and pray that it all works out. We will be together forever if I have anything to do with it. Thanks FF.
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4288 posts 4/11/2008 4:47 am |
Right, Been here over a year, and Yep I’m still “Billy No Mates”. I’ve been used, abused, reported for abuse. “Shhhsh”. I’ve had so many tongues stuck out at me, been called a “Nerd, a Muppet, a Dummy, and a plonker”. and I’ve even been dragged on the floor to roll around laughing with PP. I even got arrested by Police woman Liz. I’ve been thwacked around the head by Munch, and sung to by Ari... Such pain I’ve endured. Even shot up the Bum, by a Bunny witch, Beta. Called fat, (in an oh so very polite way) by RP. Hit by Eimeebons with a plastic hammer, Crushed by Ms Belle. Harassed by Honey KO, (with a lot of help by Donald) Even my life long Mate El Ric ate a “Yummy” Bunny. Do I want a Gold Ball? No thanks, I can’t cope with the limited things I can do at the moment as a standard member. Do I want VIP status? No thanks again, I spend six hours a day answering emails and winks as it is. Do I want a T shirt? No thanks, I get enough people looking weirdly at me as I walk down the street without wearing a FF T shirt saying, “Hey look at me, I’m really a Sad person”. So why am I here you might ask? Because EVERYONE I have come in contact with here on FF are very SPECIAL to me, in very different ways. One person stands out amongst all others here, and if by chance I get enough votes, then I really don’t want the prizes, instead I would like FF to donate/award it to “Little wonder3” I think she deserved it more than anyone. Thanks, Tone.
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1 post 4/12/2008 5:36 am |
I met a really GREAT lady from the philippines here and we talk every day either online or on the phone we cant seem to get enough of each other and are planning to meet in person she is so fun to be with and always makes me laugh I think she is the woman of my dreams and if we marry it will be there in her country I am hoping for a GREAT island beach wedding with lots of guests from her family and mine
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18 posts 4/12/2008 10:19 am |
Hi gang
I have met a few people in real life on ff, I have met cats pj's who is a girls best friend, is always there to give me a hug, or coffee unfortunately we haven't been able to see each other for a few months due to my health problems.. I have met Water Sprout who was the first person I met on ff, LOL I call her trouble, which she is, we have retained a great and supportive friendship since I met her 4 years ago, we may not talk for a few months, but we somehow get in touch again. Then Atay came to edmonton, I still remember her and her gf standing in front of Tim Hortons and how nervous I was, she has since moved to Edmonton to be with her husband. Lets see there is David, southerncharmz, that is a journey that I will never forget, even though it caused harm to both of us, thru some very insecure people in ff, David knew what I needed, and he gave it to me, and not in the way that any of you think. he gave me security and strength and rest, we still keep in touch. CountryRose, awww she is one of the sweetest people, I am so glad that cats and I traveled down to see her and meet her and her Mom, we had a blast, and then we met Hunk4u and he came and played cards with us one everning, well if you can believe cats and I got drunk on water. SunshineSmiles,she is like my second daughter, she leans on me, I lean on her, funny thing is when I went to meet David there was so much bs going around and she got caught up in it, but she is a sweetheart and a very important part of my life. Now the one that is unforgetable is my Skip48, he welcomed my with open arms, we have spent a lot of time together over the past 2 years, we have done many things together, and seen so much. Skip is who he appears to be on Ff, he is an incredible man, although sometimes extremely stubborn in seeing who he is, he has an incredible sense of humour. and I hope he is finding it again, he loves to laugh, and sometimes I wonder wth he is talking about he gets this stern look on his face and I think oh oh,, and then he starts to laugh, he brings so much to my life and to my family, and to his family. A bit mountain of rock and strength, but a big soft marshmallow for the people he loves. Now there are the friends that I haven't been fortunate to have met, and one day God will let me win enough money so I can travel to meet them,, 2sweet, will always be special to me, for without her support I would still be in a marriage of abuse, Richie, Heavens, StillRider., BoDane, BadinBlack, Silverx, Om, .. These are people that mean the world to me, alwayse will, Heavens and Bad have been angels, I am just getting to know heavens,, she is a little stinker.. and well bad lol she is awesome just don't tell her I said so.. then there is silver,, you have to know silver to understand her, she has a very deep soul, and has so much to give in her one little pinky, Om is awesome another one that is misunderstood, BoDane, will always have a place in my heart, and I hope he comes back to ff. I could mention so many HondaGirl, Jerry, Robbo, KisstheJester, Catfish, some of these people don't come here anymore but they are missed..
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9 posts 4/12/2008 4:33 pm |
hiya.. well meet one year back wus nice , talked and din out.. mind u had to travel far just to meet him. been frnds as far 2yrs now but it turned out to be we just frnds for now time went on. l did the reaching again. yaa meet another one just past month again l travel lol.. funny thing all tat time we been chatting on net and phone we actually felt love. ohh not! again.. l been missing his chatts.. but life does go on yap time for new out look again well l dont think my story wud pass it but l just need to write it down some where. tks allowing me to write it in here  BC
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1 post 4/12/2008 5:14 pm |
I met a fantastic man on this site and we talked for a couple of months before the new year of 2008 and on the night of New Years Eve, i did video and webcamed with him to bring our New Year in together. That was a great start. Then talking two to three times a day on the phone and computer, the friendship grew even stronger. After several months of chatting and getting to know one another, he made the trip from his home in New York to my home in N.H. which was a 5 hr drive, and we got together for a fantastic weekend, touring the city next to mine and spending the whole weekend, just the two of us. It was pretty special because our intimacy was for sure a click and we knew just what each other wanted as far as the pleasure we experienced,for we kinda knew just what to do to make each other as natural together as two could be.I felt like i already had known him for years. It helps to talk and chat before meeting someone for it definetly was the plus we needed and together we make pretty good sparks fly. Thank you Friend Finder, we are getting stronger by the day and getting better by the minute. Take care and good luck to everyone. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxoooooooooooooooooooo 
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1 post 4/13/2008 6:54 pm |
Hello guys well to be honest I meet my true love in here he came all the way to Colombia to meet me we spend 2 amazing weeks in here he is all I ever dream and I never imagine to feel like this 4 months ago we meet in here we start talking every day since that we have a connection right away we use to spend hours on line one day we talk for 8 hours with no interruptions that was crazy he left cuz of his work 3 weeks ago and he came back last Tuesday cuz my B-day was on Friday he say that he pay a room in one of the nicest hotels in here so I can be alone and spend a night with him on line I thought that was crazy but he ask me to go so I went there and he left the room and try to surprise me but I check on the closet and I saw all his things so I was crying like a BB I was so happy I never imagine to see him that soon well he is gone now but he will be back soon I know cuz my heart tell my that this time was no that difficult to say bye cuz I fell so happy that he came back for me B-day that nothing can go wrong and I thank this side cuz that how we meet so thank u guys for all this u give me the most beautiful experience in my life…
Te amo mi NOVIO
Edna
Ps my English is no too good cuz what I talk is Spanish I hope that u can understand this…
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1630 posts 4/14/2008 5:42 am |
I wont call my story a "succes storie", just one of hundred FF's stories. I have joined Friendfinder in a loneliness time. It was hard to keep chatting in the rooms. My english was terrible ( not that now become better) but i wanted to know people, i wanted to understand their part of world. Sudenly, world become smaller and still getting even bigger. One day i joined the world of Blogwille and from that moment i never felt lonely again. And i have learned a lot. Blogwille was like a class where each person comes with its own lessons, its own thoughts, is own interests,experiences and culture. So i have learned to see the world throught other people's eyes and accept things that i never knew they exist. I have learned to let my spirit open, my mind to dream my soul to fly, my heart to love. And i have learned how to love each other of my friends i made here for his/her own character. And i left my heart touched by the beauty of my friend's poetries. And i have learned to be me and that not shame of being me and realise that ME was living in such a beautiful and complicated world. Crying and laughting, smiling and being sad, caring and be careless, silly and smarty, mad and moody, lovely and crazy....and more then all reminding what i am: feminine, romantic, restless ME with a heart full of love to offer to everyone who needed. If i look over my existence in Blogwille i dont find in it a " succes story" ...just a story..one of hundred stories of FF... If is to call something succesfull in here is that Friendfinder found me so many friends that i trurly treasure and love. People i admire and respect, people i would not have known otherwise. People who's existence enriched mine and keeps me running , friendships who keeps me coming back in Blogwille all the time when i am away....Friendships that are above any kind of contest! To tell a Succes Storie is to tell the storie of any friendship i made here, the storie of each one of my friends.....my succes storie is my FriendFinder's friends stories... and my succes is to feel so honoured being part of their lifes...
And i tip my hat for them!
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18 posts 4/14/2008 2:55 pm |
I am spreading my clothes out of my wardrobe. I can´t agree with myself what to wear. Jackets,trousers, shirts even underwear all over my bedroom.
Should I wear tight trousers over an empty stomach, or should I have a snack before I leave.
I looked again at the message. Meet me at our favorite table.
My thoughts went back to that sunny day afternoon at the cafe by the water. A warm afternoon with cloudless sky. The sea gals scaring away the pigeons whilst an old lady stood there throwing some pieces of bread.
I sat there reading in a book and in between gazing at the sailing boats by the channel. I waved back to the people aboard, who waved toward us.
Everything was glorious and cheerful. A young lady appeared from nowhere and politely broke the silence of my sailing thoughts.
Could I get you something else ?.; she asked.
The sun was beyond where she stood. I couldn´t clearly see her figure. Was she a vision out of a dream or was she a disguised angle in a human body; I was thinking.
I would like to have the chocolate pancake with Ice cream and some more coffee please; I answered her.
She just smiled and went to get me my orders.
A young kid feel off his bicycle. I rushed to help him up. He thanked me, jump again on his bicycle, and cycled his way among the pedestrians.
I went back to my table where I sat. I found it taken by a girl.
Excuse me, but this table is already taken, and my book and papers are still here; I said.
She looked me in the eyes smiling, and i got your order; she replied.
But I didn´t know your policy is to sit with the costumers ? ; I said.
You are right, but haven´t you noticed that I don´t work in here; She said.
It just appeared to me that she wasn´t wearing the stuff costume for that place, and before I said anything, She said; You may not have come across my profile on friend finder, but I´ve seen yours & I´ve been reading some of your comments, so today I saw you here in person, and I thought you wouldn´t mind if I joined you; she explained.
Gladly I looked at her. Under one condition. The next round will be on me; I said.
These rounds has been repeated ever since on different occasions & today is a perfect day for visiting our preferred table.
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1 post 4/15/2008 1:16 am |
When I joined friendfinder, it was because I had moved in a new country, did not know anybody and did not speak the language, so I became so lonely and thought I would never make frinds, instead I decide to make a profile on friendfinder and see what I will get. Friendfinder is the best site, and makes it possible to meet people, I met this guy who actually came from the same country I moved too , and we started communicating and now he is my great friend, and I am so happy that I opened this site, people out there trust in friendfinder and you will get what your looking for it is really and good for us, I will always be glad for this site. thank you friend finder for making me not feel depressed in a new country but for finding me people that I have a lot of things in common with.
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1 post 4/15/2008 12:38 pm |
flew to america to stay with my daughter. after the first week i joined this site. the next day i got a message from the man of my dreams (enigmatic). he had just joined also. we went out that night and had the most wonderful date of my life, ate, walked around washington dc, went dancing and realy enjoyed each others company. i cant believe it and we are now in love and it is wonderful. thank you so much friendfinder. we would have never found each other if it had not been for you.
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522 posts 4/15/2008 1:28 pm |
Such a journey ..... Wow !!!!!!
I came to FF six years ago ....Not really sure what to expect. I stumbled across some really amazing people from all areas of the world from all walks of life.
During my six years, I have made some really incredible friends...and we have remianed friends for all these years. I have made some new friends along the way as well ..
Sharing in thier journey along the way has been a wonderful experince for me ...and me sharing my journey with them. I have not meet anyone in person....although that is soon to change.
When you are able to share your dreams ..your journey..your love and your soul ..that to me is a true gift. Finding someone so very special to do that with ...is just that .... a gift. I meet this very person..here on FF.
No one knows where tomorrow may lead or what is in store for us further down our journey ...I treasure the time I have been given with each of them.
When that day comes for me to look into that person's eyes ...see that person's smile and feel that person's hug ...for the very first time ...that will be the present I give to myself.
My ride of a lifetime...the road that was meant to be traveled.
So what FF has given to me ...has been the chance to share me ...with them ..and them with me. To love a a few with a heart full of joy..and a soul full of passion for life.
To be me ...in a written word of chat.
Thanks FF !

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1 post 4/15/2008 3:38 pm |
-Everything began with a wink-
It was really trouble day for me and i just join FFF to check what's goin on here. I was divorced, feeling alone, sensational, trying to hang on life, i donno where i am goin to. Just living without any sense. To be honest, I was just curious, I had no idea at the begining what these pages were preparing a suprise for me.
After i join and read some stuff here, i log of and didnt log in again during 1 week. Lately i noticed there are some notification email coming to my mail box from FFF. One of them catched my attention. FFF says there is a lady from Israel who interested with me and sent me a wink... I said to myself "what is this wink stuff how she can send it from that far" then just paged there.
Ok i dont wanna bore you with details, I found her id in my page, visit her profile and sent a thank you message. She is a Philipina girl working in israel. Then we begin to comunicate each other during 8 monthes..
Then one day i got a message as she says "she quit her job and will be in my city for a vacation soon".. The day came, we met. Dated. Lately, she found a job in my city. We begin to live in same house..Engaged......
We have a baby now 
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1 post 4/17/2008 3:13 am |
ok opps just read the events bit lol, so im going to tell you a bit more about how i met my man from this site .We were friends, talked online, on the phone , we dated briefly and although we got along i thought that spark wasnt there. We stayed in contact, met up from time to time.When i was at a really low point in my life, id lost the most important person to me( after my kids) a year preiously and i had been blocking it out anyway i could and he (my fella) said come meet me, I had kept him at arms lenght at times not wanting to give mixed messages, in my mind we had tried dating it wasnt happening . But i met him, needed him right then. We met up again a few times and without even realising we was dating again. we went to a meet with people we knew from ff and i looked over at him and i thought thats my W..., god i love him, felt that warm feeling inside.The next day he said ok are we going to say we are offically dating now, he knew and i knew, i never really let alone in and maybe i was finally ready to give this a go. Its been a year now and i miss him when im not with him. I trust him and he does me too.It a nice feeling when u feel content and happy knowing somone is thinking of you and brings a smile to your face and you see them being in your future. I cant imagine him not being in my life now, it feels like the more time that passes the stronger we get .
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4/17/2008 11:55 pm |
Well.. I have been here for a few years now.. i cannot remember exactly when I first came to the site.. but have had over the time here, made some good friends, many of whom have subsequently left for greener pastures...
Smalltown guy, intphil, Allwoman4ever.. and a rascal in a Scottish kilt were often on my blogs to laugh at my jokes or lend an ear. I have met some very nice people on the blogs earlier, but now it is like walking amongst the jungle and the snakes have all come out. If you don't like being insulted, then do not come to the blogs any more cuz there are some very rude and hostile people now on the blogs, nothing like it used to be...... If they would only enforce the rules here, it would be a nice place again... I long for those times... and think that now they are under new ownership, those happy & peaceful times may again appear. One can only hope, but if it would at least go back to being the nice place it was a year or so again, this would again be the nicest site on the web. Most of the times I come here now and all i get is insulted or ignored now... but i miss the bloggers I used to chat with all the time.. they were good people, and they really were great company if I had a bad day... or if something funny happened to me! Well, to all the bloggers who have blogged pleasantly with me in the past, I say aloha and thanks for the positive comments. I miss your presence greatly and hope you are all well!
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4/19/2008 5:20 am |
I joined FF as a matter of curiousity - first time and all. Barely two weeks or so later, I read the profile of this guy on FF .I contacted him and his reply was immediate. We got to exchanging mails and getting to know each other better. Now, I can't live without him. This has been a unique experience in my life and I appreciate this opportunity to get to find that man - thanks for AFF
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12 posts 4/19/2008 8:46 am |
Saw the note,so I thought i pop in and give my story... We met in the chatting room which actually I don't go often,it was Dec.24th,I got a guy as my x-mas gift~thanx lord and thank you FF,it's a miracle to me. I would say he's my soul mate,our bithday is 2 days apart,and we both workaholics,we have a lot in common...After accompany eachother during the working late hours for half year,he managed to travel 5hrs to visited me and later we went to bali together.Everything is so simple and natural but amazing...my family was amazed that we actually look alike...lol... We've been doing long distance now and it's not ez...He's trying to re-located in my place and I hope we can go thru this, this relationship is just too beautiful to break...
oh and best wishes to all ya guys who found ur special someone here!! and if you haven't found the person yet,just keep looking, you will find someone perfect for you!! 
Forgive my lips,they found joy in an unusual place...
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1428 posts 4/19/2008 10:29 am |
Hah, my FF success story is simply working my way up to the top of the top 20 most actively watched bloggers three times in three months despite possibly malicious attempts from a very, very few jealous bloggers who report me for abuse because I comment on their constant drivel and their want to be most actively watched
On top of this the three times I have had my profile removed, I have started a gain and maintained a friend network of 24-40 + friends over time time as people adjust to my new handle.
Now triumph over the odds that's FF success.
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1 post 4/19/2008 6:47 pm |
I just want to thank you.That I met my angel in this site He is from Arizona.I`m very happy to have him.He will come to Korea last week of August to see me in person and to plan for marrying me.he is a good man in my dreams.We always talk in a phone He call me everyday.I`m lucky person to have him. I just want to say to others that be a good person to the people who will care and love you.Good luck to others amd God bless.hope you will enjoy in this site.
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1 post 4/20/2008 10:35 am |
I met my best friend, my soul mate, my lover through friendfinders. WE were a wonderful match...loved taking walks, talking about anything and everything, going to the symphomy, going flying, travel by train, so many things. The most important thing was he helped me learn how to love again, how to trust someone and have passionate feelings again. I had been going through the motions of life and not participating in life until I met him, he helped me to see wha true love eally was all about. The soft things...the touch, the twinkle in his eye when he sees you, holding your hand, having you walk in the inside to protect you. I had never felt more loved and cared for. Friendfinders gave me the opportunity to mee the love of my life and to live agian.
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18 posts 4/23/2008 2:06 am |
Hi,
I first became a member on Friend Finder back in 2004 after I received a link to the site from my younger sister. It was real fun on this site during those first months back in April - July 2004. My sis and I were both members. We had a real popular friendship network running. A lot of the members grew close to both my sis and I. We'd share jokes, laughs and bulletins together! I really enjoyed my time on the 'blue page', the friend network! I had stacks of friendship invites come through and it gave me a real wow factor feeling inside some mornings when I'd logged into my friend finder account and find lots of messages and positive testimonials on my page from lots of real cool members! The interaction side of it was fantastic. I got to 'speak' to guys and gals from all over the globe. Some hold very special memories for me even to this day, and I do not think I will ever forget some of the more memorable members I have got close to in the past. The guy from Florida was a great mate. He worked for disney, checking and installing park rides across the disney theme parks. He would always update me on his location. One time he'd be in Tokyo disney land, the next closer to my home in Euro disney, Paris. He would often send me photos of him and his work mates through my friend finder mail box. I really appreciated his messages, and they were always long and factual, not like some of the guys who tended to write short and to the point messages! Then there was the man from Calgary, Canada, a politician with a tremendously great sense of humor. He'd have me in stitches with his jokes on the Friend site! Even more funny when a hilarious photo of him came through my mail box! The man I hold close ot my heart, a proper 'old flame' was the young German soldier I was introduced to on FF. He was absolutely stunningly good looking, phew! He made me laugh one morning when his message read, "Louise, I want to know what funny things my picture does to you!", in his broken English! He was referring to my testimonial I'd posted on his page, bless him, that was my 'online love' or 'crush'! Then there was Kalpasheni, the little Indian guy who was desperate to get into England, he'd plead, "All I need is a small sponsorship letter". After my sister refused his online marriage proposal, he then tried his luck with me! I've had many, many great times on this site, too many to mention, and too many for 1000 words!
Here's a recent THANK YOU that I posted on my blog;
I would like to take the opportunity to thank all of you guys who have supported me throughout my time on this site - and you know who you are! For if it wasn't for the confidence boost you have all given me through my writings on this mag and on my blog, I don't think I would have found the nerve to have contacted agencies etc with my stories. Now I have been inundated with calls from newspapers and journalists keen to publish my stories, it's really been quite overwhelming this week. I have a total of THREE stories running at the moment, plus a national newspaper is keen on rerunning the story about my bigamist father. And to add, I think that using this site for writing etc, sharing ideas, interacting with other members from across the globe is a real sure way to increase one's confidence, it really does help! I'd definitely recommend it to anyone out there feeling lonely, isolated or to those in need of a real confidence BOOST!
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707 posts 4/24/2008 3:18 pm |
"This two lovers in FF Site" I´ll help bring it together.both friends told me Thank you! They say Im a "bridge and angel" wow how great hehehe! So I would like to say Thanks Friendfinder and my Pinay friend told me that he love him from heart and she Hoping & wishing that this man at last forever Both have plan to marry on December in Philippines I wish I could come to attend there wedding..but all is not possible because of my Visa Abroad..I have also my way and my own reputation...and Im thankful both understand me...Only I can say to give them my support advices, Im really happy and wishing this two lovers Best good luck from now and in Future....Congratulation!!!
  
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1 post 4/26/2008 3:46 pm |
Well let me see I meant a Wonderful lady 4 years ago through here and we have been together ever since, she is genuine caring and is my world. We meant and it was love @ first sight we just recently bought a house and are creating a life of our own, we have had our ups and downs since we bought the house, but all is good they say if you can make it 7 years we are less then half way there
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1 post 4/29/2008 10:38 am |
Its a true story of my life.I wright this for keep my heart healthy.Please don't read this story because this is not gor you.humans when i born,i don't know why i born u know please email me.I think i born for dead one day.So.... don't go in, I born in a royal family of Ramgarh Haryana Panchkula.We called KANWAR'S in the India. Now the King world get lost-ed in history of India. The congress is responsible for that. They finished the name of kings in india by telling the wrong stories to the people.So its Begin's my father is a big dunker working as an Field Inspector in Hafed Haryna.My mother is working as a teacher in govt. school.She found her husband is not a proper human.Who reaches the limits in his life in every bad manner. She get her own step to get single once again.But she refuse's to get divorce,because of our writes on property.She started his life with us me and my sister.Now we don't know the respect of our family in area. After 10th class i am worried for my future. know i think about for the great future of my mom. I wants to be a man for give every happiness to his mom.So i can do the course of a Nature Pithy Doctor. But its not improving in India. So i Begin my studies again. After 12th i have an idea to go in film line. Because i have all arts for that.I struggled in delhi for that.But in this mean time we have brought back to our Killas by our grand father. he don't want to let me go in mumbai for struggle in this line. He said to me that we have inuff property for live life..... if u wants to learn more please contact me.....
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1 post 5/1/2008 2:14 am |
FROM TC AND HIS NOW FAMOUS KNOWN BUTT PIC LOL. FRIENDFINDER-RELATIONSHIPS-AND MYSELF. Firstly, via friendfinder and being probably the longest ever serving member since 1996 with handle BRIAN21160, a bit of history there lol. I have in real life formed 4 relationships, the first was to a very lovely intellegent american woman living in australia, and we lived together 2 years in fantastic situation until we broke off. The next was an english woman whom was still overly tied to her adult son whom i helped them far more than credited, and she was not ready for a relationship so i left her after two years, then again not from chat rooms but from a profile reader in ff i met another ff member from bulgaria, but im certain she used me for a visa, we lasted about a year or two. In this, i saw the online odds are same as real life and risk of failure the same also, but the posibility of success is just as good too. Now current day, this time a very very much younger woman met me in ff, and never ever has anyone been so faultlessly compatable with myself, so we chat in ff a lot and both each are very well known in ff, and we chat there and by phone a lot, and planing her trip to australia in the future, and she is a very lovely person..proven honest and open, and, again how was it made possible ? FRIENDFINDER. lol ff whom has a love hate relationship with me but always respected. At least i liven the place up lol. So lets hope no4 is my luckiest and i guess ill keep ff updated if it is a success. But hey, IT IS POSSIBLE FOR EVERYONE...
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11349 posts 5/1/2008 12:03 pm |
I don't get out much any more. I was electrocuted in 2002. I had posted a profile on ff years ago but recieved mail only from Russian scam artists. Then I discovered the blogs in 2006. I met more friends on ff in my first week there than in the prior two YEARS. I love to read and post in all of the blogs, and I enjoy reading the feedbax from all of MY gentle readers. My new friends are too numerous to count but they are reading my words from ALL over the world! I may not find the woman of my dreams, but I have found more friends than I could have hoped for in the blogs. I urge any reader of this humble entry to investigate the blogs if she or he hasn't already! I am a lowly standard member and I know that if I had not discovered the blogs, that I would have missed a great opportunity to meet these funny and friendly people, and would have wasted time waiting for the of my dreams to discover my sorry profile and write to me to profess her undying love for me!
TAKEN it yet? Yes or No? ( )
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1 post 5/3/2008 5:23 am |
HELLOW FF thanks for the massage.Hmmmm,I just finished my education and got casual work.I have no fun, no friend,I didn't know much people and felt always bored.One day a friend told me about FF and encourage me of joining to meet good and helpful friends even if they are far from me they can make happy.Loo and behold I open an email and jion FF on April 9 2008 seeking for friendship and sponsor and I started to receive massages and to watch those on line.I also came across upgrading to become Gold or Silver membership.Now thanks FF it is realy good and fantastic to be a member on this website.I believe because of FF people over the world can watch me and read about me.The only problem I have is I'm in GHANA I don't have the means and the fund to upgrade myself to the Gold membership now.I humble appeal to the FF and fellow members to assist me upgrade.Thank you very much FF for making my life changing.I am not now lonely FF can make me lively.
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5/3/2008 9:57 am |
Hi I'm an old time client and met Scott online back in 2001 on your site and a year later we met in person. well this is 7 years later and we are a good match but i want marriage and he only promises. but my success is our 7 years for hes a man i will always admire and he's a great father to my 3 kids to this day. I never knew I could love life as we have taught each other to do. He is very compatible and just to brag You made me like it or not meet my actuall soul mate.
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1 post 5/3/2008 5:31 pm |
I met a spanish woman,we chated for a wile.And then we dicieded to meet.I made a god meal for us,and since then the only way was up.The only problem is our two girls,mine is 17 and thinks she`s ready for the world.And the other is 13 and still plays with dolls.Herr mother has to work allday,so we can only meet in de weekends.And then we have to compencaite with de childeren.It`s apitty becose it could turn in to something Serious.We shall see,what we shall see said the blind man.Good luck to everyone from Terry. 
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30 posts 5/5/2008 2:28 am |
I have always been a chatter. But my first time to visit FF, I immediately meet 2 people who I automatically made connections. Ever since then we became very good friends, best buddies and along the way
I have meet many wonderful people whom I could consider as true people people.
I could say I am lucky enough to have met them because there friendship has given me strength and positive attitude to continue my goals. I sure miss my home and my family but being with make helps me ease the homesickness I have felt. Sure it is not as always easily. Roads we do travel are sometimes rocky. Misunderstanding arises but being open to them makes life and experience at FF fun.
I consider them special because with them I can be comfortable, wacky and have fun without losing my sense of self. And I THANK THEM for that wonderful friendship. Most importantly, I THANK FriendFinder for in this site/network I got the chance to met wonderful people to be with and be called FRIENDS FOR LIVE
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1 post 5/5/2008 6:56 am |
i met a really GREAT lady from the philippines here and we talk every day either online or on the phone we cant seem to get enough of each other and are planning to meet in person she is so fun to be with and always makes me laugh I think she is the woman of my dreams and if we marry it will be there in her country I am hoping for a GREAT island beach wedding with lots of guests from her family and mine and most of the women are nice lady. Right, Been here over a year, and Yep I’m still “Billy No Mates”. I’ve been used, abused, reported for abuse. “Shhhsh”. I’ve had so many tongues stuck out at me, been called a “Nerd, a Muppet, a Dummy, and a plonker”. and I’ve even been dragged on the floor to roll around laughing with PP. I even got arrested by Police woman Liz. I’ve been the wacked and so thing day don't like chating well that is all i can say
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1 post 5/6/2008 1:10 am |
it was an accident when i became a member of ff.me and my bestfriend came from school and need to do some research so we go to the internet cafe.i accidentally fill up the ff form not knowing that i even put there a wrong address. months past until i open again my mails and receive a mail from ff telling my number so i can chat. i begun to had friends from all walks of life.after school i would come to the internet cafe just chat with my friends.it happen that this someone named craig viewed my profile and i view his file too. i was get attracted to him the first time i read his file.i thought maybe his the man of my dreams,my schoolmate.that's why i had to put my allowance at stake just to find this man.it took me 2 straight weeks when suddenly he came online. i say hi and from that day on forward we became friends. he's kind a nd very lovable,easy to talk with and romantic.it didint took us a month to let our feelings reveal when he told me that he love me too. almost everyday we chat and send text messages to each other. it took us even 6hours chatting on the net. he came here to the philippins to met me personally last dec.15 and everything went well.now,hes my hsband and were having a 4mos.old baby on the way.thank you so much to ff for bringing us together. xerxes
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1 post 5/7/2008 3:08 am |
HELLO AND THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME ABOUT THIS YES IHAVE MET SOME ONE WHO IS MY LOVE AND ALWAYS WILL BE WE LOVE EACH OTHER FROM THE DAY WE STARTED FF WE BOTH STATRED THE SAME TIME HE IS WONDERFUL AND MY FEELINGS ARE DEEP FOR HIM NEVER FELT HIS WAY FOR ANY ONE OUTSIDE OF FF THAN BANG WE BROKE UP AND IWAS A MESS DINT KNOW WHY I COULDNT UNDERSTAND. AND NOW I DO U SEE HE IS DIEING OF CANCER AND DINT WANT ME TO KNOW NOW I DO IAM HURTING FOR HIM HE HAS 2 GREAT KIDS AND THIS IS NOT CURBALE SO NOW WE TALK AND WE HAVE COFEE EVERYMORING ON PC MY COFEE MAN I WILL MISS HIM I TOLD HIM TO FIGHT BACK AND MABE HE CAN WIN IWILL HELP IF ICAN I LOVE HIM AND I ALWAYS WILL HE SAID THE DOC TOLD HIM HE WONT WIN THE BATTLE. WHY WHY WHY I FOUND MY LOVE OF MY LIFE AND NOW GONNA BE TAKEN AWAY FROM ME YES HE CHEATED AND FLIRT BUT THATS HIS ENTERMAINT ON FF I LOVE HIM DEAR GOD MAKE HIM BETTER WELL FF THERE U HAVE MY SECERT TO ONE I LOVE AND MET ON FF TY AND I WILL PRAY FOR HIM TO GET WELL. IKNOW HE ISNT SO IFACE REALITY NOW HARD THIS IS. BUT I MOVED ON ALSO AND HE DID TOO BUT HE SAID HE WILL ALWAYS LOVE DIANNE AS I WILL HIM IWAS SHOCKED TO HEAR THIS AND HE STILL COMES TO ME EVERY MORING FOR COFFEE LOVE HIM I DO AND IAM OUT THERE SMILING LIKE NOTHING IS WRONG MY FREINDS IN FF MAKE THAT HAPPEN I STARTED TO CRY AND HE SAID DONT DO THAT IS NOT WHAT HE WANTS TO SEE I MET A NEW MAN ON FF NOW BUT KEEP MY LOVE IN MY HEART FOR THIS ONE THAT IS SICK . MY NEW LOVE IS SUCH A WONDER FUL MAN THAT UNDERSTANDS ME BUT HOW CAN I EVER LOVE AGAIN WITH THIS GOING ON. I CRY NOW EVERY NIGHT SAD YES BUT HAPPY I MET LOVE ON FF AND NOW HE WILL BE GONE TO THINK IWAS UPSET AT HIM LOL I DINT KNOW HE WAS DIEING MAN SO FF HERE YA GO MY LOVE IS DIEING BUT TY FOR LETTING ME KNOW LOVE IS REAL OUT THERE DARN HOW IWISH THIS WASNT HAPENING BUT IT IS YOUR EMAIL CAME IN TIME TY FFI NEED FF NOW FOR IAM SICK TOO IAM FIGHTING A BATTLE OF MY OWN , WICH I DONT SAY ABOUT IN FF IN ROOMS. BUT I WILL BE FINE MY LOVE HE WONT BE SO MY HEART IS BROKEN AGAIN ,AND I CRY SO MUCH BUT THANKS TO FREINDS ON FF THAT DONT KNOW ABOU THIS ARE SO NICE TO ME MY SISSSS I LOVE HER AND ALL MY FREINDS ARE THERE ON FF IWILL LOOK FORWARD TO THEM TO HELP ME WHEN THAT TIMES COMES. AND KNOW THAY WILL BE THERE FOR ME AND I THANK THEM SO MUCH AND U FF FOR SHOWING ME LOVE ON FF DIANNE TY
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