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4/19/2008 5:44 am |
When I first started reading this, my thoughts were that you both needed a period of cooling of but to get married without telling you seems a bit mean. Maybe you could write to him, explaining that you have no bitter feelings towards him and you hope one day you can mend your relationship especially for your grand children.
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4/19/2008 7:55 am |
I completely understand your hurt....and I don't think the disagreement was stupid. And I think you should approach your son on that level: I am very hurt that you didn't tell the family you got married. We would love to have been part of it. Can we now have a celebration as a family? If you want a relationship with your son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren, you will have to make the first move--and address your hurt, but eventually you will have to let it go. I don't know what was going on in your son's head...but on the surface of this, I'd say it was, at the very least, thoughtless. Perhaps he thought--well, I've already lived with my wife, had three children, what's the big deal? Did he invite other people? Like other family members? Friends? Wishing you happiness Misty
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4/19/2008 10:59 am |
When I first started reading this, my thoughts were that you both needed a period of cooling of but to get married without telling you seems a bit mean. Maybe you could write to him, explaining that you have no bitter feelings towards him and you hope one day you can mend your relationship especially for your grand children. 
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4/19/2008 11:31 am |
I completely understand your hurt....and I don't think the disagreement was stupid. And I think you should approach your son on that level: I am very hurt that you didn't tell the family you got married. We would love to have been part of it. Can we now have a celebration as a family? If you want a relationship with your son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren, you will have to make the first move--and address your hurt, but eventually you will have to let it go. I don't know what was going on in your son's head...but on the surface of this, I'd say it was, at the very least, thoughtless. Perhaps he thought--well, I've already lived with my wife, had three children, what's the big deal? Did he invite other people? Like other family members? Friends?
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4/19/2008 5:51 pm |
I hope things work out for all you. Sometimes being a parent can be really hard.
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4/19/2008 6:44 pm |
try and make it up soon my friend I love to see family togather I dont think it will be that hard since you guys have a good relationship for years, just dont try to be too hard. ok ? enjoy the rest of your weekend my friend and lots of love  straight from the heart 
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4/19/2008 8:42 pm |
I hope things work out for all you. Sometimes being a parent can be really hard.
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4/19/2008 8:44 pm |
try and make it up soon my friend I love to see family togather I dont think it will be that hard since you guys have a good relationship for years, just dont try to be too hard. ok ? enjoy the rest of your weekend my friend and lots of love
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 4/20/2008 1:46 am |
a beautiful sunday to you
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4/22/2008 5:10 am |
I hoped things work out ok for both of you.
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4/22/2008 9:24 am |
a beautiful sunday to you
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4/22/2008 9:25 am |
I hoped things work out ok for both of you.
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4/25/2008 4:46 am |
You seem like a really nice person/mother,i really hope this works out for you,they say children break your arms carrying them when they are young,and break your heart when they get older. Still to get married without you knowing,is a really big deal,my heart goes out to you hun,i hope one of you contact each other soon,i havent spoke to my own mother for over 2 years now,sometimes i wish she would just ring me so we can clear the air,admittedly the damage is done now,but it would be nice to call on birthdays and at christmas if you get my drift,i felt so rejected and that they dont love me enough to right the wrong they did!!!! hugs sweetness,hoping your family reunite soon, thanks for coming to my blog,its really lovely to meet you. xxxxxxxxxxx come and roll in the mud i wanna get dirty.
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4/25/2008 5:16 am |
thanks for stopping by my lovely friend and have a great day too straight from the heart
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4/25/2008 2:28 pm |
You seem like a really nice person/mother,i really hope this works out for you,they say children break your arms carrying them when they are young,and break your heart when they get older. Still to get married without you knowing,is a really big deal,my heart goes out to you hun,i hope one of you contact each other soon,i havent spoke to my own mother for over 2 years now,sometimes i wish she would just ring me so we can clear the air,admittedly the damage is done now,but it would be nice to call on birthdays and at christmas if you get my drift,i felt so rejected and that they dont love me enough to right the wrong they did!!!! hugs sweetness,hoping your family reunite soon, thanks for coming to my blog,its really lovely to meet you. xxxxxxxxxxx
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4/25/2008 2:30 pm |
thanks for stopping by my lovely friend and have a great day too
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4/26/2008 5:33 am |
hello, Just come to say ... have a great weekend diana      
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4/26/2008 9:55 am |
hello, Just come to say ... have a great weekend diana
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4/26/2008 9:46 pm |
Hey there.... thanks for popping by my blog..and I'm wondering if you and your son have mended the fences so to speak..... Hope so... sounds like a very small wedding...but nevertheless, his family needed to be included. Gad, stuff like this just sets the tone for years to come, doesn't it? Hope all is well at your end of cyber space. Wishing you happiness Misty
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4/27/2008 7:30 pm |
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4/27/2008 8:22 pm |
Hey there.... thanks for popping by my blog..and I'm wondering if you and your son have mended the fences so to speak..... Hope so... sounds like a very small wedding...but nevertheless, his family needed to be included. Gad, stuff like this just sets the tone for years to come, doesn't it? Hope all is well at your end of cyber space.
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