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rachieannelol
4/14/2008 11:43 am |
Well, a bottle of wine drunk now, so after many hours pondering whether i should post this blog, i'm at the point where..."what the heck", if people don't like what i have written, then so be it...i have been timid enough with some men in my life, so here goes.... As some of you have read on my blogs, i have found myself falling "in love" with a guy here on FF, as i have said previously, it's difficult, the internet can hide many lies, it's a long distance thing between us, but i'm a risk taker, so i have become engrossed with this guy, and if you hadn't guessed already, it's Scott_48. Well, he is a very talented writer, there is no doubt about that, his blogs have been amazingly written, and i read them each time with delight, as many others have done too, he comes across as a very kind, caring person, but with inner conflicts, like myself i thought, i had not seen his photo at that time as it used to be just a dark colour in the profile space.... A while ago, i had decided to stop blogging while i tried to learn spanish, and i got mail from Scott, saying he would miss my blogs, i responded, i thought he was kind with his words, and over the next 2 days, mail was flying back and forth, and many photos of him, and i thought he was lovely, well to me he was. Ok, little things in the back of my mind bothered me, why had he lied about where he lived on his profile, before i said anything, his stated he lived in Key West, but he actually lives in Connecticut, ok, that's not a major issue...next, when i wrote to him, a response would come back within a couple of minutes, 2 lines about what i had said, then 30 to 40 lines of passionate writing, i thought to myself, no way could he have written that so quick, it's only just now i have realised that it was a pre-written mail on a disc to insert copy and paste, and there were many of those long mails, over 50, again, i dismissed my thoughts and enjoyed the loving mail he was sending. Hmmmm...i am sounding so dumb now, carrying on as we did, but i did carry on, we wrote, we phoned, we text, and lots of talk of me going to the states to visit him, to see if what we felt was real,and he had no passport so couldn't come to me....i didn't mind as i love travelling, but money is very tight for me, what with Bruces vets bills etc, so i said i would save up and get there in a few months, maybe july or august, and everything was fine between us.... Last week though on one of his blogs was a comment from a woman from FF, calling him Jeff, and about sorry she hadn't responded to his mail, now this is quite acceptable as people mail each other all the time, i mail people as friends here on FF, but strange she called him Jeff....I rang Scott (not his real name)as planned thursday evening, i wanted to congratulate him on the opening of his exhibition the night before, everything was normal, chatting away, then i mentioned this comment and the name Jeff, he got a bit flustered and said he had written to this woman for many months, but had told her he wasn't going to write anymore...and more details that i would rather not write here....he also said he would write a blog as he was worried that people mistook his kindness as a show of affection, that he loved me and couldn't wait to see me, and me him....i told him then that i would be over the last weekend in june, was he excited....no he wasn't.....he said out of the blue that i wouldn't like him in the flesh, that i was crazy to go so far to see him, yet for the last few weeks thats what we had talked about, what we had been excited about....??????...totally confused our call came to an end, as so long on the phone, and he said he would call me in the morning as he was off in the evening away on a business trip for a week.... Shock, horror, a blog from Scott friday morning, written in the early hours...but he told me no internet access at home, only at work, saying it was his last blog, no telephone call, no response to my mail, texts or calls, then all the thoughts i had before of inconsistencies suddenly surfaced, that he was writing to other women, etc etc, oh how dumb am i...????....not all at once please..... For sure i am not the only one to have fallen for him, as he has told me....it's trying to understand why he did it, why he does it...???...attention seeking....a thrill seeker....was he clever...yes...i believe he is a very clever talented guy....just a player of women... You might all think i am vindictive when you read this, i'm not, but i really don't care, all i know is, i have got this off my chest now, and maybe, just maybe, any other women out there that have fallen for him like me, be careful....he is a wolf in sheeps clothing and a very clever articulate one at that..... Another bottle of wine beckons now so at least i can get some sleep, and not stay awake all night like i have done the last few nights grieving over somebody that i thought i could truly love.....and that loved me.... |
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4/14/2008 12:49 pm |
I only have admiration for you Rach, for exposing someone like this. Sorry you had to go through this. I hope you continue in your search. Take care. Tone. Hold my thingy, and I'll love you forever more.
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4/14/2008 12:58 pm |
If you read the posts I wrote in late November...which are about 15-20 pages back in my blog...you will find my experiences with Scott/Jeff. I am so sorry you have been hurt. I have been trying to make sure people understood how he works...he feeds off the emotions of women...as many as he can get to write to him at once as he can. He did not decide to stop writing me...he told me he was killing himself...and posted a blog letting other people think the same thing. Take a look for yourself. I am sorry...and if I can help...you have only to ask. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari 
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4/14/2008 1:02 pm |
You mean - Jeff - Philp - Scott? Fallen? By all means no, concerned, yes.. I wouldn't be all too concerned about posting your feelings, or the truth. You will be pleasantly surprised by, the support you will be given on this topic. My heart go's out to you. Perfection Isn't Sexy
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4/14/2008 1:07 pm |
I have sent you a message via elric......
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4/14/2008 1:58 pm |
Hugs for you!  I don't think you are vindictive at all. Good to get the truth out and get this mess out of the way. So sorry you were hurt.If you can't convince them, confuse them!
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4/14/2008 2:20 pm |
As Ari wtote in one of her posts (Sorry, Ari, to cite you but your sentence has stuck in my mind), "It's so easy to be deceived when we need to believe"... Sadly, how we gain experience...But don't lose faith because we are nothing without hope ! My thoughts, my shoulder, my empathy are with you. Hugs, SL Keep love in your heart ! SL
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4/14/2008 2:47 pm |
That is the problem with the internet ... you just never know who you are dealing with unless you meet them in the flesh. glad you got this out in the open. BTW, key west and Connecticut are not even in the same seasons.. that is a vast difference in environments. I always like to expose the bad elements on the web, that way no one else (hopefully) falls for them too. No.. too many tricksters on this site, and many others I'm afraid. I'm finding that alot too lately on the web, People who act very innocent and mellow at first, then you find out their true colours, but only after investing vast amounts of time with them. I'm sorry you were deceived this way. Ari, I do not remember that post..... Ari... but maybe again I do.... it's crazy the stuff people pull on the web. Hope your pet is better soon annie. Cheers.
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 4/14/2008 3:03 pm |
Well, unfortunately, I know ALL too well what you went through. I am sorry that you experienced what you did. There are women out there who do very similar things. I guess I should write a blog sharing my experience and expose the perpetrator of a very hurtful hoax, all to get me to meet her.
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4/14/2008 3:25 pm |
Oh dear....... No, this does not sound vindictive at all...just a recounting of what happened. Thank you for setting so many women here straight..... As to why? You'll never know..... maybe he's just simply terrified of any form of intimacy....all sorts of reasons--but none of them excuse his behaviour to you and to others. Boils down to lack of honesty. But there are real and lovely people on this site...I met my sweetie here.... Flatlanderville...so it is possible! Now time to say: NEXT!! Wishing you happiness Misty
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4/14/2008 3:34 pm |
As Ari wtote in one of her posts (Sorry, Ari, to cite you but your sentence has stuck in my mind), "It's so easy to be deceived when we need to believe"... Sadly, how we gain experience...But don't lose faith because we are nothing without hope ! My thoughts, my shoulder, my empathy are with you. Hugs, SL I just find it sad...that people have to use each other this way. And for you, RachieAnnelol...I am sorry...but I really did write a series of posts about him...to warn other women about what he had done to me. I am so sorry you were caught in this. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
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4/14/2008 4:00 pm |
Hmmmmmmm Scott,Jeff,Dan,Philip or Phil...man of many names and faces is it really his...or someone else's...make you wonder don't it...Just to let you know...we had written a few emails...in FF and Yahoo...enjoyed them...but told me he never wrote to anyone else like he wrote to me...I thought interesting...won't say what was written but lets put it this way...real steamy...Like you hun...and I am sure there are many others out there...we all got sucked in...I had my feelings...or thoughts...that something just wasn't right but never could put my finger on it...I Had thought there might be more women he wrote to...so he once was called TJbug or something of that nature...ask MunchieMatron she knows...and is a very very very good friend of mine...she said Scott wrote the same way as tjbug...so how long has he been at this game...Rachieannelol...I feel your hurt and pain...and my heart goes out to you...you have read my blogs...and you said something that struck me as odd...but I understood...would love to have you email me...and talk...as I am sure there are others who would like to do so as well...I am here if you need to talk...again...I feel your hurt and pain... Always Silverx2
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4/14/2008 4:05 pm |
Actually SL...that comment was written about this man...when he was blogging as TJRugg. So true...only that time...it was me...and in between...there have been several other women. His writing is distinctive....and he always writes in such a way...that everyone reading it...believes he is writing to them. His emails read the same way...until you realize that he is re-using the same statements he used before. I just find it sad...that people have to use each other this way. And for you, RachieAnnelol...I am sorry...but I really did write a series of posts about him...to warn other women about what he had done to me. I am so sorry you were caught in this.
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4/14/2008 4:12 pm |
He's writing to another friend of mine, too--she was waxing rhapsodic about him just last week. I told her to come over here and read this--please, please don't delete this post. I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.
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4/14/2008 4:33 pm |
Oh goody, she's there already--hiya Silver! (Mommaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Hugs tiiiiiiiiiiiiight) I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.
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4/14/2008 5:14 pm |
And the list goes on and on...ari your right about TJRugg lol i thought it was bug...but who cares...same guy...so we will sit and wait and see if he resurfaces...and like you how can a person do this to someone else's feelings...hurt them like that sucker them in...trust...you just can't trust anyone anymore and its getting worse...now my trust will really be trustless...shame...but I will go on... Good luck to you...and I'm so glad...you saw him for what he was...and yes...his letters were very steamy....and he always swore...he wasn't writing to anyone else. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
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4/14/2008 5:26 pm |
I was hoping you weren't talking about Scott when you mentioned your affair. Maybe he's just some guy who enjoys going online and trying to upset women. jiffyblue
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4/14/2008 6:00 pm |
How sad, that people think they have to deceive each other. Not that excuses him, but I wonder if he is afraid of a real relationship, and that's why he behaves like this? I guess we will never know. There are good men here, there really are.
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4/14/2008 6:42 pm |
Rach I am so sorri to hear of your bad experience hun. I don't know the person, just seen the handle from time to time. It sucks big time to have someone do this to anyone. I hope you ae feeling okay, and why didn't you buzz me on IM, heck I could have shared a bottle of wine with ya. I don't even need an excuse  Seriously, I am here if you want to vent. I won't say anymore. Hugs your way hun, Natalie 
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 4/14/2008 6:50 pm |
Rach im sorry to hear this, im almost a victim too but im scared and have a doubt about him thats why i email ari to share all his emails to me lol....... after reading ari's reply to me i deleted him in my network friend  smile and be happy always
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4/14/2008 6:52 pm |
Hmmmmmmm Scott,Jeff,Dan,Philip or Phil...man of many names and faces is it really his...or someone else's...make you wonder don't it...Just to let you know...we had written a few emails...in FF and Yahoo...enjoyed them...but told me he never wrote to anyone else like he wrote to me...I thought interesting...won't say what was written but lets put it this way...real steamy...Like you hun...and I am sure there are many others out there...we all got sucked in...I had my feelings...or thoughts...that something just wasn't right but never could put my finger on it...I Had thought there might be more women he wrote to...so he once was called TJbug or something of that nature...ask MunchieMatron she knows...and is a very very very good friend of mine...she said Scott wrote the same way as tjbug...so how long has he been at this game...Rachieannelol...I feel your hurt and pain...and my heart goes out to you...you have read my blogs...and you said something that struck me as odd...but I understood...would love to have you email me...and talk...as I am sure there are others who would like to do so as well...I am here if you need to talk...again...I feel your hurt and pain... Always Silverx2 smile and be happy always
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4/14/2008 7:55 pm |
Belle....what a lovely face pic. Nice to see all of it
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4/14/2008 10:17 pm |
I only have admiration for you Rach, for exposing someone like this. Sorry you had to go through this. I hope you continue in your search. Take care. Tone.
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4/14/2008 10:21 pm |
If you read the posts I wrote in late November...which are about 15-20 pages back in my blog...you will find my experiences with Scott/Jeff. I am so sorry you have been hurt. I have been trying to make sure people understood how he works...he feeds off the emotions of women...as many as he can get to write to him at once as he can. He did not decide to stop writing me...he told me he was killing himself...and posted a blog letting other people think the same thing. Take a look for yourself. I am sorry...and if I can help...you have only to ask.
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4/14/2008 10:33 pm |
Hi Ari, i will read your posts later, i am up early and have hardly slept, but what i do want to say to you is a big thankyou...!!!!...if you hadn't written that comment on his blog last week, i would have probably carried on and believed all his lies, as someone here still is, read my comment to PP....i will post comments later on the rest as my laptop battery is running out as i am in bed doing this and i don't want to get up yet...major hangover....!!!!!!.thanks again..... Big hugs to you....and lots of wishes for a swift recovery. I think you were very brave to write this. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
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4/14/2008 10:39 pm |
You never need to read them...if you choose to do....here are the links...in the order written...Getting to know you...., When Words Obscure, Putting It Together, What do our words mean?, Your Soul To Keep. Perhaps they will help you to feel better...that you could not have easily seen.... You are not the only victim...and he is skilled at what he does. Big hugs to you....and lots of wishes for a swift recovery. I think you were very brave to write this. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
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4/15/2008 12:01 am |
You mean - Jeff - Philp - Scott? Fallen? By all means no, concerned, yes.. I wouldn't be all too concerned about posting your feelings, or the truth. You will be pleasantly surprised by, the support you will be given on this topic. My heart go's out to you.
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4/15/2008 12:11 am |
I have sent you a message via elric......
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4/15/2008 12:15 am |
Hugs for you! I don't think you are vindictive at all. Good to get the truth out and get this mess out of the way. So sorry you were hurt.
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4/15/2008 12:17 am |
As Ari wtote in one of her posts (Sorry, Ari, to cite you but your sentence has stuck in my mind), "It's so easy to be deceived when we need to believe"... Sadly, how we gain experience...But don't lose faith because we are nothing without hope ! My thoughts, my shoulder, my empathy are with you. Hugs, SL
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4/15/2008 12:20 am |
That is the problem with the internet ... you just never know who you are dealing with unless you meet them in the flesh. glad you got this out in the open. BTW, key west and Connecticut are not even in the same seasons.. that is a vast difference in environments. I always like to expose the bad elements on the web, that way no one else (hopefully) falls for them too. No.. too many tricksters on this site, and many others I'm afraid. I'm finding that alot too lately on the web, People who act very innocent and mellow at first, then you find out their true colours, but only after investing vast amounts of time with them. I'm sorry you were deceived this way. Ari, I do not remember that post..... Ari... but maybe again I do.... it's crazy the stuff people pull on the web. Hope your pet is better soon annie. Cheers.
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4/15/2008 12:23 am |
Well, unfortunately, I know ALL too well what you went through. I am sorry that you experienced what you did. There are women out there who do very similar things. I guess I should write a blog sharing my experience and expose the perpetrator of a very hurtful hoax, all to get me to meet her. 
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4/15/2008 12:26 am |
Oh dear....... No, this does not sound vindictive at all...just a recounting of what happened. Thank you for setting so many women here straight..... As to why? You'll never know..... maybe he's just simply terrified of any form of intimacy....all sorts of reasons--but none of them excuse his behaviour to you and to others. Boils down to lack of honesty. But there are real and lovely people on this site...I met my sweetie here.... Flatlanderville...so it is possible! Now time to say: NEXT!!
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4/15/2008 12:31 am |
Hmmmmmmm Scott,Jeff,Dan,Philip or Phil...man of many names and faces is it really his...or someone else's...make you wonder don't it...Just to let you know...we had written a few emails...in FF and Yahoo...enjoyed them...but told me he never wrote to anyone else like he wrote to me...I thought interesting...won't say what was written but lets put it this way...real steamy...Like you hun...and I am sure there are many others out there...we all got sucked in...I had my feelings...or thoughts...that something just wasn't right but never could put my finger on it...I Had thought there might be more women he wrote to...so he once was called TJbug or something of that nature...ask MunchieMatron she knows...and is a very very very good friend of mine...she said Scott wrote the same way as tjbug...so how long has he been at this game...Rachieannelol...I feel your hurt and pain...and my heart goes out to you...you have read my blogs...and you said something that struck me as odd...but I understood...would love to have you email me...and talk...as I am sure there are others who would like to do so as well...I am here if you need to talk...again...I feel your hurt and pain... Always Silverx2
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4/15/2008 12:33 am |
He's writing to another friend of mine, too--she was waxing rhapsodic about him just last week. I told her to come over here and read this--please, please don't delete this post.
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4/15/2008 12:36 am |
I was hoping you weren't talking about Scott when you mentioned your affair. Maybe he's just some guy who enjoys going online and trying to upset women.
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4/15/2008 12:39 am |
How sad, that people think they have to deceive each other. Not that excuses him, but I wonder if he is afraid of a real relationship, and that's why he behaves like this? I guess we will never know. There are good men here, there really are.
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4/15/2008 12:41 am |
Rach I am so sorri to hear of your bad experience hun. I don't know the person, just seen the handle from time to time. It sucks big time to have someone do this to anyone. I hope you ae feeling okay, and why didn't you buzz me on IM, heck I could have shared a bottle of wine with ya. I don't even need an excuse Seriously, I am here if you want to vent. I won't say anymore. Hugs your way hun, Natalie
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4/15/2008 12:48 am |
Rach im sorry to hear this, im almost a victim too but im scared and have a doubt about him thats why i email ari to share all his emails to me lol....... after reading ari's reply to me i deleted him in my network friend
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4/15/2008 12:51 am |
You never need to read them...if you choose to do....here are the links...in the order written...Quick One from San Fran, When Words Obscure, Putting It Together, What do our words mean?, Your Soul To Keep. Perhaps they will help you to feel better...that you could not have easily seen.... You are not the only victim...and he is skilled at what he does. Big hugs to you....and lots of wishes for a swift recovery. I think you were very brave to write this.
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4/15/2008 1:37 am |
Charmaine...it is your comment that has given me the hardest time as to how to reply....elric has written with what you say, i am surprised you didn't post your observations here, as i knew all those things already, and i am sorry to say this but i think he has duped you as well, not in the falling in love part, but as a friend...he spoke to me about you and what he saw, that no-one else did...how sad and unhappy you were....he has told me his wife has death threats on him over his divorce...hmmm...i really don't have the time to write of all the things he told me of his life...but to write so passionatley and intimately, and on the phone and in his cards to me, but not just me, is indespicable and not from a kind honest man, who repeatedly told me he wrote to NO others....i believe now he is in a loveless, sexless marriage and gets his kicks this way....resurfacing under different handles when it gets too much, even on his last blog he said about resurfacing and recognising the writings....of course it is your choice to believe him and befriend him....from reading all the other comments on here i KNOW i made the right decision.....!!!!!....
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4/15/2008 1:45 am |
So sorry rach to have this happen to you,im aware of the ari episode,jeff had some of us worried here when he said goodbye in such a way that i thought of suicide,some of us were quite upset over it. I did suspect that scott was jeff,but never said. Im too reeling over heartache caused by a complete waster of my time,ive blogged how this male friend constantly let me down,he arranged to meet me last week at my house,i waited nothing,so i withheld my number rang him and he answered,i couldnt help it i called him a f/ing wanxxr,you get my drift,i then text him a barrage of onslaught,and cast him out of my life for good. Im a good person,kind and thoughtful,to be used and treated so appalingly was the last straw for me,no more chances.Im upset that a person has reduced me to what iam so not,i dont do abuse,but this had been building up for several months,like my husband said it was his final chance to make it all better,and he blew it,to blatantly ignore my texts on the wednesday asking him what were the arrangements for the following day,was just so RUDE!!!!! He inciated us meeting on the thursday,not me,the fact his phone was on implied he ignored me,not the first time either. Ive never been so disrespected before in my life,and im not going to put up with it now. So hun i know how it feels to be lead on,its cruel,my heart goes out to you,you are indeed a kind beautiful soul,dont let a mere man destroy you,be happy hes gone out of your life,i remember someone here in the blogs saying to me,dont be sad be glad,im using that mantra again to heal myself of the misery another human has caused. I hope bruce is okay,have yourself a wonderful day pretty lady. hugs and smiles for you jules xxxxxxx come and roll in the mud i wanna get dirty.
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4/15/2008 2:15 am |
I had no idea that you, or anyone else for that matter, were involved with him on any level at all. Our mails did not discuss anyone else or deal with deep personal matters. Somehow, I had missed Ari's blogs on the subject as well. I found his visions intriguing (very curious by nature) and his photographs to be incredibly artistic. Still do. I am truly sorry that you have been so mislead, and so deeply hurt.....
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4/15/2008 2:20 am |
So sorry rach to have this happen to you,im aware of the ari episode,jeff had some of us worried here when he said goodbye in such a way that i thought of suicide,some of us were quite upset over it. I did suspect that scott was jeff,but never said. Im too reeling over heartache caused by a complete waster of my time,ive blogged how this male friend constantly let me down,he arranged to meet me last week at my house,i waited nothing,so i withheld my number rang him and he answered,i couldnt help it i called him a f/ing wanxxr,you get my drift,i then text him a barrage of onslaught,and cast him out of my life for good. Im a good person,kind and thoughtful,to be used and treated so appalingly was the last straw for me,no more chances.Im upset that a person has reduced me to what iam so not,i dont do abuse,but this had been building up for several months,like my husband said it was his final chance to make it all better,and he blew it,to blatantly ignore my texts on the wednesday asking him what were the arrangements for the following day,was just so RUDE!!!!! He inciated us meeting on the thursday,not me,the fact his phone was on implied he ignored me,not the first time either. Ive never been so disrespected before in my life,and im not going to put up with it now. So hun i know how it feels to be lead on,its cruel,my heart goes out to you,you are indeed a kind beautiful soul,dont let a mere man destroy you,be happy hes gone out of your life,i remember someone here in the blogs saying to me,dont be sad be glad,im using that mantra again to heal myself of the misery another human has caused. I hope bruce is okay,have yourself a wonderful day pretty lady. hugs and smiles for you jules xxxxxxx
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4/15/2008 2:40 am |
You never need to read them...if you choose to do....here are the links...in the order written...Getting to know you...., When Words Obscure, Putting It Together, What do our words mean?, Your Soul To Keep. Perhaps they will help you to feel better...that you could not have easily seen.... You are not the only victim...and he is skilled at what he does. Big hugs to you....and lots of wishes for a swift recovery. I think you were very brave to write this. 
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4/15/2008 3:10 am |
Sorry to read about this. But like Tone said, and the comments have proved, you've done the right thing by putting this out in the open. Without a trace of vindictiveness either. Good luck with the Spanish
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4/15/2008 3:54 am |
Sorry to read about this. But like Tone said, and the comments have proved, you've done the right thing by putting this out in the open. Without a trace of vindictiveness either. Good luck with the Spanish
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4/15/2008 4:52 am |
 Have fun on your trip to Spain. If I had the resources I'd be there to cheer you up. Me too!jiffyblue
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4/15/2008 5:19 am |
Have fun on your trip to Spain. If I had the resources I'd be there to cheer you up. Me too!
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4/15/2008 6:37 pm |
Thanks Tone...i am so glad i did, i was so nervous about the reaction i would get...hence the wine...but after reading all this i am so glad i did...!!!!!...i don't know about searching again...i think it's just boos and me from now on....!!!! As to this reply... I love apples. One day I took a big bite of a juicy red and saw half of a worm. No prizes guessing where the other half was. But I still love apples. The moral of course, is... Don't let a little worm keep you from enjoying the fruit of life. Enjoy the ride. All you take with you when you leave is the experience.
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4/15/2008 6:55 pm |
Hi Belle, i am so glad you commented today...you won't believe this, but a couple of weeks ago, i woke very early and for the first time ever i brought my laptop to my bed and logged on, and read your blog on a letter you had received from a member, you had posted it without there permission...i straight away knew it was Scotts...i text him then went back to post on the blog but you had deleted it....Scott rang and i asked him and he denied it, and said you were coming on to him, and that he was going to ban you and silverx2 as i was not happy and to make me believe that nothing was going on....then you had problems with FF and thought someone might have banned you, people said no it was just a hitch, but you were right...since then he has unbanned you as after we spoke again about everything, i said i trusted him and that he shouldn't ban people from his blogs....so you see Belle, you were the sensible one, you were lucky that you know so many people and Ari was able to warn you, as i am new here people don't really know me, so i had to find out for myself, with a hint from Ari on one of Scotts blogs, when she called him Jeff...then i knew....i think we will all be aware if he does resurface again....have a great day... have a great day smile and be happy always
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4/15/2008 8:20 pm |
Hello Rach! i first saw MM's blog before this and i was asking her who the culprit was. REading your blog now, i have found the answer. This post will serve as a great warning to future victims of that man. I'm sorry he put you thru this mess. We all support you here and we condemn people like scott. take care. Growing old is inevitable. Growing up is optional
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4/15/2008 8:56 pm |
Thankyou sooooo much....it took a great deal thought to decide to post this blog, not knowing what would happen, but i see from all the comments here, i was justified....being hurt seems to be my life, i must have been really bad in my previous life....i only want someone to love and to share my life with, but i am now sure for me the internet is not the way....
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4/15/2008 10:38 pm |
have a wonderful trip to Spain.... and when you come back, let's hope all this will have ended. Wishing you happiness Misty
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4/16/2008 12:13 am |
Racc... have a wonderful time in Spain. Not too much alco plse since I won't be there to help you. Say hi if the guys meet you. Hugs and catch you soon.
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4/16/2008 12:27 am |
Racc... have a wonderful time in Spain. Not too much alco plse since I won't be there to help you. Say hi if the guys meet you. Hugs and catch you soon.
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4/16/2008 12:29 am |
First of all, you were amazingly civil. Don't think my post about something like this woulda cleared the FF censors. As to this reply... I love apples. One day I took a big bite of a juicy red and saw half of a worm. No prizes guessing where the other half was. But I still love apples. The moral of course, is... Don't let a little worm keep you from enjoying the fruit of life.
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4/16/2008 12:35 am |
I will admit it to you sometimes if i found person good to me i will invite them to my network friend, so just what i did i invited him and after that we exchange mail but my word to him is only smile always i can give you prof on that coz i still have a copy on my email you know what? i give my password to eimee to let her read of what scot email to me and have you notice it? everything i said hello to his blog he will reply i make him happy everytime i visit his post. as i said when i started doubts on him i email ari coz i saw his pic here before using tjrug. have a great day
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4/16/2008 12:39 am |
Hello Rach! i first saw MM's blog before this and i was asking her who the culprit was. REading your blog now, i have found the answer. This post will serve as a great warning to future victims of that man. I'm sorry he put you thru this mess. We all support you here and we condemn people like scott. take care.
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4/16/2008 12:44 am |
I was not duped by this man, but by another several years ago on another site, who, as those have explained this one to be, seemed to enjoy causing emotional havoc on women. Don't give up on the Internet....really. I know it's hard to trust again, but it's worth it. Myself, like Ari, have found someone very special who's nothing like the players I came across before. The good men are out there, you just have to look for them.
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4/16/2008 12:46 am |
have a wonderful trip to Spain.... and when you come back, let's hope all this will have ended.
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4/16/2008 4:12 am |
Hi Rach, I am very sorry to learn about what happened to you. It takes great courage to share a private pain with people, especially with those whom you may not even know. I read the open letter Ana posted yesterday, and I believe that those who play with others' emotion will sooner or later get played. Have a great time in Spain.May the sunshine there heal your pain and fill you with fresh dream and hope Agnes
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4/16/2008 4:46 am |
Hi Rach, I am very sorry to learn about what happened to you. It takes great courage to share a private pain with people, especially with those whom you may not even know. I read the open letter Ana posted yesterday, and I believe that those who play with others' emotion will sooner or later get played. Have a great time in Spain.May the sunshine there heal your pain and fill you with fresh dream and hope
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4/16/2008 7:18 am |
You know, I was reading his blogs---and they creeped me out. Thank God you dodged THIS bullet--the way he's ranting in his blog now, can you imagine how unhinged he could be in real life? Have a great time in Spain and have some pata negra for me. I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.
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4/16/2008 7:30 am |
So nice to see you here...i appreciate everyones comments, i keep reading again and again the comments and Ari's blogs, and although it makes me cry, it is healing, as i found out now rather than later....the spanish took a back seat while me and 'scott' communicated, but i will have to put myself on track again, when i get back from spain next week....thanks very much for your commments...and i have to say this...that photo, as many girlies are commenting on, is absolutely gorgeous...you should pop up to salou this weekend, i am trying to get tone and elric to come up and cheer me up, it would certainly be a good laugh....
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4/16/2008 10:55 am |
You know, I was reading his blogs---and they creeped me out. Thank God you dodged THIS bullet--the way he's ranting in his blog now, can you imagine how unhinged he could be in real life? Have a great time in Spain and have some pata negra for me. ...see you soon...
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4/16/2008 10:57 am |
I'd love to come to Salou, but I'm in Dagenham this weekend *sigh*
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4/16/2008 11:22 am |
Hiya Rach...first allow me to you to  you and to say you are a hero in my eyes  As painful as this was for you to speak about, I am hoping the | ||
