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Why do you fight? There are only two reasons women fight, for money or love. Why are women always competing for the attentions of men? Is it so important to have a man? Two women, once friends, will call each other an endless list of horrid names, pull out each others hair and scratch out each others eyes, because each is jealous of the attentions the other receives from a man. He is talking to both women, and denying it, but they will believe him over their instincts and eyesight. They want to believe him so strongly, they stop using common sense, logic and reasoning. Such women enable the playas. There are men finely attuned to reading women’s emotions, how they feel and how to manipulate those feelings. At any sign of weakness, some will take advantage. Beautiful women and celebrities are targeted most often, like naturally beautiful women who have been treated as nothing but objects since childhood, and told that all they are is a beautiful body. They live miserable lives beset by anorexia, bulimia and substance abuse. It is hard to pity them, living in wealth and splendor, but unhappy. Subject A, we shall call Ann. Ann is a celebrity, working in the “Entertainment Industry”. You have seen her face, even if you don’t know her name. At a recent party, said she wanted a man. An Ordinary Joe. Someone Real and Dependable. How does one respond to this? Brutally honest as I am, I replied, “Honestly Ann. You say you want a regular guy? No you don’t. Every time a regular guy comes up to you, you shun him, or if he’s cute or interesting enough, you turn them into one of your drinking buddies; your Clubbing Crew. You are only interested in beautiful men. Let’s review. Your last serious relationship, the Japanese actor, how did that end? In tears, after months of abuse from that sadist. The one before? What was he again? Oh yes, the model from Spain, and the Ausie actor before that? How many times did you catch them both cheating on you? But You went back to them, time after time. You choose your men by what others will think of you. How many girlfriends do you have? None. Not one. You are in so much competition with other women for work you have no chance to make any. Fear and envy are all you feel for other women. And you let, what any one of the other females in the industry might think of, dictate who your choice of man. Who, if not you, will see to your happiness? Born beautiful, never had to work at anything but staying beautiful. Getting on in years now though. Can’t keep it up forever. What will you do then? Who will you turn to then? Why do you let anyone Ever define you, as beautiful, ugly, successful or a has been?” We shall call Subject B, Betty. Betty is in her mid twenties, with an overdeveloped body, and works as an exotic dancer. Betty is very beautiful, physically, but has no self esteem at all. She has been a sex object since the age of 12. Her boy friends have been a line of abusive losers, which send her to work in clubs, live off their earnings, but spend their days playing video games, drinking beer and smoking grass. She works, they play. She honestly believes these parasites are the only men that will ever love her. She can not imagine having to think for herself. The idea of getting rid of the parasites and taking care of her self, leaves her trembling in fear. It is hard to pity them, but they are the glorified examples of women today. Self esteem is at all time lows. More pregnant, school dropouts and earlier sexual activity is on the rise. Conditions like agoraphobia are common around the world. Frequent stories in the news about men taking money from multiple girlfriends, then disappearing. Shelters for abused spouses are filled to capacity. The most heinous crimes like , pedophilia and pornography are daily occurrences around the world. More often, women have changed from being property to being objects or victims. Women have discovered they don’t have to accept such from men any more. Women are tossing out the trash everyday. Being alone isn’t the pariah to society it used to be. Women are spending more time and money on books and magazines, to learn how to love themselves. Learn to accept the advice friends give you, and not immediately assume they are trying to mislead you about a man. If the whole world thinks a man is not good, chances are he’s not good. If women started working together or trusting each other, the playas would suddenly be alone out in the cold. Learn to love yourself, and you will attract more and better men. We are all attracted to self assured women. Powerful and independent women are always sought. Tell us you don’t need us, and we will spend our lives trying to prove you do. After all, we are men. His Imperial Majesty, The Crowned Prince of Joy, The best, and always right, Jimy |
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1/25/2009 5:04 pm |
I don't fight either but i just keep quite till he ask himself why? What you see, what you hear, leave it here!
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i don't fight... hello james  the most beautiful view is the one I share with you
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Fighting with other woman for a man? That's really sad... I don't pity people who screw up their own life and yadda yadda afterwards.
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i dont fight.... farahdise 
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1/28/2009 8:36 am |
You don't compete? What you see, what you hear, leave it here!
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1/28/2009 12:42 pm |
I wouldnt fight over any man if he dosant want to be with me or is ify.I wouldnt be with him anyway. a guy/woman should like each other for who they are.Not worry about some other person sheesh
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YRH, I hope you're doing well and I hope recession doesn't interfere your business. Take care.
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jim my friend ...happy valentine's day to you have a great day farahdise
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2/13/2009 8:03 am |
Hi jAMES, you had a very catchy topic here...and thanks for opening our eyes for the sad reality in life that there are really women who fight just for a man,vying for the bastards attention,though not all men are the same as to not all women are also the same.loving oneself is the best way we can do no matter what we are. speaking for myself,i don't like fighting at all but i am not also that submissive.i have to speak my mind in everything,decision or whatsoever.for me,that is one way of expressing myself and i don't consider it fighting.as long as it will benefit not only me but the other party as well. more post my dear  Trisha
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