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bluejeans_baby
6/25/2008 9:25 pm |
Well June is almost over the most popular month for weddings, and he still hasn't proposed. Have you ever wondered why some times it seems to take ages to get a man to pop the question? Well I just read an article by Dr Laura Berman who states there are 3 main reasons men are slow to propose. One men don't here the clock ticking like we women do. Second men dread the wedding day. Third men fear having to propose. Let's face it ladies men don't have to fear the biological clock like we women do. They stay fertile usually till the day the die, even if the rest of the equipment doesn't work. Men unlike most women do not have the wedding fantasy's most women do. We as small children have our heads filled with story's of Princesses in beautiful gowns and our weddings are as close as most will ever get to wearing that princess grown and being queen for a day. Let's face it ladies, think how terrifying it must be for men to not only have to come up with something spectacular for a proposal I mean the ring in the baked potato, sky writing and having it put up on the big screen at a sporting event has been done. Then there is the fear you might say no. In a resent national survey it was found that 80% of unmarried heterosexual men do want to marry. So what do you think ladies, and you also guy's. All comments appreciated but please keep it civil, Thanks just things that run through annie's little mind 
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6/25/2008 10:20 pm |
True. In absolute agreement with you
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6/25/2008 11:19 pm |
I'm not saying I'd ever get married again....I really don't know about that...but fairytale weddings don't mean much to me. Yes, I'd like to do something special...but that's as simple as being married in a natural chapel...in a forest dripping with ferns... I think we all carry fears...and uncertainties. It can be hard to put your heart out on the line and hope that the other person feels the same way. And with the baggage so many people carry today....trust becomes a part of the equation. Wishing you love...and laughter. Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari 
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6/26/2008 4:05 am |
Ill marry a good man soon, a GREAT GUY..(where is he , by the way) be safe, L.A.S.M. "The wisest mind has something yet to learn"
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6/26/2008 4:30 am |
BJ, I think he will, he will realize it in the end that it's more fun to live with someone than live alone...and all the fuss he will go through in making a proposal will be worth it after the girl says YES...and finally the wedding. "It's magic when two people fall in love." 
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 6/26/2008 5:31 am |
Ill marry a good man soon, a GREAT GUY..(where is he , by the way) be safe, L.A.S.M. (¯`v´¯) `*.¸.*´ ¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•smile and be happy always
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 6/26/2008 7:20 am |
that is why I think we women should make things easier and drop all that big thing about the wedding day and the big question. How come do the guy have doubts about the woman accepting it or not? Haven't they discussed enough about their plans for the future? Why can't we be honest with the person we love?
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8/1/2008 8:40 am |
I personally don't avoid commiting, but I have been married once so at this point I won't avoid it but I do need time to get to know my partner as a friend. That things will work out, ya know?
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8/10/2008 11:03 pm |
This probably won't be a popular answer but this is my opinion, coming from a life long bachelor. If a guy dates you for any length of time, without marrying you; he most likely does not want to marry you. I have been in a few relationships where I enjoyed the lady's company - and the benefits that come with that - but I knew I was not interested in marrying her (and it didn't take too long to figure that out). As a result, the relationship didn't last too long, because I am no good at pretending, and am rather transparent. And truth be told, I would much rather be alone than in an unhappy or unfulfilling relationship. Now some have told me I am looking for something that doesn't exist; although I don't totally agree with that assessment, they do make good points. But at the end of the day, I go with my first instincts because those are the ones that are usually correct.
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8/11/2008 9:04 am |
Hey bluejeans baby,here is my opinion about marriage.I think that if you meet that true love,you will just know,something inside tells you that she is the one.For me about getting married and i have never,i would probally be a little nervous,but i would be ready,cause i would just know that it's time and you have found that person,so for me i wouldn't be afraid,but i do think that ever since women were little babies,they always dreamed about falling in love and getting married with there dreamboat.It just takes men a little longer to grow up and mature,thought i would express my feelings.By the way,i think you have a good personality,would like to chat with you if you are interested,if you are i will send a picture of me,so you will know who you are talking to.
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8/14/2008 1:52 pm |
Hey it's me again,seen that you sent me an e-mail,but friend finder won't let me read it.Want to talk to you,maybe we can get to know each other a little better,this is the only way i know how to contact you.They won't let me send you my e-mail address,hopefully we can figure something out.
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