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MunchkinMatron2 56F
9387 posts
2/8/2008 2:00 am
Einstein's Dreams


That's the title of this book I'm reading right now, written by Alan Lightman, one which I've gone back to again and again simply because I love the way he writes and the way he makes me think. My favorite chapter in the book, which, with your indulgence I shall share with you, goes thus:

"There is a place where time stands still. Raindrops hang motionless in the air. Pendulums of clocks float mid-swing. Dogs raise their muzzles in silent howls. Pedestrians are frozen on the dusty streets, their legs cocked as if held by strings. The aromas of dates, mangoes, coriander and cumin are suspended in space.

As a traveler approaches this place from any direction, he moves more and more slowly. His heartbeats grow farther apart, his breathing slackens, his temperature drops, his thoughts diminish, until he reaches dead center and stops. For this is the center of time. From this place, time travels outward in concentric circles--at rest at the center, slowly picking up speed at greater diameters.

Who would make pilgrimage to the center of time? Parents with , and lovers.

And so, at the place where time stands still, one sees parents clutching their , in frozen embrace that will never let go. The beautiful young with blue eyes and blonde hair will never stop smiling the smile she smiles now, will never lose this soft pink glow on her cheeks, will never grow wrinkled or tired, will never get injured, will never unlearn what her parents have taught her, will never think thoughts that her parents don't know, will never know evil, will never leave her room with the view of the ocean, will never stop touching her parents as she does now.

And at the place where time stands still, one sees lovers kissing in the shadows of buildings, in a frozen embrace that will never let go. The loved one will never take his arms from where they are now, will never give back the bracelet of memories, will never journey far from his lover, will never place himself in danger in self-sacrifice, will never fail to show his love, will never become jealous, will never fall in love with someone else, will never lose the passion of this instant in time.

One must consider that these statues are illuminated by only the most feeble red light, for light is diminished almost to nothing at the center of time, its vibrations slowed to echoes in vast canyons, its intensity reduced to the faint glow of fireflies.

Those not quite at dead center do indeed move, but at the pace of glaciers. A brush of the hair might take a year, a kiss might take a thousand. While a smile is returned, seasons pass in the outer world. While a is hugged, bridges rise. While a goodbye is said, cities crumble and are forgotten.

And those who return to the outer world... grow rapidly, forget the centuries-long embrace from their parents, which to them lasted but seconds. become adults, live far from their parents, live in their own houses, learn ways of their own, suffer pain, grow old. curse their parents for trying to hold them forever, curse time for their own wrinkled skin and hoarse voices. These now old also want to stop time, but at another time. They want to freeze their own at the center of time.

Lovers who return find their friends are long gone. After all, lifetimes have passed. They move in a world they do not recognize. Lovers who return still embrace in the shadows of buildings, but now their embraces seem empty and alone. Soon they forget the centuries-long promises, which to them lasted only seconds. They become jealous even among strangers, say hateful things to each other, lose passion, drift apart, grow old and alone in a world they do not know.

Some say it is best not to go near the center of time. Life is a vessel of sadness, but it is noble to live life, and without time there is no life. Others disagree. They would rather have an eternity of contentment, even if that eternity were fixed and frozen,like a butterfly mounted in a case."


I keep going back to this chapter because I keep thinking, given a choice, which would I pick? And if I were to pick a moment to fix for eternity, which moment would it be?

What about you?

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


potterspal 64F

2/8/2008 4:44 am

This is riveting stuff!! I'll definitely have to find this book...and the time for it.
I don't like choices.....I want it all! LOL!!
Fantastic post!!!


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 4:58 am

    Quoting  :

I keep bringing his book around--it's a collection of vignettes of how time can be viewed differently--what if time fractured, so that parts of your world moved at different paces? What if cause and effect were erratic, with the latter sometimes preceding the former?

Life is but a blink in the eye of eternity, indeed.

Huggsssss, Heavens. Just me rambling, as usual.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 5:01 am

    Quoting potterspal:
    This is riveting stuff!! I'll definitely have to find this book...and the time for it.
    I don't like choices.....I want it all! LOL!!
    Fantastic post!!!
I'm the same, and I keep thinking, which moment, which moment? My wedding? The birth of my children? Their first steps, first words, first laugh?

Thanks for popping by, potters. This book really fascinates me, and I just had to share it here.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


time2refresh 68M

2/8/2008 5:06 am

The image of suspended raindrops, embraces that last for ever, returning to the outer world and finding things changed .... To me they evoke the ideas of things we all, already have, and will God willing gain more of.

Our memories.

Is part of all of us at this place, the centre of time?

P.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 5:16 am

    Quoting time2refresh:
    The image of suspended raindrops, embraces that last for ever, returning to the outer world and finding things changed .... To me they evoke the ideas of things we all, already have, and will God willing gain more of.

    Our memories.

    Is part of all of us at this place, the centre of time?

    P.
This is a lovely way of looking at this, and I love that what Lightman wrote gives rise to different interpretations, none wrong, all interesting.

I like your idea of our memories being at the center of time, in suspended animation, ours to look back on and savor again and again.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


jake_633 65M
9155 posts
2/8/2008 5:24 am

Who's a melancholy puppy then?lol
I'd say all the moments of our lives are fixed and still in our memories so we need never travel further than our thoughts to be in that other world.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 6:09 am

    Quoting jake_633:
    Who's a melancholy puppy then?lol
    I'd say all the moments of our lives are fixed and still in our memories so we need never travel further than our thoughts to be in that other world.
Aye, I'm Lassie with a cantaloupe tonight, Hamish lad.

Sometimes, watching how quickly my sons are growing up, I wish I had a pause button I could hit, so I could savor their childhood just a wee bit longer.

That, and probably because I'm hitting 40 this year. LOL

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 4:11 pm

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Hi Lydia! I know that feeling---it's a wonderful, wonderful feeling, and I've been blessed to have experienced it twice over.

Thanks for popping by--I know you must be busy with Mirin being there--I am just SO happy for you, and wish you both all the best.

Hugs!

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 4:17 pm

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A serious post from me, too---whodathunk? I think camming with each other scrambled our thought processes somehow. My Dance With The Two Veils probably rerouted all our synapses.

Sometimes I have such perfect moments with Paul and the boys that I'd think, would that this moment last forever.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 4:20 pm

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Oooooo, a dryersheet moment.

Wait, wait, this is so momentous it must most definitely be termed A Dryersheet Moment. (Hey, sounds like a title for a book! Or at least a laundry ad!)

Fluffy puffy!!!

Huggssssss!

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 4:23 pm

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You have such a unique perspective on things that I can't wait to read what you come up with later, Flo.

Can you imagine the conversations we'd have?

Love and hugs,

Ana



I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 4:24 pm

    Quoting  :

From the Ohmibod/Sinulator to Einstein's Dreams.

I really swing both ends of the pendulum goooooooood.

Hugs and have a great weekend, Alec!



I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


royalpurple
(Lei I)
44F
3188 posts
2/8/2008 8:31 pm

i believe that life is predestined for us. We have a myriad of choices, yes, and we can choose whatever path we may lead or change our course a bit. But in the end, it's still that unseen force which blows our fate.

From my heart to yours, Love and Light!


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 11:52 pm

    Quoting royalpurple:
    i believe that life is predestined for us. We have a myriad of choices, yes, and we can choose whatever path we may lead or change our course a bit. But in the end, it's still that unseen force which blows our fate.
I've some trouble with the concept of pre-destination, simply because it totally negates the notion of free will. Even if we seem to be offered a myriad of choices, if in the end, we choose what we did because that was what was predestined for us, did we really have any choice in the matter? Can a smoker then say, I was predestined to be a smoker and no matter what choices I made, it was already fait accompli that this would happen?

Are they truly choices, then, or nothing more than us fulfilling something pre-programmed and inevitable?

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 11:55 pm

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I'm beginning to think I'm too much of the curious sort to ever want to be frozen in time, though it is so tempting to want to hold on to some moments. But inevitably I think I would go, what's next?

Thinking is thirsty work. Let's have some more malted milk, Pilgrim Dan.

Matron Barker

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/8/2008 11:57 pm

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Speaking of time going by so fast---I've only got less than three months before I turn 40!!!

I think I'll go have a brownie.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/9/2008 2:34 am

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Happy Birthday in advance, Dean!!

I'll try doing that. Hopefully I'll be young and hip again in 20 years.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/9/2008 2:35 am

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Ooooo, forgot to tell you they were FUDGE brownies, Pilgrim Dan.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


bellezia 49F
28470 posts
2/9/2008 3:54 am

Happy weekend

the most beautiful view
is the one I share with you


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/9/2008 7:00 am

You too, belle!

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


4ever_fun
(Michelle B)
57F

2/9/2008 5:00 pm

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I have to say I am with Levi on this.....I am grateful for ever experiencing the good the bad and the ugly....every moment is for its time a butterfly's kiss. If I look at the past with yearning, I miss the future prospect of finding that all I ever wanted has been there all along. "Life is a grand oil painting....you are the artist, the masterpiece you have in the end is of course your own making."

Good things come to those who wait; remember to live while you do the waiting!!

~*Michelle*~


4ever_fun
(Michelle B)
57F

2/9/2008 5:02 pm

holy moly....that was not a bad comment if I say so myself...

Good things come to those who wait; remember to live while you do the waiting!!

~*Michelle*~


4ever_fun
(Michelle B)
57F

2/9/2008 6:35 pm

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....you know I can come up with a million of these.......we should start our own think tank....but lets not get tanked as we are thinking...it is very unproductive

Good things come to those who wait; remember to live while you do the waiting!!

~*Michelle*~


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/9/2008 7:24 pm

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Hail SL, fellow Lightman fan! I love how he phrases his paragraphs---simple words, yet put together sublimely, wordcrafting at its best. Gow reminds me of him, actually--probably why I like reading that Welsh git a lot, and I say that fondly.

As I grow older, I keep looking back on all those wonderful memories, some of them I want to relive again, but as you and a lot of other people pointed out, being frozen in time means giving up the chance to live the next moment.

Hugs, hope you're feeling better. Thank you for dropping by my blog too--it's always wonderful to see you here.

I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.


MunchkinMatron2 56F
13333 posts
2/9/2008 7:33 pm

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I know! What if the next moment is when you flippitova?



I'm dyslexic. I scream Ho Dog instead of Oh God in the throes of passion.