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" marriage is a business"
bellezia
8/28/2008 6:09 pm

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btw, did you notice what i noticed ff? well something new about the site but then the front page of the blogs still frozen for more than a week now..

sharing to you the message which is my boss send to a lady who we think is interested to him.. a thoughts from ~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe.

"If I love you, what business is it of yours?"

and also the words he said to me that belle always bear in your mind that now a days " marriage is a business".. huh im still thinking about it...




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driverdan
17177 posts 

8/28/2008 7:28 pm

" marriage is a business".. huh I'm still thinking about it...

"If I love you, what business is it of yours?"


amiga and this is coming from a man??

ok now i thought it was woman who confused men now it looks like men do the same to woman

love is love anytime love is put in as a business
thats where the confusion starts

i would marry for love
not business
call me old fashion
dan

help me understand this

bellezia
20342 posts 

8/28/2008 7:36 pm

    Quoting driverdan:
    " marriage is a business".. huh I'm still thinking about it...

    "If I love you, what business is it of yours?"


    amiga and this is coming from a man??

    ok now i thought it was woman who confused men now it looks like men do the same to woman

    love is love anytime love is put in as a business
    thats where the confusion starts

    i would marry for love
    not business
    call me old fashion
    dan

    help me understand this

coming from a man who is now 38 years old and still single never been married but married in his business

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bellezia
20342 posts 

8/28/2008 7:40 pm

    Quoting driverdan:
    " marriage is a business".. huh I'm still thinking about it...

    "If I love you, what business is it of yours?"


    amiga and this is coming from a man??

    ok now i thought it was woman who confused men now it looks like men do the same to woman

    love is love anytime love is put in as a business
    thats where the confusion starts

    i would marry for love
    not business
    call me old fashion
    dan

    help me understand this

me too.. i want to marry a man who i love not for business .. this topic happened in the middle of our conversation here in the office yesterday afternoon when i received a call for him from a lady who always have a different name everytime she calls so that my boss will answer her i can't imagine myself in i only marry a man fro a business

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smile and be happy always

driverdan
17177 posts 

8/28/2008 9:08 pm

    Quoting bellezia:
    coming from a man who is now 38 years old and still single never been married but married in his business
thank you amiga for answering me on this

i know what that means about being married to your business. when i had my trucking company thats all i had time for, working and keeping up my equipment. the paper work and permits were stressful and time consuming. as it was only me and my sister who were ruining the company. but even then, i was not ready to commit to a marriage. my plan was to work hard then look for a life partner to share with when i was older.

macute_lei
340 posts 

8/28/2008 10:13 pm

marriage=business? it's like a prenup thing,isn't it? what's yours is yours, what's mine is mine...

bellezia
20342 posts 

8/29/2008 12:19 am

    Quoting driverdan:
    thank you amiga for answering me on this

    i know what that means about being married to your business. when i had my trucking company thats all i had time for, working and keeping up my equipment. the paper work and permits were stressful and time consuming. as it was only me and my sister who were ruining the company. but even then, i was not ready to commit to a marriage. my plan was to work hard then look for a life partner to share with when i was older.

welcome amigo .... i can relate to you amigo coz my brother next to me who is now 32 years still no plan to have a gf coz all he want to devote his time in his buy and sell business... well that is their life

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bellezia
20342 posts 

8/29/2008 12:20 am

    Quoting macute_lei:
    marriage=business? it's like a prenup thing,isn't it? what's yours is yours, what's mine is mine...
yes lei..kinda like that

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gorgeous_asian2
3900 posts 

8/29/2008 2:40 am

oh wow! does that mean i have to pay to be married? this reminds me of a guy from a chat room... he said he wants to marry me but i have to pay his family a dowry!!! haha! told him not interested.lol and to think it was just a virtual chat.. but seriously he said that thats the tradition in their country.. whatever! oh he's from turkey btw.. oh well, that was odd! maybe something like what ur saying.. "marriage is a business?" lol what going on with this world? pretty sis.. maybe thats a good biz then!

have a fun weekend..

JuSt An OrDiNaRy GiRl WiTh XtRa OrDiNaRy DrEaMs!

3girlsmom

8/29/2008 6:11 am

I consider myself an expert on marriage, nothing like independent study.

I absolutely believe marriage should be formatted like a business. You need to have a business plan. All the criteria of love, lust, passion, desire, friendship, compatibility, finances, family and future failures and growth should be considered.

Absolutely, should be a business. That is why so many restaurants fail. No business plan. The idea of making pizza seems fun, but get up and make it everyday and see how fun it is.

Considering the amount of time that is invested in so many WEDDINGS...all that planning and organizing...yet how much do couples invest in formatting the business plan of their marriage.

I wish I had done it this time around, I'm sure I would have never been given the loan.

Arrifairy
1278 posts

8/29/2008 10:12 am

Sometimes you can look at it as a business...but you shouldn't because then it wont last.
Anyway there is ...we are compatible...education and social status...ok.
And then there is I don't care what he is, I love him...if you can have both is a miracle and that is heaven on earth, only most of the time people look at ...we are compatible ...more then...you make me happy.
So there is it...it can be a business...and unfortunately sometimes it is.
Have a good weekend!

"Never look back, the future is so close!"

Angie

bellezia
20342 posts 

8/29/2008 7:20 pm

    Quoting gorgeous_asian2:
    oh wow! does that mean i have to pay to be married? this reminds me of a guy from a chat room... he said he wants to marry me but i have to pay his family a dowry!!! haha! told him not interested.lol and to think it was just a virtual chat.. but seriously he said that thats the tradition in their country.. whatever! oh he's from turkey btw.. oh well, that was odd! maybe something like what ur saying.. "marriage is a business?" lol what going on with this world? pretty sis.. maybe thats a good biz then!

    have a fun weekend..
what if he will be the one to pay for your family? nothing im just thinking what my boss shared to me...who knows someday my mind will think the way he thinks hahaha have a great weekend.. punta me iloilo in an hour..

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(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•
smile and be happy always

agag_00_back
1557 posts 

8/31/2008 7:30 am

Marriage requires constant nurture and careful management. It requires lifelong credibility of both sides. From those perspectives, it does seem to reflect certain similar characteristics to those of business, doesn't it?

Have a great day, Belle!

Agnes

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