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2/9/2007 11:33 am |
Never in a million years would I date or even cultivate a crush on a married man. This is a large part of the reason I won’t start with a guy on the Internet…so many of them are married. Long time ago I had a secret kind of crush and the second I heard he had a wife the crush was over. I know a lot of people don't have that kind of self discipline...I do. There are a lot of single men in the world and I’m not a woman who wants to share not even a teeny little bit. Even if there’s a recent ex I consider her a problem. I deserve a guy who is well away from any emotional/physical attachment with another woman and I completely understand why a guy would expect the same of any woman he had a serious interest in. I can accept nothing less than total and complete devotion because that is what I have always given and if I cannot give it I’m gone. Yeah I guess I’m pretty staunch about loyalty and sincerity regardless of how I may feel attracted to a guy. A married man (even a guy with a steady girlfriend) is off limits to other women in my world and if he’s sniffing around he’s a louse or at the very least emotionally and ethically challenged. I'm sorry to hear you got hurt by this type of man. To tell or not to tell that is the question.
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2/9/2007 1:35 pm |
I would never cheat on my on gender, to me its womans rule never to be with a man that is married or in a relationship. Its a wonderful night for a moondance
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2/9/2007 7:15 pm |
Respect his wife as we respect ourselves.
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2/10/2007 12:28 am |
I Agree with Earth 100% I give my all i deserve the same nothing less I dont want a man whos with me then goes home to the wife/ girl friend Nor would i think of doing that, Wives know they arent silly What goes around comes around. He will end up with no one.
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2/10/2007 4:46 am |
Siding with you Earth. Very scary if we might have congenital warts for having multiple partners.
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2/11/2007 1:52 am |
Date, as in, "to have \bsexo?\b with them"? Yes, of course. But if the woman is having \bsexo?\b with another man, then she is indeed cheating, because a woman usually only has \bsexo?\b with a man when she is emotionally attached to him. However a married man can have \bsexo?\b and not be emotionally attached to the other woman, so he is not cheating. If he gets emotionally involved with her, then he is cheating. But if he is only having meaningless \bsexo?\b with a woman who is not married, then chances are pretty good she is just doing it, because he is married and she is safe from any kind of commitments to him. Now his wife, she is going to interpret this as cheating on the marriage because she is thinking men need to be emotionally connected to have \bsexo?\b...and she is wrong.
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2/14/2007 6:40 am |
I've dated two married men. Their wives knew about me and had did not have problems with the arrangement. One had problems with intercourse, lots of pain. She loved her husband, just couldn't have $ex. The other had just married her husband for financial stability. The second one actually drove her husband to my house for a date. She liked me because I picked up after their toddler when I visited with him. NO Sky, I did NOT have any particular feelings for these men. It was simple \bsexo?\b. These guys were safe for me since they didn't run around. They were married so wouldn't expect or want to marry me. I was at a point in my life where I didn't want entanglements. I will not/would not go behind another woman's back.
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2/14/2007 7:09 am |
Frankly, this is a mess - forgive me if my opinion may sound disrespected and prejudice. i didn't intend to judge you; sadly, women are not in the society in the position of advantage when it comes to relationship with men. only feel that you're better off the sooner you untangle it. the man who has no respects and sensitivity to his woman, the very-loving-care giving wife; what would he has to offer to you or any women? you have all the power to refuse being a part of what may cause her "humiliation and embarrassment" and crushed because of the action. it's your choice. wish you all the best.
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2/17/2007 1:19 am |
Date, as in, "to have \bsexo?\b with them"? Yes, of course. But if the woman is having \bsexo?\b with another man, then she is indeed cheating, because a woman usually only has \bsexo?\b with a man when she is emotionally attached to him. However a married man can have \bsexo?\b and not be emotionally attached to the other woman, so he is not cheating. If he gets emotionally involved with her, then he is cheating. But if he is only having meaningless \bsexo?\b with a woman who is not married, then chances are pretty good she is just doing it, because he is married and she is safe from any kind of commitments to him. Now his wife, she is going to interpret this as cheating on the marriage because she is thinking men need to be emotionally connected to have \bsexo?\b...and she is wrong.
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2/17/2007 1:53 am |
not married not boyfriend if i know im not attracted at all
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2/18/2007 12:30 am |
Green, First off, I agree with whomever said about they found out that their husband was cheating on them thru the other women. You should indeed contact her and let her know about it. Save the emails to show her. I would never date a man that is married and living with his wife. That is totally out of the question. I think that the marriage vows should be taken. When I first started dating and moved in with my late husband. He was married, but seperated for quite sometime. I do not want a man that I can't have his love unconditionally and spend all the time with him that we would like, because of him living with his wife. Also, green you know just like in here if you are in chat put him on iggy that way you won't have to be bothered by him at all. Good Luck to you and I hope you do the proper thing in this matter. Gloria   
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2/22/2007 5:36 pm |
So, in conclusion, (married) men are not cheating having zex with other single/married women as long as he is not emotionally attached to them. Correct? Superb..just superb!! I speculate many thousands possibly hundreds of thousands of marriage could have continued if both genders were wise to the behavior of men and women and what to expect from prolonged captivity to one. Probably shame and guilt never had to be a factor, in many cases.
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