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Just don't understand......... If you were chatting with someone online for a while and ya'll started liking one another, would you invite him to come to where you are and live with you? Without even knowing what he look like first? He knows what you look like and has pictures, but you have absolutely no clue on his looks. This is not something I would personally do, cause I would think of my first! I mean have him come to your town first and meet him in a public place, then gradually go from there. I think it's to dangerous now a days to do this stuff. I just hope the person I know that did this does not get hurt. |
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1/29/2007 7:10 pm |
Good lord no. I met my husband on a personals site we have here for our province. We chatted for a month on MSN, then exchanged phone numbers and photos. When we decided to meet, I made sure my son was at the sitters for the night...........we had a wonderful dinner, wonderful evening. But I certianly wouldn't have invited him to live with me, without knowing what he looked like. Unfortunatly, we are all human, and looks do mean something to us, if your not physically attracted to someone it's not going to work out. *Smiles*  Live, Love, Laugh......*Smiles*
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1/29/2007 8:38 pm |
Lisa it is very sad to hear that you know someone who did this. I would not recommend anyone do this, no matter how lonely, how trusting, or how much they think they know about this person. It would never be enough to just invite them to join them without knowing what they look like, knowing what they are really about, and if there are children, knowing whether or not there children would be safe. There are so many dishonest people in this World, even knowing a person nowadays you never really know them. The only thing left for you to do is stay in close contact with them. Listen to them and see if you pick up on any of the signs that there is trouble, just do what you can. Angelica
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1/29/2007 10:43 pm |
Would I agree to live with a man I had never seen before? Not a chance. In the early days of Internet very few people posted pictures. I met several men in a public place with no picture. I met my last boyfriend after only talking on the phone and I had never seen a picture of him. Now I would not do that simply because there is no need to go blind...everyone has access to a way to post a pic. I would never live with a man again unless I get married or we are engaged to marry with a date set for the marriage. Common law is not my style. I compromised and did this for my last guy and never will compromise again. It was a disaster.
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