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winteryzhang
5/27/2008 6:54 pm

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5/30/2008 1:39 am

my youngest aunt has a risk of marriage.
her husband has an affair with a young lady.
ironically,my aunt just had a little boy,you know in the village,people prefer male.i think that things will be gonna better.why?
he betrayed her at this time.
how can he do this to her?my aunt has done so much for the family and sacrifice everything,her carreer.she does not deserve this.i can not understand.she is too kind,generous.is it her fault?
he asked for her forgiveness.we do not prepare to let it go easily according to my mom' idea.i really can not think out what is wrong.he said,he just makes use of the girl to earn money.how?nothing.
marriage is unsafe.others,ourselves.we shall rely only on ourselve.it is a lesson to me,i shall learn from it.
now i had a problem.i doubt marriage.

give me the things...
Arrifairy
1102 posts

5/27/2008 7:26 pm

Dear Wintery,

I can understand your pain and doubt, I went though what your aunt went as well, not every man is the same.
I look at my sister's marriage, her husband is the sweetest most carring man I have ever known. He would do anything for her and their son.
Don't give up and don't doubt marriage, it's not always bad and not all man are bad.

Kindest wishes to your aunt, I hope all works out.

"Never look back, the future is so close!"

Angie

Mistytraveller
9292 posts 

5/27/2008 7:43 pm

Not all men, thankfully, are the idiots your aunt's husband is.... In fact many men I've met want simple things out of life: family, home--and are willing to work very hard for those things.

Wishing you happiness

Misty

Enkantada08
65 posts 

5/27/2008 11:17 pm

The girls before me have said this but i will say this again: Not all men are the same. And never doubt marriage. Your aunt's husband don't have the right reason to find another girl for money. How much way i put it, it is just not right.

I hope your idea of men and marriage change with time, and for the better.

odette317
361 posts 

5/28/2008 3:54 am

Marriage is a good thing, you just have to find the right man, someone who is faithful and will do anything to keep the marriage strong and steadfast. Goodluck to you.

"It's magic when two people fall in love."

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